I have to agree with many of the other posters here on this thread, when you request a room it is truly just that a request and you are never guaranteed the room you asked for. Many visitiors never fully read their documentation or reservation details received in their confirmation, and always overlook the area "Room Location and Information":
Room Location and Information
- Adjacent rooms, connecting rooms or specific room location and types of rooms or bedding are on a request basis only and are subject to availability at the time of check-in. These requests for specific room type or location may result in additional charges to be paid directly to the hotel.
Having visitied WDW 14 times throughout my life I have noticed massive hirings of college program students who work many different locations. You can easily see this within the College thread on this forum. Unfortunately, I don't care how much training (1 month, 2 months, etc) that Disney provides their new hires it doesn't make up for true life experiences and time on the job. The inexperience some individuals have truly gets reflected when dealing with their guests. Is Disney hiring college students bad? No, Many companies are doing this, but unfortunately as I stated it reflects on the company. The bad part is many are only there for a short period and then gone, what happened to having some stable employees or experienced employees. I know more experienced cast members are around, but whe you get such high percentage of turnover it really does reflect.
Also, We just came back from "The Polynesian Resort" and never received any towel animals, although we didn't ask specifically for turn-down service either. Would we have liked to see them when coming back to room? Yes! Did we expect to see them even though we payed premium prices at a deluxe resort? No! We don't go to Disney World for towel animals, we go for the atmosphere (Parks, Pool, Hotel Hopping, etc). There is so much to do within WDW that I would never let something like a towel animal bring me down. This sounds so similar to people who played Disney's Virtual Magic Kingdom, and only booked trips for collecting the cards to the game.
I never believe bad service at any restaurant is acceptable, and don't even hestitate to speak up to the waiter/waitress if need be. This doesn't mean provide an attitude back, you can always be professional about your displeasure. You never know what problems someone has in life and is still working the job (Flu, Family member passing on, divorce, etc). If the waiter/waitress doesn't change then I immediately ask for the manager on duty.