Cringe-y Sign on Car for Bachelorette Party

[RedAngie]

I know it’s venmo or zelle or some other money transfer service, but is there a way to send a penny and a [nasty] message?

 

[DisneyJamieCA]

The Venmo thing is actually pretty common. Saw a ton on our drive to Disney and a lot after graduations.

What’s shocked me is TikTok influencers putting it in their bios. I mean, I guess that’s part of how they make their money, but it just seems weird to me.

 

[luv2cheer92]

I really don't see the issue with it. Likely not something I would do, but definitely don't see how it is "trashy".

 

[shh]

I. feel. so. old.

What a strange world we live in now. (I'm waaay too cheap to send my hard earned money to anyone unless I'm getting something of value in return or it's a deserving cause i believe in. (Which these sure aren't!)

 

[1GoldenSun]

I just got back from an 8-week road trip around the country. I saw a lot of this. Lists of states visited, vacation destinations, mileage driven, occasion being celebrated, etc. written on the back window along with Venmo information soliciting donations. I just can't imagine asking strangers to help fund my vacation.

 

[belle032]

I actually saw this in a parking lot the other day. New thing maybe? Still super tacky.

But then again, my MIL tried to get us to have a "dollar dance" at our wedding (which I had never heard of before) and I couldn't wrap my head around how it wasn't just a tacky cash grab.

 

[DisneyJamieCA]

I actually saw this in a parking lot the other day. New thing maybe? Still super tacky.

But then again, my MIL tried to get us to have a "dollar dance" at our wedding (which I had never heard of before) and I couldn't wrap my head around how it wasn't just a tacky cash grab.

A money dance at a wedding is (or was at least) very common.

 

[mumto3girls]

I have seen the same signs on cars for people celebrating their 21st.

I had never heard of this until our recent road trip, but the one we saw was to buy someone a shot on their 21st. My kids thought it was outrageously funny. I thought it was tacky, but not surprising.

 

[Julie's Haircut]

A money dance at a wedding is (or was at least) very common.

And the donor receives something in return, unlike the requests posted here.

Maybe these low-lifes begging for venmo cash feel others should be "honored" to fund their whatevers. The donors get a spiritual reward.

Let's face it. These are worse than the homeless junkies begging for drug or booze money.

 

[belle032]

A money dance at a wedding is (or was at least) very common.

Apparently it is in some areas, but I had never heard of it before then. No offense to anyone who had one or will have one, but it is not something I wanted or felt comfortable doing.

 

[Starport Seven-Five]

I saw something similar on someone's van for a road trip. Not my cup of tea but I hadn't thought about it again until this moment.

I rank this below gofundme or mlm requests on the "cringe" scale as at least the venmo requests are impersonal. I think it's way worse to pressure family members for money.

 

[AuntieMe3]

It's the new thing I guess. I live off the 15 freeway which is the main route between Los Angeles and Las Vegas, I've been seeing this alot lately. "Headed to Vegas..." and then all their Venmo/cash app info...lol

 

[MillauFr]

Many of the wineries in Seattle have large signs stating "No Bachelorette Parties". Too many drunkards just yelling Rose Rose Rose.

 

[luv2cheer92]

And the donor receives something in return, unlike the requests posted here.

Maybe these low-lifes begging for venmo cash feel others should be "honored" to fund their whatevers. The donors get a spiritual reward.

Let's face it. These are worse than the homeless junkies begging for drug or booze money.

Bahahahaha, thanks for the laugh

 

[FlightlessDuck]

Everything about Bachelorette and Bachelor parties are cringey.

 

[White Cat]

People set up accounts to pay for funerals.

 

[ronandannette]

People set up accounts to pay for funerals.

The cheapest possible direct cremation in our city costs about $900.00. I know people who don't have that in hand or any available form of credit, if they were to suffer a sudden, tragic loss. I’d gladly contribute to funeral costs or anything else a bereaved family might need. But more booze for classless drunks who are already making a spectacle of themselves? Never in a million years.

 

[AppleDumpling]

I’ve never seen this and IMO it’s tacky, but let’s face it, some people have no shame and will do anything for money.

 

[RedAngie]

The cheapest possible direct cremation in our city costs about $900.00. I know people who don't have that in hand or any available form of credit, if they were to suffer a sudden, tragic loss. I’d gladly contribute to funeral costs or anything else a bereaved family might need. But more booze for classless drunks who are already making a spectacle of themselves? Never in a million years.

Aren’t there funeral directors who donate their services to indigent families/individuals? Something simple but dignified. I’m not talking about so-called potter’s fields run by a city or other government subdivision.

 

[Mackenzie Click-Mickelson]

Everything about Bachelorette and Bachelor parties are cringey.

Hey mine was extremely low-key. A dinner at Cheesecake Factory at the Plaza and a stay at a hotel where us girls just gabbed in the pool and hot tub. Not every bachelorette party is awful