Rock'n Robin
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I was at DD#2's elementary school tonight for the carnival and noticed a sign noting who "made" 6th grade choir for next year (out of the current 5th graders). Seems they are limiting the 6th grade choir and only 30 kids from each elementary can make it. Well, 70 tried out so 40 kids can't sing next year! And I know of at least one girl who was sick with the flu and missed tryout day, and was given no alternatives.
DD#1 did not have to try out when she was in 6th grade, so this is a new thing. I know the size of the choir is huge, and certainly not everyone has perfect pitch, but at that age if they want to sing, shouldn't they be able to? Are they already grooming them for the select choir in HS? Are they looking for pitch, volume, enthusiasm, what?
At the junior high, if the 6th graders aren't in music they are forced to take art and living skills--then they are limiting their electives later as well (there are 8 elective choices for 8th graders, and non-music students need 5, so if they've already taken those 2 they are forced to take whtaever else is available). So these kids that didn't make choir either have to join orchestra or band (try at least $30 a month to rent an instrument) OR take those electives. What if they aren't artistic? What if they are on free/reduced lunches and can't afford an instrument? If they had a general music class option that would be different, but they don't--it's performance or nothing.
The sad thing is no one will complain because everyone is in mortal fear of the choir director--even I'm afraid if I say something, it might keep DD#1 out of the musical next year. Other parents voice the same concern--you can't complain about something she does because your kids might never get a part in the shows. Of course she would say it was talent related. I was thinking an option might be an anonymous letter to the administration/superintendent, explaining the position and that it's anonymous to avoid recriminations later. But I know anonymous letter aren't very credible regardless of the motivation. I don't know if any 5th grade parents are upset enough to say anything.
I'm getting so sick of living in a competitive district. This is just too much.
Robin M.
DD#1 did not have to try out when she was in 6th grade, so this is a new thing. I know the size of the choir is huge, and certainly not everyone has perfect pitch, but at that age if they want to sing, shouldn't they be able to? Are they already grooming them for the select choir in HS? Are they looking for pitch, volume, enthusiasm, what?
At the junior high, if the 6th graders aren't in music they are forced to take art and living skills--then they are limiting their electives later as well (there are 8 elective choices for 8th graders, and non-music students need 5, so if they've already taken those 2 they are forced to take whtaever else is available). So these kids that didn't make choir either have to join orchestra or band (try at least $30 a month to rent an instrument) OR take those electives. What if they aren't artistic? What if they are on free/reduced lunches and can't afford an instrument? If they had a general music class option that would be different, but they don't--it's performance or nothing.
The sad thing is no one will complain because everyone is in mortal fear of the choir director--even I'm afraid if I say something, it might keep DD#1 out of the musical next year. Other parents voice the same concern--you can't complain about something she does because your kids might never get a part in the shows. Of course she would say it was talent related. I was thinking an option might be an anonymous letter to the administration/superintendent, explaining the position and that it's anonymous to avoid recriminations later. But I know anonymous letter aren't very credible regardless of the motivation. I don't know if any 5th grade parents are upset enough to say anything.
I'm getting so sick of living in a competitive district. This is just too much.
Robin M.