I think the problem is when people want to constantly compare the two - they are both theme parks, but they are very different and really neither trys to be the same It isn't a case of keeping up with the Jones's - they do what they want. Universal seems to be doing a little more of what the majority of people want and Disney sticks with its old Princesses for girls and Pirates for boys model.
I am a lifelong Disney guest and DVC owner. We love Disney, but I have to give a nod to Universal for understanding their target guest experience. Universal doesn't try to outdo Disney or be Disney - they just try to be the forefront of technology and use what space they have to make sure their guests have the best experience possible. They don't have to deal with the numbers Disney deals with and the resorts don't have to - Universal and their resorts can do more for their guests.
We started with a Scooby character dinner one night during ds6 Scooby phase. One step into their "value" resorts lobby and we realized that it was beyond anything offered at WDW. It was not campy or kitchy - it was a really nice hotel. We then ventured our next trip to add 2 nights at RPH. We were hooked. The service was amazing, the FOTL pass unmatched by anything Disney could do, and the parks - we all four had a ball.
There are enough playgrounds and water playgrounds, exciting smaller kid attractions, tons of characters (that you don't have to stalk and fight to see). I will say that it is more of a long weekend place for us - the perfect weekend vacation, but I can easily see the benefit to staying at Universal and driving to Disney vs the opposite.
HRH is outstanding and our family favorite. We were just there for Labor Day weekend and are heading down for MLK. None of that means I don't still love Disney, but there really are things that Universal just does better because they can (smaller).
I will say a couple of direct comparisons though - Kali River stinks and shouldn't be compared to anything. Its beautifully themed, but about 1/4 the length it should be. Popeye is just more fun even though theming is a bit less in your face. Now Grizzly River in DCA beats the pants off both!
Butterbeer - kicks LeFou's foammy backside. I can tolerate about 3 sips of the overly sweet and then too sour frozen apple juice before I'vd had to just throw it away. I'll make multiple special trips for a butterbeer when we're at IOA. Now that is personal opinion, but I hate LeFou's brew.
As to the longevity of Harry Potter and Spiderman - HP has become a "new" classic and will withstand the test of time without doubt. Spiderman shouldn't have to prove himself to anyone! I'm pretty sure LOTR was not in that mix as I'm hoping whoever said that does realize there were books before the movies - although in today's world you never can tell! I hated Avatar as a movie - loathe the idea of an entire world at Disney dedicated to something most have already forgotten. I'm sure they will do an amazing job with it, but would so much rather have seen something different. Now, Star Wars Galaxy - I can only hope and pray they don't squander that which they have been given (or bought)...I would quite possible move down there for that one! I'd still go to Universal on the weekends though
