Well I wouldn't find it ridiculous considering I spent the majority of my day at Universal for instance sitting out waiting for my husband to ride rides and we're just 2 people touring the parks and that's with me not being able to even ride many of those rides. For as much comments people have about this splitting up (which sometimes is just assumptions on how it would go prior to the DAS interview and other times it is the advice recommended after the DAS interview) it's honestly getting to the point of borderline rude to talk about it the way some are.
It's not because no one understands that many would like to be in line with their families but it's the adjectives used such as ridiculous, going on vacation to be together, family time, etc. Those of us who do it already are now aren't being ridiculous, aren't taking away our family time, etc even if we would love to always be in line with our traveling party.
I have been to WDW in 2011, 2017 and 2022, DL in 2019 twice, USO in 2011, 2017 and 2022 with my husband (I've been to the parks prior to these years too but it was before I met my husband) and we're about to do Tokyo
Disneyland/DisneySea in a few months. Never have I felt like we were not able to get time together, never have I felt like we weren't having family time. When I went to Silver Dollar City with my DISer friends in 2022 I sat out on quite a few rides but I never felt like we weren't having our time together or that it was ridiculous. Interesting that you speak of Universal because I can only ride a few rides there and yet I have just as much fun there at WDW. Give me MIB or E.T. or Seuess High in the Sky and I'm a happy person (P.S. if you go to Universal and can handle sit down theater shows with some loud noises check out Bourne Stuntacular I personally wear my noise reduction headphones for that due to sudden loud noises but the show we really liked).
It's 1000% understandable if someone does feel that way for themselves but there's also extending that understanding to those of us who do this on the regular that we're not somehow not enjoying ourselves, that it's a ridiculous expectation, that we're not having family time on a trip. And this is all with the difference that I'm not actually riding these rides with my husband and what is being talked about
is still riding the rides with your traveling party. I think I'm spending even less time with my husband while touring the parks than many people here talking about loss of family time (just based on the comments) and it's drastically different how I look at our vacation.