Cute things turned annoying....

[Wolfen-Sensei]

Well, there are some things that about my friends that were ok at first but now they annoy the hell out of me! Like Bobby's sense of humor, for instance...

 

[CathrynRose]

DH thinks it is ok to wake me up, no matter when or how long I've been sleeping to ask the dumbest questions. 6:15 in the morning.."Are there clean jeans in the basement?" (Go look!). Middle of the night, he is wide awake, so he starts looking through paperwork on the desk. I get woken up with a "what is this?" Now I am supposed to know immediately upon wakening, without even looking at what is in his hand, what "this" is. IF I ask "what are you talking about?" he gets mad. But my favorite all time question is..."are you sleeping?" Nope Its 2am, lights are out and my eyes are closed, but I'm not sleeping.

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Mine does this too - In my house, when I was a kid, infact even with my ex-husband, sleep was a very important, respected thing. You were'nt allowed to wake someone up, unless there was a fire.

My fiance will do exactly this - when I had a few days off, he even woke me, EARLY, to let me know "Im leaving now"

Like I was gonna wake up and be like "OH NO! Where on earth is he??? <<sobbing>> He's gone! GONE!"

LOL! I'm enjoying reading this thread - it's funny seeing that "theyre all the same" But we still 'em!!!

 

[Shugardrawers]

Dh wakes me every morning at 4:30am to kiss me goodbye. I don't mind that though because if something happened to him I would have had a last kiss from him. We always kiss and say I love you when one of us leaves even for just a little bit. Life is uncertain and you just never know. I want the last words my Dh ever hears from me to be I love you, because I do. With all my heart. Even though I think he's going to kill us with his driving some day

 

[Tigger&Belle]

Another thing he does is ask me where everything is before he even looks for it. The other night he asked me where the bread was. He'll ask me where his shoes are. I have not read one thing that dh doesn't do yet this is so funny. He wakes me up for stupid questions too.

AS Rosanne Barre used to say, "the uterus is not a tracking device!".

And mine cannot remember anything, either. I used to find it annoying, but it's past that now. It's actually scary and I want him to get checked out to see if there is anything causing the memory problems. Of course he forgets to make the appt.

 

[MELSMICE]

Another favorite question...this time when I'm awake. "were you watching that?" as he starts flipping channels on the remote. Nope..I was just sitting on the couch starring at the TV, waiting for you to get home to change the channels for me!

My DH does this same thing &, yes, it is annoying. He usually says, "Is this what we're watching right now?" & gives me a look like, "you're kidding me, right?"

UGH!!!!!

 

[florida-again]

I used to love the fact that BF was so amazingly clean, as I know men can be a bit lapse...

but having spent soooo many hours waiting for him to wash every last milimetre of himself a million times, when a quick shower would suffice, it can be annoying now! Better than him being stinky though I guess.

I also used to like the fact that unlike my ex, he wasn't a total push-over and didn't let me get my own way all the time, I liked the fact he was assertive and 'manly'....funnily enough that has lost its appeal somewhat...who would have thought? ;-) But again, much better than my ex, who was totally pathetic and behaved like an obedient lap-dog.

 

[CathrynRose]

I used to love the fact that BF was so amazingly clean, as I know men can be a bit lapse...

but having spent soooo many hours waiting for him to wash every last milimetre of himself a million times, when a quick shower would suffice, it can be annoying now! Better than him being stinky though I guess.
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I understand this, too ~ my fiance is a neat-freak. I feel it borders on obsessive-compulsive. Not only himself, but every nook & cranny of the house has to be immaculate before we can go anywhere, so it will be all neat & pretty upon coming home.

On one hand - I should *TOTALLY* appreciate him cleaning the house, doing the laundry - doing everything. On the other hand, it borders on pure guilt if I leave a cup on the end table, when he has made the "Im starting the dishwasher, bring the dishes in NOW" call.

"Didnt you hear me say I ws starting the dishwasher??!?!?"

Yes Dad - sorry...how long am I grounded for?

 

[luvwinnie]

Well, I loved how generous he was when we were dating...but now it's OUR money! lol

 

[leighe]

My DH is really funny - I think he would be a great stand-up comedian. However, it does get annoying sometimes - especially if we're at home alone together. I just want to yell, "Shut up! You don't have to make some funny/sarcastic remark about everything you see on tv." But most of the time I really enjoy it.

 

[Texan Mouseketeer]

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[tigercat]

My dh makes a joke out of everything. Just try having a serious conversation with it....forget it. As well it is really hard getting him to make any decisions. If for a special occasion he decides we are going out for dinner the conversation then starts. Where do you want to go? Now if I say let's eat here..he'll usually say no not there. I can give several different places to go and they never are the one he wants to go to. When I finally say that's it take me home he will agree to one. The last time I said that HE had to make the decision he told me I was hard to please?????? Then for our anniversary he took me to a sports bar for dinner. He was upset because of all the VERY noisy tv's blaring a hockey game. I was okay because I like sports but he hates them. It was really romantic LOL
tigercat

 

[mariolatry]

My dh walks around in his undies around the house. I was not brought up this way and it drives me crazy. I think he thinks he looks sexy and I think he looks hilarious.

I guess I can't handle too much of a good thing!

You think that's bad? I can't get my husband to put ON underwear when he's walking around. Nothing like hairy man butt strolling past while I'm checking my email. Jeesh...

(Don't worry. I make him put a towel down before he sits on anything )

 

[llazykllamas]

Why is it that.....

....when a woman says "I do" they really mean " I don't do that anymore"?

....women marry men hoping they can change them and men marry women hoping they never change. (does anyone win?)

 

[florida-again]

I understand this, too ~ my fiance is a neat-freak. I feel it borders on obsessive-compulsive. Not only himself, but every nook & cranny of the house has to be immaculate before we can go anywhere, so it will be all neat & pretty upon coming home.

On one hand - I should *TOTALLY* appreciate him cleaning the house, doing the laundry - doing everything. On the other hand, it borders on pure guilt if I leave a cup on the end table, when he has made the "Im starting the dishwasher, bring the dishes in NOW" call.

"Didnt you hear me say I ws starting the dishwasher??!?!?"

Yes Dad - sorry...how long am I grounded for?

Yeah BF is obsessively houseproud too. He won't even use the dishwasher, apparantely it's not clean enough...he has to wash the dishes personally so he knows they've been properly cleaned

 

[Tigger&Belle]

....women marry men hoping they can change them and men marry women hoping they never change. (does anyone win?)

I think it's true for men and women, though. But a mistake for either to think they can change their spouse.

 

[Mariposa]

DFiance takes nothing seriously... I used to think he was hilarious (and still do when it's appropriate), but now I have to warn him when we're going to have serious talk:

"Listen, crack one more joke and I will be forced to poke you in the eye."

Works everytime.

Even worse than his inability to focus on a serious matter? Every single person I've met that works with him has to do the 'You're soooooo lucky to have him, he's sooooooo funny, you must laugh aaaaaaaaaalllllll the time' thing. Yeah, you live with Sir Jokesalot when he's making smart aleck comments every two seconds when all you want him to do is help you gather the laundry/find missing car keys, etc...

 

[momof2inPA]

My family is full of "late" people, the kind that would be late to their own funerals. That's why I probably found it charming when I started dating my husband who is an "early" person, but it's gotten ridiculous. We have to be half an hour early to everything, especially to Church. I'll still be upside finishing my hair or make-up and he's in the garage starting the car. He'll give the kids carbon monoxide poisoning just to try to get me out of the house and in the car on his schedule.