Wow! Thank you all for the replies and advice. The general consensus I am getting is that I have planned to many meals in too short a time! I say I was at first a bit surprised because most days I only have a lunch and dinner booked, which doesn't seem like overkill. I think the 3 meal days are a problem than and perhaps the locations of the other restaurants. Well, it would be sort of stupid of me to ask for advice and than not take it so lets see what I can come up with.
I little more background motivation first, so you all can understand my approach. When we traveled to
Disneyland last year we ate at Napa Rose. The meal was a real highlight for us but not for my wallet (seriously we could have spent a couple nights at that resort for the price of our meal). So, when I saw we could upgrade to the DxDP and do many of the signature dining attractions for relatively cheap (I think the upgrade for us is around 1700 for the 14 days) I was all in. So dropping the DxDp is not an option for us. Even if we ended up losing money overall, the "feel" of not worrying about how much we are spending and where, would be worth it to me. I dont know if anyone else can relate but I get stressed and frustrated with my children when we pay out of pocket at a restaurant and they hardly touch their meal. I know this is my issue, not theirs. With the DxDP and the use of dining credits this wont bother me at all. They can eat as much as they care to fill their little tummies without Dad nagging them to eat more. I also want to keep as many of the signature dining events in our list.
So the solution is to tone back the 3 meal days and to temper travel time... Ill start anew here instead of editing post 1 again. That way if someone is in the same boat as us they can see how we came to the revised plan from the advice given. Ill change the 3 meal days and add in some Minnie vans where i think they are needed.
Arrival - Cape Mae (its in our hotel)
Day 1 - MK - 8 am breakfast at Crystal Palace. Rope drop and rides until 12. Back to resort for Beaches and Cream lunch and time at SAB (Storm Along Bay). Back to MK for around 6 at Be Our Guest. This gives us our midday break while keeping lunch casual and close to our swimming location. The breakfast is happily at MK and lets us ride a good number of morning rides at rope drop. Dinner will finish with enough time for more rides and Fireworks
Day 2 - AK - Tusker and Tiffins seems easy here. 11:30 Tusker and around 6 again for Tiffins. They are both at the AK. If we feel like it we will break for SAB mid day.
Day 3 - Epcot - Again we have an easy to get to lunch in park at Biergarten (ill shoot for 11:30). Dinner is effectively at our resort at Yachtsman SH. No crazy travel here... real benefit of staying at an Epcot resort I hope.
Day 4 - Rest Day - So I think Sanaa and the travel to AKL is what throws this day off. So instead we can keep the Trattoria Breakfast as its a short walk from our resort. Then we can head to a waterpark and just eat there when it suits our fancy. Ill than book Ohana for around 7 pm. If we leave the waterpark around 3 or 4 we can head back to the resort and change than Minnie Van to the Poly for Ohana. We will probably Minnie van back as well after fireworks.
Day 5 - DHS - Sci Fi (we have 50's diner later! Gotta go here for my son) at lunch. Its in park, easy. Then dinner in park again at Brown Derby. Maybe we take a break but the boat is like 15-20 minutes to our resort and SAB.
Day 6 - AK - Y&Y is in park. Jiko is "close by". We will likely take a break this day back at SAB after lunch. So we can MV (minnie van) to Jiko from our resort then take a short ride from there to AK after dinner!
Day 7 Rest Day - A seemingly contentious day! I would have though DS had plenty to do to fill from lunch until dinner, am I wrong. We can get up late and swim at SAB. Hit DS for lunch at Morimoto. Then the shopping for a few hours. Maybe DS and DG and I will bowl or something while DM and DD shop. Dinner at the BOATHOUSE then back to resort. Am I way off on this day? It seems reasonable to me.
Day 8 - MK - This could be another double MV day. Kona is close by MK so thats not an issue but maybe we should just eat in park at Pecos Bills or Liberty or something that catches our eye. Im gonna swap Hoop Dee Doo out for Artist Point here. Short boat ride from or two MK.
Day 9 - Epcot - Food and wine will be easy and eat our our leisure for lunch. THAN we do Hoop Dee Doo for dinner. Probably Minnie Van there, back or both to cut that travel time down.
Day 10 - Rest Day - From what I gather we will have to get a bus to disney springs than xfer to a water park. So we do an early lunch AT DS at homecomin' than head to a water park. Finish up there and Minnie van back to resort and than head to California Grill for a later dinner (7ish). We will likely bus it to MK(or TTC? not sure how that works) and walk over to contemporary. MV home.
Day 11 - DHS - Lunch in park at 50's. Flying Fish for dinner at Boardwalk which is a short boat ride or even walk from DHS. Minimal travel day. Remember lunch for us will be around 11:30 and dinner 6. Plenty of time in between.
Day 12 - Split park AK/Epcot - This day is nearing the end. We will head early to AK and ride everyone favorite ride once more than leave back to BC and a short walk into epcot for lunch at Coral Reef. 30 minutes from AK to BC? If so than I think that is doable. Dinner is in epcot at Monsieur Paul. No travel required. Again we will likely just try to ride whatever my kids favorite rides are in Epcot.
Day 13 - MK - Lunch is in park at the castle. No travel required. Travel from MK to GF for Citricos has got to be reasonably short for dinner and back.
Day 14 - the day that shall not be named
It seems like a lot but I think I have it relatively streamlined. It's mostly close lunches and the few tricky dinners we can MV. It cant be that insane to eat two sit down meals a day?!? I am also not going to worry if Gramma and my Son want to skip out on a meal and just relax by the pool or ride more attractions(or any variety of this sort of thing). I will do the ADR's at 180 days and than, worst come to worst, if we feel that it isnt working I will alter our plans to suit us better.