I am so with you on this one. I am practically wishing Xmas away. BCVBruce, congratulations to you and yours. Here is what I would have liked as a treat (being a mother of 3):
-a spa treatment. Not massages because the oils they use can be harmful in early pregnancy. maybe a manicure/ pedicure/ facial.
-jewellry or momento of the Mickey kind. They have beautiful crystal castles etc. Or design your own pin when you get there to say thankyou/ you're wonderful.
-a child-free dinner with her favourite foods. Check if DW is feeling queasy as the last thing she may want is to be in a restaurant smelling of fish, for example.
-be understanding that DW can't go on everything and take it at her pace without any guilt on your part. SIMPLE BUT SO EFFECTIVE!
-Fireworks cruise
-Special dessert from GF bakery eg. cinderella slipper.
If I think of any more, I'll come back. Congratulations and much pixie dust,
Claire