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I have had two miscarriages. My husband and I definitely live each day like it's our last. Who knows if we will EVER have kids. That doesn't stop me from waiting in lines.

And how bout this one for you- a 61 year old, a 63 year old, and a 23 year old who waited in line for 45 minutes for the 7 Dwarves

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That was my dad's last vacation. He knew he was dying. We made memories because we could.

What a wonderful memory you all made :hug:
 
You are absolutely correct. I have spent forever being nice. I have been nice when nosey people ask nosey questions about my family. I am nice and pitied them when they have made their rude comments about having twins and triplets or politely dodged impolite questions about if I had them naturally or took those drugs and deserve what I get. If I had a dime for every question and comment, their college would be paid for. I have chosen to show my kids how to take the high road. I can't say I am sorry for teaching my kids to think of others. We ask them each day if they did anything to help someone that day. It is a shame we are in a world that doesn't value that and are only out for themselves. I guess I wouldn't change anything after all. I am really proud of who my kids are becoming, even if it gets frustrating around others at times. We aren't Disney addicts and will probably only go again when they are teenagers, so it isn't like I ever have to worry about this again. I am sorry I started this thread and opened myself up to criticism. Good luck in your travels.
 
You are absolutely correct. I have spent forever being nice. I have been nice when nosey people ask nosey questions about my family. I am nice and pitied them when they have made their rude comments about having twins and triplets or politely dodged impolite questions about if I had them naturally or took those drugs and deserve what I get. If I had a dime for every question and comment, their college would be paid for. I have chosen to show my kids how to take the high road. I can't say I am sorry for teaching my kids to think of others. We ask them each day if they did anything to help someone that day. It is a shame we are in a world that doesn't value that and are only out for themselves. I guess I wouldn't change anything after all. I am really proud of who my kids are becoming, even if it gets frustrating around others at times. We aren't Disney addicts and will probably only go again when they are teenagers, so it isn't like I ever have to worry about this again. I am sorry I started this thread and opened myself up to criticism. Good luck in your travels.

Wow.

You sure seem intent on being unhappy.
 
I have had two miscarriages. My husband and I definitely live each day like it's our last. Who knows if we will EVER have kids. That doesn't stop me from waiting in lines.

And how bout this one for you- a 61 year old, a 63 year old, and a 23 year old who waited in line for 45 minutes for the 7 Dwarves

ry%3D400


That was my dad's last vacation. He knew he was dying. We made memories because we could.

:grouphug:


I waited in line for 45 minutes to see Jack Sparrow during MNSSHP last oct.. I was 23 at the time. I loved it. Jack was hamming it up. He acted all freaked when I told him my name , and when he saw I had a button for my first masters, he asked what it was in. When I said "criminal justice" he got nervous and asked if I was there to arrest him.

Sure i'm not a child, but it really made my day. I got to meet all my favorite princesses that trip as well as my all time favorite pirate

and for what its worth, its not people with babies who make the line horrific, or parties with just adults, nor is it families with small children, older children, many children, llamas for children, who make the lines horrific, its just people in line in general who make the line horrific. They just happened to all have the same idea as you, unfortunately, at that same time.

regardless OP I'm really sorry you didn't get a picture of that magical moment. That really does stink you didn't get it to keep forever. i've done things like that and always regret it
 

. I can't say I am sorry for teaching my kids to think of others. It is a shame we are in a world that doesn't value that and are only out for themselves.

I don't see why it was a big deal when I see adults with no kids taking forever snapping their shots with characters and I saw moms with itty,bitty babies that will no memory being very picky about their photo, but two 8 year old girls want an individual photo with a character instead of always having to share with their identical twin and we are holding up the line.

Personally, I think it is absolutely horrific for grown adults to clog up the character lines. Please, 30 year old couples are going to die if they don't have a photo with Snow White?


Perhaps you should live up to your own expectations of your children.

But good job playing the mommy martyr.
 
Bigger families do not get a discount. We pay the same amount per ticket as everyone else, so it isn't just too bad for large families or we would make the line horrific. If paying the price of admission and waiting in line is the criteria, then each of my our paid admissions and them waiting in line should mean that they could get an individual photo if they want it just as each individual adult or infant that goes through the line does. We would never do that, but it should be allowed. After all, we paid just like everyone else. we should get to take one photo each if we wanted to since everyone else can. I'm tired of rushing through everything so we aren't being thought of as inconsiderate by the other families. Rarely, do they give us any thought unless it is the wonderfully personal questions about how we came to have twins and triplets. Then every stranger seems comfortable asking us about our family history and our sex life.

Obviously, I am not a jerk or I would have made some big scene at Rapunzel instead of walking away. I was just nagged by the thought that I could have at least nicely asked if they knew if the Photopass person would be right back.

ITA with your children should have been able to take pictures with the characters separately. For what it is worth we have never had a problem with our 2 children taking individual shots with the characters. Did I miss something were you told you could not do that are just assuming that was policy?
 
I can't imagine what they would have done for you even if you asked. We waited a while to see Mickey & Minnie in their Halloween gear during MNSSHP last year. Since I was actually dressed up and in the photos too, it meant I had little on my own camera and relied on the photopass photographer to do her job. When she was done she had trouble getting her little scanner to read our card so she told us to go to the photo area and they would pull up the photos for us. We wasted an hour during the party trying to have them do this and guess what....they were never able to locate any of our photos from that meeting. Talk about ticked.
 
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I have had two miscarriages. My husband and I definitely live each day like it's our last. Who knows if we will EVER have kids. That doesn't stop me from waiting in lines.

And how bout this one for you- a 61 year old, a 63 year old, and a 23 year old who waited in line for 45 minutes for the 7 Dwarves

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That was my dad's last vacation. He knew he was dying. We made memories because we could.

What a wonderful memory you all made

I am sorry for your loss. We came by our kids after many long years. It is a difficult journey. I was never suggesting anyone did not have a right to see characters, only that if adults are able to then surely each and every child in line should have the same opportunity without the line being deemed horrific. I hope you achieve the family you desire.





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What may seem horrific to you, may be different to me. Personally, I think it is absolutely horrific for grown adults to clog up the character lines. Please, 30 year old couples are going to die if they don't have a photo with Snow White? I don't get it, but they were in front of us. Same as the lady with a baby about 2 months old and no other kids. Again, I don't get it. They had to get all these shots of Snow White cooing over this baby, who has no idea what is going on, but to each their own. They stood in line for their photos. However, if that is okay, then I think two little girls asking for one individual photo isn't too much either. I had two girls with me, not a whole preschool class.

I'm not going to die if I don't get a character photo, but will still queue up to get it and believe I have as much right as anyone else to queue up for it, whether I have children or not....
 
I am sorry for your loss. We came by our kids after many long years. It is a difficult journey. I was never suggesting anyone did not have a right to see characters, only that if adults are able to then surely each and every child in line should have the same opportunity without the line being deemed horrific. I hope you achieve the family you desire.





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So, can every adult in line get an individual picture as well?

As for the CM saying you couldn't get individual shots, all we know is how you interpreted it. It is possible they were trying to get the line done quickly for some reason such as the character needing a break. We don't know here.
 
You are absolutely correct. I have spent forever being nice. I have been nice when nosey people ask nosey questions about my family. I am nice and pitied them when they have made their rude comments about having twins and triplets or politely dodged impolite questions about if I had them naturally or took those drugs and deserve what I get. If I had a dime for every question and comment, their college would be paid for. I have chosen to show my kids how to take the high road. I can't say I am sorry for teaching my kids to think of others. We ask them each day if they did anything to help someone that day. It is a shame we are in a world that doesn't value that and are only out for themselves. I guess I wouldn't change anything after all. I am really proud of who my kids are becoming, even if it gets frustrating around others at times. We aren't Disney addicts and will probably only go again when they are teenagers, so it isn't like I ever have to worry about this again. I am sorry I started this thread and opened myself up to criticism. Good luck in your travels.

After reading each response, my take on this is that the reason why you're receiving so much criticism and not a lot of sympathy is because it seems like you're blaming Disney for not getting a picture with Rapunzel, instead of taking responsibility for it and saying "Yep, I messed up by not bringing my camera." If a picture is important to you, then you have to make sure that happens and the only way to control that is by having your own camera or a working phone, not relying on anyone else to take care of that for you. Disney didn't take away your chance for a picture, you did by not having a camera yourself.

And then, on top of not taking responsibility for your choice to not have a camera, you start to attack grown-ups and infants who get pictures taken with characters. And then complain about your experience with Tinker Bell. Is it possible that you imagined the "attitude," because you were already frustrated with the day? We've been there with my kids, nieces and nephews and each kid got a picture alone with the character and there was no attitude, nor were we rushed along. We were organized and like an assembly line with the kids and their books and pictures. I think what gets CMs is when people are unorganized and don't have their books or cameras ready when it's their turn.
 
I agree with the pp's...I cant even wrap my mind around the thought that a baby or adult shouldnt have a picture with a character. We have loads of pictures of our 4 kids with the characters as infants, toddlers and up. They have wonderful memories to look at because they cant remember those early trips. Who cares if a baby can remember the event or not?? The character interaction and pictures are a big part of our vacation. My dd22 is one of my kids who wants them the most...so dont think your kids wont want them next trip. Character shots arent only for kids aged 5-9:confused3
We have 4 kids and we always try and have the kids pictures taken as a group so as not to tie up the process longer. Sometimes one of my kids wants an individual picture of them with a special character and we have never been told that we cant/shouldnt do that.
Things happen that we dont have control over. WDW cant make everyone happy all of the time...but they have done a Fantastic job for us over the past 20 years of taking our kids. Dont sweat the small stuff and use this as a lesson for next time...always have a camera handy:thumbsup2
 
What may seem horrific to you, may be different to me. Personally, I think it is absolutely horrific for grown adults to clog up the character lines. Please, 30 year old couples are going to die if they don't have a photo with Snow White? I don't get it, but they were in front of us. Same as the lady with a baby about 2 months old and no other kids. Again, I don't get it. They had to get all these shots of Snow White cooing over this baby, who has no idea what is going on, but to each their own. They stood in line for their photos. However, if that is okay, then I think two little girls asking for one individual photo isn't too much either. I had two girls with me, not a whole preschool class.

Guess I am horrific then. I stood in line alone to meet Snow White. My kids didnt want to meet her I did. Also stood in line for Fairy Godmother for my birthday I am going to Disney and will stand in line to meet as many characters as I please. But I also think your girls should get shots alone if they want
 
I would have asked someone else in line to snap a picture with their phone and text it to you. Would have been better than nothing!
 
I would have asked someone in line that had a camera or phone with a camera to please take a picture for you and send via e-mail or post service. I have sent plenty of pictures to others who had camera issues or forgot their cameras. I hope you can get pictures next time you visit. :)

Ditto. People are really nice about this and follow through.
 
Your girls will have to do what we did as kids. Keep it as a good memory in their minds! We didn't get pictures taken of every single thing we did or saw.

They experienced it and saw and met her and got her autograph so they do have something from the meeting. So they have a memory and an autograph sounds like a good day to me.

So very, very true!! My very best memories of childhood WDW trips or anything weren't photographed. It's okay... :goodvibes
 
I was pointing these situations out because no one thinks there should be an age cut-off, because everyone pays the same and to each their own and I agree, but for some reason a young girl wanting one photo of her own is too much to ask for.

No, thats not too much to ask for, we all want our children to have that photo op at Disney - I don't think anyone has implied that.

You didn't take your camera. Simple. No-one elses fault but yours.

:)
 
I was 18 the first time I was lucky enough to go to Disney World. I stood in line with my autograph book and princesses tiara for so many characters! I'm 24 now and still need to get my picture with the princesses! Disney is a place where anyone and everyone can be a little kid again. It's an escape from the real world. You are in a Disney bubble. It's like a real life never-land and I think anyone should be able to have their photo with the characters.
 
Aren't there chargers or external power supplies you can get for a smart phone? Maybe I'm generalizing a bit. But that would be my backup plan in case the photopass person didn't show and my phone lost power.

Yes. My husband has one for his work phone. You charge up the little charger thing (smaller than his Samsung), and when your phone is dying you hook them up and the phone gets charged. It's like magic. I highly recommend one, though I haven't a clue how much they cost. I'll assume he got it at amazon, though, since that's where he works. :)


That is the whole point of it, to not need your own camera


One time I asked if they could take my daughters' photo as an individual instead of together with the Character and you would have thought I was asking for something HUGE. The Character was nice, of course, but the Photopass person acted like I was being a pain. I asked this one time at one character because being triplets my kids always get lumped together in everything.

You identify yourself as twinplets. This is how you have shown yourself to the world of the Dis. (I identify as an umbrella, apparently, or a festival in Seattle) I wonder if the lumping together is starting at home.

They are siblings. Since I know that identical triplets are extremely rare, I'll make a guess that you don't have identical triplets. Therefore, that means they are simply siblings that were gestating at the same time. If the twins are fraternal as well, same thing.

So, first step, identify them as simply siblings. Next, they are their own people.

Next time you're in a character line, have them go, from the very beginning, to the character ALONE. That way you aren't asking for something different, once they've already been up there together.

My cousin has two kids, a boy and girl, with 5 years apart. When we ran into Marie and Sleeping Beauty in Epcot, for each line, my son and her two kids saw the characters *separately*. AFTER the individual moments, my cousin asked Marie if the kids could get into a picture together. There was no one else behind us, and it was OK.

So start differentiating between the children at home, and it will be easier when you're out and about. They are different people with different lives ahead of them; don't lump them together just b/c they gestated at the same time.



We are far from entitled. One of my oldest sons has Aspergers, but we didn't get an GAC even though he was counting people in line and we constantly had to pull him back to an acceptable distance from the people in front of us. We made this a learning experience, even though there were so many times I was worn down by his obsession with being first in line. We don't ask for help. That seems to be our family motto.

Your motto makes me sad. Ask for the help. You ask for help for your one son, you guys get a better time, and the people around you do, too. A relative of mine has a son that seems to be on the spectrum, and I am encouraging their family to get the GAC. HE needs it. Even if they don't want to appear different, even if they don't want to ask for help, HIS life would be better if they did this.

Speak up. If you don't have a camera or a charger or you don't know that there are charging stations at the photo spots at the park, and the photopass person isn't there, ASK FOR HELP. At some point, if you keep on keeping it all inside and independent, you're going to explode. Not fun. Another relative of mine was a single mom and caretaker of her mom. She did it on her own for YEARS. Made things hard on her siblings, her daughter, and HER. Once she finally asked for help, she could breathe again. Got her mom into some respite/daycare and everything got better.

Same with you. Take the help they happily offer. Ask CMs about the photographer.

Now, it's likely that the photog wasn't coming back out. And if they hold up the line for the photog, then you run into problems with how long Rapunzel could be out for. Then she has to go in at X time, and the last people in line don't get to see her.



Everyone, take your OWN camera. Make sure it's charged. Photopass is great, but after awhile it's just staged shot after staged shot ad nauseum. It's the candids that are the most awesome ones. (and photopass won't take pictures unless there's somoene in them, and I love the photos I've taken of buildings, or the sky, things like that...)
 
ITA with your children should have been able to take pictures with the characters separately. For what it is worth we have never had a problem with our 2 children taking individual shots with the characters. Did I miss something were you told you could not do that are just assuming that was policy?

I'm thinking it is up to the discretion of the CM at the time. I have been in line when they did not allow each child their own photo. Maybe it has to do with how hot it is, or how long the line is?:confused3 But it sounds as if that is what they were doing that day, and the OP didn't like it.
 
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