Ok so I feel like a real meany now. My planner emailed me last night

. She is lovely and I think she is just very busy and I am just very impatient!!
She said that it may not be ideal having the instrumental playing quietly during the ceremony as our Officiate doesn't use a microphone so it all depends on how loud his voice carries as to who can hear him. But there are only 4 of us altogether so I'm sure it will be fine - although Mum is deaf in one ear as she reminded me last night, luckily it's her good ear that we be on the officiates side

. Anyway we are going to decide on the day about the instrumental which is great.
We are also having a white carpet up the aisle as well as 2 large flower arrangements. Originaally I really wanted a custom painted aisle runner but Carrie (planner) advised it may blow about on the deck so she has a white carpet runner to use instead. That and the flowers will make the deck look a little fuller. I'm a bit worried that our lack of guests will make us look lost so I wanted a few things to make up for the lack of people.
Other news - and this is a biggie - I've changed my dress!!!!
I've only payed the deposit so far and send fmy measurements at the end of May.Well the more I looked at it the more I started panicing about a potential Janet Jackson wardrobe malfunction (without the peircing lol). The Lily dress really scoops down low at the front as well as the back and I have been having a hard time finding underwear that won't show and I may have spent all day looking down to check I hadn't "escaped".
So after much discussion with Mum playing devils advocate, I have changed to the Merilyn dress. I emailed the dressmaker and she agreed that for a larger framed lady the Merilyn will offer more support up top and I will fell much more confident.
Here is the original dress (Lily)
Here is the new dress (Merilyn)
There's isn't much difference really and the price is the same as well. What do you think guys? I'd appreciate some opinions. I really hope I've made the right choice. It's so difficult when you can't actually try it on until it's been made and you've paid for it