Cranberry or Pineapple?? Part 2

[cristit14]

Marcie, I am so sorry. I wish there was something I could do to help you.

 

[cristit14]

Hi guys, busy day moving Stacey. DARN IT, I thought I was done crying. Guess NOT!

I thought Stacey wasn't moving until May. I did get an email from her with her new email address the other day. Hang in there!

 

[Stepht5]

Sorry ahead of time this will be a downer post.

After my dh cheating on me last year AND me finding his pictures on a personal site, he cried and begged me to stay and we tried to fix our marriage. Last night, he slept in Aerial's room and told me today while I'm at work he is moving everything out of Aerial's room and his stuff in. He's just decided that our marriage isn't working. And, he's done this in the last two weeks of tax season when I am exhausted. I have to work at least 8 hours today and then come home to find all of Aerial's things in the living room i guess. I haven't really eaten in 3 days and I took something to sleep last night but I think I got an hour of sleep. I don't even have time to find an apartment and I have no family here. And, I'm very very sad. Please keep me in your thoughts, I'm off to work.

I am so sorry! I'm sorry that he is doing this to you and I'm sorry that he couldn't wait until after tax season when you could think straight... If you need a break later and want to come up this way.. we could have a *girl* weekend.

 

[Jrsy Boy]

I don't even have time to find an apartment and I have no family here. And, I'm very very sad. Please keep me in your thoughts, I'm off to work.

You've got a lot of family in Colorado; I think you should consider moving here. My FIL is an accountant and could find you a job up here easily. Aerial and Alex could collaborate on some serious artistic stuff. Cosmo thinks it is a good idea, too.

 

[Pooh_Friend#1]

You've got a lot of family in Colorado; I think you should consider moving here. My FIL is an accountant and could find you a job up here easily. Aerial and Alex could collaborate on some serious artistic stuff. Cosmo thinks it is a good idea, too.

I so agree with this statement.

Marcie - I am so sorry you are going through this. You can fly out to Virginia Beach with me at the end of April to get away. We can share a room that the government pays for so all you would need is an airline ticket. You are in my prayers adn in my heart. I'm so sorry.

 

[LuluLovesDisney]

Marcie - hugs to you.

I'm so sorry that you are going through this right now. It is pretty selfish of him to do this right now when you are consumed with work and it seems pretty selfish to uproot Aerial. How will she feel when she sees what he's done?
I am keeping you both in my thoughts and I hope that you will consider all the wonderful, loving invitations you've received on the DIS for getaway weekends or for moving closer to the Funky Monkey capitol in Colorado.

Lots of prayers and positive thoughts to you!

 

[jiminyC_fan]

Oh Marcie. I have you in my thoughts and prayers. I wish you lived closer and I could be there for you. I agree with Jrsy. Move here and we can help you out. I am sorry they way he told you and the timing. It just wasn't right or fair. I am sending you an email with my telephone number and if you just need to talk, I will be there for you.

 

[Jsme]

Sorry ahead of time this will be a downer post.

After my dh cheating on me last year AND me finding his pictures on a personal site, he cried and begged me to stay and we tried to fix our marriage. Last night, he slept in Aerial's room and told me today while I'm at work he is moving everything out of Aerial's room and his stuff in. He's just decided that our marriage isn't working. And, he's done this in the last two weeks of tax season when I am exhausted. I have to work at least 8 hours today and then come home to find all of Aerial's things in the living room i guess. I haven't really eaten in 3 days and I took something to sleep last night but I think I got an hour of sleep. I don't even have time to find an apartment and I have no family here. And, I'm very very sad. Please keep me in your thoughts, I'm off to work.

Oh Marcie!! I had thought with the way you have been posting lately your marriage was back on track. Oh sweetie, I am so so sorry!! I had such high hopes for a more solid marriage for you after all you had to go thru last year. You have been in my prayers for months now and those prayers will still be coming your way.

 

[Jsme]

You've got a lot of family in Colorado; I think you should consider moving here. My FIL is an accountant and could find you a job up here easily. Aerial and Alex could collaborate on some serious artistic stuff. Cosmo thinks it is a good idea, too.

Guys you are the best and this only proves how great each of you are!! Marcie honey we all love you.

 

[Jsme]

I have not forgotten anyone. Last week I was trying to keep up by reading. We went to the outerbanks this weekend and had a great time. It was really hard leaving the house there. Not sure if you guys remember the couple I mentioned we met on our last cruise but they have a house in Kill Devil Hills that has a oceanview. The weather was perfect and this week is only suppose to be better.

 

[jiminyC_fan]

Marcie, been thinking of you all weekend. Are doing ok? Lots of hugs here for you!

Selena, sounds terrific!

 

[ImMarcik]

I am okay. Well as okay as I can be. I don't feel like saying much, just checking in. I was pretty sick today, from nerves I guess, and I cried a lot. I just wish I could sleep. Dane and I had one big fight today but then he said he didn't want to fight with me he just thinks we will both be much happier apart. I do have a few apartments to check on tomorrow so we shall see. I will let ya know. Going to email now.

 

[Pooh_Friend#1]

Marcie - hang in there. We will all be here when you are ready to talk and we are here to support you through this tough time.

Selena - that sounds like an awesome place. I wish I could have a mini vacation like that. Are you staying there all this week or just out there for the weekend?

 

[Jsme]

Selena - that sounds like an awesome place. I wish I could have a mini vacation like that. Are you staying there all this week or just out there for the weekend?

No we were only there for the weekend. This week is our spring break but I have been out a lot this year and will be out in May and needed some Comp time to take off for May. So I will be at work all week. Yuck. I am off on Friday though. lol

 

[Stepht5]

I have not forgotten anyone. Last week I was trying to keep up by reading. We went to the outerbanks this weekend and had a great time. It was really hard leaving the house there. Not sure if you guys remember the couple I mentioned we met on our last cruise but they have a house in Kill Devil Hills that has a oceanview. The weather was perfect and this week is only suppose to be better.

That sounds wonderful!! I'm so glad that y'all had a good time and it was so beautiful!

Stephanie

 

[LuluLovesDisney]

Well, my family's having a tough time now. My brother's tenant was evicted last night (non payment/harrassment/child abuse (she has a 3 yo son), etc.) and she decided to get revenge - with permanent marker, she wrote foul things and threats all over the appliances, windows, kitchen cabinets everything. She poured syrup, ketchup, mayonnaise, cereal, doritos, etc. everywhere she could find - floor, carpet, dryer, washer, refrigerator, ceiling, etc. She even took raw meat and sausages and put them in the light fixtures, etc. She broke the doors off appliances, etc. She wrote I heart XXXX Police Dept. everywhere. (because she's slept with many police officers, she's a stripper, that was her way of saying I'm going to get away with this) and when the cops came they basically pooh poohed it, but said to take pictures.

Well, this morning came, and my nephew's PET BUNNY is stolen! He is inconsolable. In addition, my SIL"s car keys and Christmas china and glassware is stolen (they were on her indoor porch for storage).

This woman is pure evil and my nephew is heartbroken.

She's trying to sue my brother because of mold in the apt. (it was there -in the washer- because she lived in filth - physical and moral filth) saying it caused her son's health problems. Meanwhile she let her son walk around outside alone at age 3 for hours. I'm so frustrated because my brother, SIL and nephews look devastated and just torn apart by all this. They're seriously afraid of what she'll do next and are worried that her police "connections" are helping her. Let's hope she's wrong.

 

[jiminyC_fan]

You know what? Through all this bonding that we have been doing the last week or so, I am missing Karen. I think I will email her and check on her.

Marcie, you honestly are constantly in my thoughts. When you are ready to talk, we all will be there for you. I am so happy that you are posting. I think it does a world of good to be able to put your feelings out like that and not keep it inside. I think it is good therapy. Keep posting ok???!!!!

Hugs to all.

 

[jiminyC_fan]

Oh my gosh, Lulu. We just cross posted. I feel so bad for your brother and his family. I can't believe someone would be so angry to do that especially to steal a CHILD's PET!! How much lower can that woman go and I use the term woman loosely!

 

[Pooh_Friend#1]

LuLu - that is horrible. I can't believe some people are so immature and retaliate like that, that is ridiculous. Your poor brother and his family. Prayers and pixie dust your way as well for your brother and family. What is wrong with some people these days???

 

[jiminyC_fan]

I just wrote Karen. I hope I hear back from her!