Migraines are a problem for me, too, and Excedrin Migraine is not on the list of approved OTC meds. Thus far (knock on wood) I haven't had one, but you're right, caffeine would definitely be in order there!!
I drank diet Coke up until I found out I was pregnant with Timothy. Then I decided to be good and give it up. After I passed out in Walmart, my doctor told me that I could have 1 can or 1 small diet coke each day and it would be ok. It would actually help with my low blood pressure. So, I did, and Timothy turned out ok, my migraines never came back, and I didn't pass out again. Now that he's nursing, I'm still limiting my caffeine intake, but I don't know if I could give it up altogether. I try to drink my caffeine early in the morning, so it won't really affect Timothy's sleeping schedule (like he really has one!)
As to your parenting...I know you and Jonathan are going to be great parents. Most of it is trial and error, but kids are resilient and can handle a lot of mistakes by parents.
Good luck with the conferences!
for Stephanie.
I've never heard her referred to as such! 
Avery has escaped with just a bit of a cold it seems, which is a blessing but also makes me more concerned about whatever Elise is battling. Boo. 
Between that and the ice storm before, there are still trees coming down everywhere, etc.
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She's a VP of our twins club, and I just can't even begin to imagine.......
) so I don't know that we'd take that chance, but it's not totally unrealistic. A lot of moms I know who do IVF go that route sometimes (not that you can guarantee it, but you know what I'm saying). But THREE?! That extra baby makes a big difference! 
I wish it was going to be longer than an overnight trip though.


I took it last night, and pretty much slept through the night, which has not happened in WEEKS (just been generally uncomfortable, up/down to the bathroom, etc.) It was not painful to get out of bed this morning, either! I've actually had a little bit of breakfast, which I haven't been able to stomach for a while.

Call me vain, but I CAN'T bear the sight of my ghostly white legs. 