I’m sorry that you feel like you are losing your Disney “joy.” It is such a special place and I hope that you can find a way to have it continue to bring you happiness.
I guess i’m struggling to understand why this feels so hard for you. Are you looking for the equivalent of a
DAS return every time, or just information about how to leave the line if you need to? How large is your party, and is there something about the make-up of your group that makes it impossible for some/most of the party to enter the line even if you cannot ever enter a standby queue (I believe the intention here is that most guests will start in the “normal” line)? CMs are always at the front of the LL entrance, and people are asked to step to the side all of the time if there are issues so it shouldn’t be that hard for one person to speak to the CM and everyone else (who frankly should all be together anyway when it is time to enter a line) to wait for a minute or two just off to the side.
No question would debate whether it is now more difficult vs. the old app-based system. But reasonable people can disagree about whether it is now <too> difficult for the now former DAS users and whether the clear and obvious benefit to park operations are justified.