Cruise swap

[ToDisney]

I am so sorry, but I'm gonna have to flake. I was signed up for journal boxes and mats.

Monday, my DH and I celebrated our 18th wedding anniversary. Unbeknownst (sp?) to me, he slept with another woman the day before. My world has fallen apart. He walked out Wednesday, but came home last night and told me. To say I'm devestated is an understatement... i'm physically ill.

Has anyone ever been through this or known a couple that has come through this? I love him and will fight for him. He says he doesn't love her... it hasn't come to that yet. He says he loves me, but isn't in love with me and he has a void... he tried to fill it with her and hasn't decided yet if it was filled. He will go to counseling and promised to not see her again.. We have 3 children, 14, almost 11 and 5. I'm a SAHM and all alone. She made him feel special...

I'm sorry for posting gory details... I just can't see myself pulling it together for scrapping, let alone a swap... I'm so very sorry.

Please keep us in your thoughts.

 

[Twigs]

I am soo sorry to hear your news. You will be in my prayers. I haven't gone through anything like that, but I know how devastated I would be, and can only imagine how I would feel. I don't think I would be able to function. My sister went through something like this and she said the one thing that got her through was her friends. She said that for her to keep talking and not holding everything in is what helped. Her husband would not go for counseling and they ended up divorced. But I have a cousin who is 15 years older than me and when she went through the same thing (her husband cheated on her) they went for counseling and they now have one of the best marriages I have ever known. Hang in there and remember you have friends here and don't worry about the swap. Joyce

 

[jennz]

I pm'd you...

 

[missmulan]

I am so sorry to hear this. Reading your story just reminded me of the Oprah show a few days ago where she interviewed Clara Harris who was the infamous Dentist who allegedly ran over her cheating husband. It made me think of this because cheating husbands are not worth the time & aggravation. The only ones that suffer in the end are the children who don't know how to handle such deep emotions.

Please know that I will be praying for you. Please stay strong and know that there are people here who cares about you. Time will eventually heal to an even brighter day.

 

[Disneyland_emily]

I'll be happy to do your swap stuff for you if noone has volunteered yet- I know how life can get in the way sometimes-

Please PM me- and Id be happy to do it

-em

 

[OurDogCisco]

Oh, I am so sorry this is happening to you. HOpe the conseling helps. I'm sure it will resolve any unanswered questions.

Anyways, I'd love to help out with cruise swap. I missed the signups. So, if no one else had volunteered I'd be happy to take over.

Tina

 

[Lisa]

My thoughts are with you during this difficult time. I wish there was something I could say or do to ease your pain.

 

[scrapperjill]

I pm'd you..

 

[Timon]

Diane,

wow, I don't know what to say. I am so sorry you have to go through this!
Big hugs for you! I will be praying that you get through this difficult time in your life.

 

[4greatboys]

I'm so sorry I will keep you and your family in my prayers Diane.

 

[ksjayhawks]

I am so sorry that you have to go through this! You will be in my thoughts and prayers.

 

[scrapcreator]

I'm so sorry that you and your family are going through this!

Jeanne

 

[angelmom]

I will keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers. I hope everything works out for you.

 

[nicki dahling]

Sorry it has taken me so long to respond to this thread. I have been out all weekend and am now just getting to the boards.

Diane I will keep you and your family in my prayers. I actually have someone in my family who is going through the exact same thing right now. Please do not worry at all about the swap. I actually had several ladies who pm'd me when the swap closed who were willing to be on stand-by. In answer to everyone's questions unless this person say's no, I will not need anyone to take Diane's place. Thank you ladies for stepping in so willingly to help out. I love that about the women here. Diane if you ever need to talk please remember that we are thinking about you and are here if you need us.


Cyndi

 

[webprinter]

I am so sorry! You are in my prayers. Debby