My husband and I are doing our first ever cruise as a treat for our 50th birthdays and cannot wait. I am however a little concerned that we have elderly parents at home. We would rather switch our cell phones off onboard as I understand that the costs for cell phone use are extremely high does anyone know if there is anyway for family to contact you onboard in case of an emergency other than by cell phone please?
Here's my question to you: Let's say there was an emergency and you found out about it while on the ship. What could you do? What would you do?
I had to think about this myself recently as I, too am caring for an older parent. What I figured out was that lots of things might constitute "emergency" for my Mom, but which would not cause me to want to leave the ship and fly home early. Issues with the house (the hot water heater broke!) or some injury (I fell!), etc. The most I would be able to do would be to call someone to go over to my Mom's (and to worry). So....why not just have Mom call this person herself in case of an "emergency"? Better yet, why not have a close friend check in on her while I was gone?
Bigger, real emegencies would STILL not cause me to leave the ship and fly home. Let's say she did fall and ended up in the hospital. Yes, she would prefer I was there with her. Yes, I would feel better being with her. But to incur the expense and stress of leaving the cruise early and flying home would be ridiculous and not a real possiblity. What I would do instead is WORRY and be calling home to speak to the friend I left in charge of her to check on her progress.
I guess what I'm saying is WHY would I leave the ship and fly home? I suppose if she died suddenly, although, again, that would depend on costs and stress levels because really the logical side of me would say I already will have funeral expenses so why dump thousands on airfare and hotels, etc. The onyl real reason I could see doing something like that would be if she was
about to die. Then I would want to be home ASAP to say goodbye and be with her in her final moments. And for me, the possibility of this happening is very tiny. And worth the $7 a min shore-to-ship phone call. Otherwise, I just couldn't see the practical logic in
knowing about an emergency (big or little) when there would be nothing NOTHING I could conceivably do about it but worry.
My decision then was to leave a good, trustworthy person (or three!) available and willing to check on Mom and handle any issues in the week I was gone. I hope you, too have someone like this, because really taking just a few days to get away from regualar daily life is priceless! One of the things I enjoyed the most on my recent crusie was turning off the cell phone and surrendering to the fact that whatever was going on at home/work would have to wait until I got back or be sorted out without me, because what could I possibly do while on a cruise ship to help? So I had no excuse but to relax and put thoughts of reality out of my mind completely!