I would like to say, first of all, that I have never been to Universal. Well, not Orlando - did the California one once as a kid.
I also am not a coaster enthusiast. Space Mountain is my limit - won't do Everest again, and I'm NEVER doing ToT or RR Coaster.
Oh, and I'm nearly 35 years old, so I missed that whole Harry Potter thing by 15 years.
As you can probably tell, Universal holds very little appeal for me. So here is my message to the Universal enthusiasts on this thread (and the lurkers):
1. Your call for more thrill rides falls on many deaf ears, except for the 20-somethings and 12 year old boys. I have read many posts on here about how someone's boys don't like Disney anymore, etc... While I agree that Disney NEEDS to capture that 12 year-old boy demographic, please don't confuse their needs with those of your average Disney vacationer. I completely concur with other posts that admit if we want thrill rides, we'll go to Cedar Point (which I live 2 hours from and haven't been to in 15 years.)
2. I may be drinking the Lou Mongello Kool-aid, but the Disney experience is WAY beyond the types of rides it has. And I'm always amused by the whiny posts I read about how so-and-so was so disappointed in their trip because the wait for Soarin' was too long. Or how they elbow grandmothers to get to the TSM fast pass at 8am. Universal can have those people.
Disney is about:
A. the ability to stay at a nice hotel of your price range (I'm DVC), with FREE... repeat, F-R-E-E transportation to all the parks, with usually excellent theming and restaurants.
B. the ability to visit 4 unique theme parks (plus DTD, golf courses, two water parks, ESPN WWoS, etc..) or choose to just visit one or two things...
C. The attention to detail that I think many Universal-fans overlook. Now perhaps Universal also incorporates these details, such as piped-in theme music that changes when you enter a different "land" in Magic Kingdom, the carefully-planned and maintained flora through park and resort, special smells in each land, ride, resort (Polynesian anyone?!).
D. The Food! Where else can you eat at 'Ohana, Sanaa, CRT, The Yachtsman and San Angel Inn in one trip!?
E. The free extras! At Epcot alone there are concerts during Flower and Garden festival + Food and Wine, not to mention the live music at: Britain, Canada, Mexico, Japan, and Morocco. Again, free. And at MK, there is a day-time parade, nighttime parade, castle projection and fireworks. At Epcot and HS, there are fireworks. F-R-E-E!!
I keep saying free because I think many people overlook ALL the free things there are to do at these theme parks. They complain about the Disney buses, perhaps overlooking that they could rent a car $$ or take a taxi $$ or stay at a resort that is walking distance to a park or two. They say the tickets are too expensive, but spend all their park time elbowing grandmothers trying to get a fast pass and eating gross hamburgers, all the while ignoring the hidden, little things that make life enjoyable.
So, in closing, if your idea of a fun vacation is attempting to ride 17 roller coasters 10 times each, then Disney might not be your place. If your idea of a fun vacation is sitting out on a gazebo jutting out into World Showcase Lagoon, drinking a Dos Equis and looking at all the other pavilions, or staying at a resort where a giraffe is munching on a tree outside your window, or queuing up for a "dark ride" which relies on nostalgia, classic effects, memorable songs, and a story (Haunted Mansion, Pirates), then Disney is probably the place for you.
I'm completely in favor of many people choosing to spend more time at Universal, however. More room at Disney for people like me.