If your EFC is $5000 they will come up with an aid package that includes loans, grants, work study to get her to the $19,000any you come up with the $5000. Most schools offer a payment plan too. Pell are not the only grants out there-most schools have their own grants. Honestly, it was less expensive for all of our friends' kids to attend private schools then public schools mainly because of this. When I went to college, the private school I attended was $5000/year LESS then the state schools I applied at-when state schools cost about $8000 and private schools were at $15,000 so that was significant.
Unfortunately they don't always come up enough to only leave you with the EFC.
None of the schools my DD was accepted to came up with enough aid to come close to only leaving the EFC. And My DH was out of work and had been for 2 years so we have no extra money sitting around. We had to take out a parent's plus loan to cover.
