Obviously this is YOUR opinion

which is fine. My main point is that everybody can have a different opinion of what is considered "well-behaved". If I disagree with you, does that mean I'm showing "bad parenting" and "bad manners"...of course not

! So, if I make the decision to bring my child to a restaurant that ALLOWS children, should I allow a stranger's opinion (other than restaurant mgmt) influence my dining experince

? Definately NOT

. Do you have to agree with me? YES...I mean of course you don't have to agree with me

. Does it make you guilty of bad parenting and bad manners to disagree with me...NO.
We are all different with differing tolerance levels. For instance, I could care less if a child got up from his table, cried/fussed, talked with "outside voices", or shrieked (I draw the line at "throwing food"

). But, since we are all adults, we can agree to disagree...right?
BTW...I do have a four year old who happens to do well in restaurants. I just never had a problem with kids who still "have issues"

dining in public.