Ooh, so happy to find this!! I've been watching for a few years now, and thought I will continue to watch, even I'll admit its really starting to become a horrible train wreck. Even more than it was before...
Just commenting on some of the comments I've read so far....
I totally agree that a lot of the drama is staged (just like on every reality show) but there has to be truth behind all of it, or else real law suits wouldn't have been filed.
I thought Nia's video looked amazing! Yes Holly was talking it up to all the other moms, and dropping names, but in my opinion, she was proud, and just trying to share, and shes 1000 miles away from home, so who else is she going to share with?? If they hadn't been jealous of it to begin with, they wouldn't have taken issue with it.
Allowing your dance teacher to pit child against child (like when Abby told Jill it was a competition between her daughter and Nia for the better video), and standing there when she rips them apart is horrible. I DO NOT believe in the "everyone gets a trophy" way of thinking at all, but to attack children the way she does is pretty sickening. I couldn't imagine allowing anyone to speak to my child that way.
If you think Nia's video was to mature due to the outfits of the male dancers, what did you think of Maddies video??? lol
I also wonder why they are still entering jr dance competitions out in LA. I mean, they are there to start getting acting/modeling/print work - Its not like jr dance competitions are going to get them there!! I understand thats how the show started, but it seems rather stupid to me now. I mean, I doubt most people (other than people who actually have an interest in dance) watch it for that anyway. They are watching for the drama and craziness if Abby and the moms.
And lastly.... If Holly has so many reasons to dislike Abby, and doesn't feel like she gives her daughter a fair shot in competitions, or any attention for her music/acting/modeling career.... THEN WHY IS SHE STILL THERE???? I will admit that I agree with 99% of what Holly says about Abby - So if I felt that way about my daughters mentor - I would get her the **** outta there!! Shes famous now because of the show, and doesn't need to be there, dealing with the abuse and nastiness anymore!!
