Christmas all year long!

For those of you following along, I was on Kira's TR (Ann's oldest daughter), and Zoe and Ann are home from the hospital.

Oh wow, thank you for updating! I am really glad that they are home and I will pray that they stay that way!

Ann I was going to tell you that if your bored- try to color! They say that it's the cheapest and most therapeutic way to release stress and anger! I hope that you guys are getting a good nights sleep and good food right now and are able to stay home worry free! :grouphug:
 
For those of you following along, I was on Kira's TR (Ann's oldest daughter), and Zoe and Ann are home from the hospital.

Thank you for updating, Kathy! So good to know that they are home from hospital, keeping my fingers crossed for them so it stays that way! :thumbsup2
 
originally posted by katmark
for those of you following along, i was on kira's tr (ann's oldest daughter), and zoe and ann are home from the hospital.

awesome!!!
 

Thanks for posting an update, Kathy. I was pretty tapped when I got home. Then... I just wanted to get some laundry done yesterday.

So not sure what Kira posted. (have yet to get over there)

But... this is how monday went.

I was instructed to be ready around 4 to 5 am. Things would likely start to move quickly at that point.

I woke at 5 am with Zoe needing help with one of her tubes. I took care of that and found it to be great timing since I could then get ready.

I got ready and some time around 7 the residents finally came in and discussed some of the plan with me.

Zoe was to get a pic line. From there we would see how long it would take to set up all the at home stuff and teach me how to administer the medication. They were a bit vague beyond that. In talking with the nurse, she tried to prepare me that often they like to see the parent give a couple of doses. (this would mean another night at best)

Zoe was on a "nothing by mouth" diet since she was going to be going under for the placement. The nurse was doing a great job keeping me up to date on anything happening so I could prepare. I was told that the hospital was having meetings regarding Zoe since there did not seem to be agreement on what to do with her. See... when admitted, she had a fever and white blood cell count was up to 17. Within 12 hours of getting back on iv antibiotics, she perked up and her wbc count was back to normal. While the UA was dirty, they were waiting for the culture of her urine and blood. Guess what? Urine and blood were both clean. So... what was the cause of infection???? This is where and why the different teams were having a hard time agreeing.

In the 9'oclock hour the infectious disease doc came in flustered. She told me they would have a decision in 5 minutes. Her recommendation was to do an ultrasound and then do the pic. She acknowledged that the uro team did not want to do the US... and that if they chose not to then she would not sign off on the pic.. but would send Zoe home on augmentin.

Shortly after noon one of the residents finally came in to give us the verdict. Zoe was being released with augmentin. No US... NO pic. Zoe was allowed to finally eat something and we were allowed to pack to go home. Just as the nurse came in to give us the same news... a gal came in from IV team to get Zoe ready for the pic. So... obviously this was an 11th hour type decision. They really must have gone back and forth. It was good timing too since Zoe blew yet another vein. We were told that we might end back in the hospital... but that they hoped not. :headache:

So we got all packed up got her prescription and headed home. It took forever to get home. I think we were home by 8 or so.

Yesterday went well... other than there seem to be some confusion regarding when to come back to have tubes removed and what our discharge instructions are. I will get that squared away. The resident said she would have her tubes in for 4 more weeks. (instead of the 2 that were originally remaining) If that is the case... Zoe won't be able to go swimming or really play for most of the summer. I feel bad for her...

Now I am just trying to get back into a routine. I have to work some today or tomorrow.... and then the big push comes this weekend. I really hope that I can rely on my family to help watch Zoe. I didn't get a ton of support from them while Zoe was in hospital. (Kira tried... but she doesn't drive on freeways...so had to wait for her dad or husband to drive up.) So.. get my house back in order... get the rest of the laundry done (I almost got it all done yesterday) and I will be on my way back to a routine. :goodvibes

Thank you all so much for hanging with me through all of this. I spent many many lonely hours at the hospital and without your posts, I would have had an even harder time trying to get through it all. :grouphug:
 
Ann, I'm glad that you and Zoe are home. :goodvibes But so sorry for all that you've been through the past several weeks. I can't imagine the strength it has taken for you to be so brave for your baby girl. I'm glad that any of us could be a source of support for you. :grouphug: I know its often hard to explain to people who aren't part of something like the Dis, but it is often an incredible experience and we draw a lot of support from each other. Still sending prayers and pixie dust your way! :goodvibes
 
Ann, thank you so much for the update. I hope your "routine" gets back to normal soon for you. And I hope the family is helpful and supportive (you need the break). We are here whenever you need us. :hug:
 
Ann, I'm glad that you and Zoe are home. :goodvibes But so sorry for all that you've been through the past several weeks. I can't imagine the strength it has taken for you to be so brave for your baby girl. I'm glad that any of us could be a source of support for you. :grouphug: I know its often hard to explain to people who aren't part of something like the Dis, but it is often an incredible experience and we draw a lot of support from each other. Still sending prayers and pixie dust your way! :goodvibes

Thanks so much, Tina. You all were. Just knowing that I had a place to go to to share what was happening was so helpful. I know I "just had to deal" but somehow having things like what you just said, being said... made me feel better when I had a blue, angry or frustrating moment. I had a major melt down when we went back in. (I sat alone in the car screaming and crying) Mainly because I was told that I would just have to make the best of it from my dh. I love him.. but :headache: There were days that he didn't even come up.. and he took all the time off work so he could. The days he did come up he go there very late and stayed not very long. So when he told me to just make the best of it... when he got to pick and choose what he was going to deal with...it just threw me over the edge.

Ann, thank you so much for the update. I hope your "routine" gets back to normal soon for you. And I hope the family is helpful and supportive (you need the break). We are here whenever you need us. :hug:

I appreciate it so much. I kinda felt guilty for not posting yesterday... but I was so relieved when I saw that you gave an update. :hug:
 
And.. if there is a silver lining to all that has been going on....


Look at my tickers!!!!

I can't believe I am in the 4 + month range now.

:woohoo::woohoo::woohoo::woohoo:


I did call to try and change Zoe and I to an earlier flight. I could change one of us.. but the difference for the other was too much right now. (only one ticket is left at $99) So I am waiting... debating... I could go out later that day... and still get in a bit before the guys. BUT...it puts us in after DME will take our bags. We would have all of the 10th with the guys to play at POP though... so maybe that would be alright. And... since their flight would get in just after ours... we could wait and they could help with the luggage. I just like going straight to DME... and not going to baggage claim.
 
Thanks so much, Tina. You all were. Just knowing that I had a place to go to to share what was happening was so helpful. I know I "just had to deal" but somehow having things like what you just said, being said... made me feel better when I had a blue, angry or frustrating moment. I had a major melt down when we went back in. (I sat alone in the car screaming and crying) Mainly because I was told that I would just have to make the best of it from my dh. I love him.. but :headache: There were days that he didn't even come up.. and he took all the time off work so he could. The days he did come up he go there very late and stayed not very long. So when he told me to just make the best of it... when he got to pick and choose what he was going to deal with...it just threw me over the edge.



I appreciate it so much. I kinda felt guilty for not posting yesterday... but I was so relieved when I saw that you gave an update. :hug:

Don't mention it. :hug: Having that moment in the car was probably just what you needed at that moment to go in and face what you had to deal with. There's no way I'd get through something like that without some crying and screaming. :goodvibes I'm sorry your husband wasn't there as often as you would have liked. Everyone has different ways of dealing with things, I suppose.

Please don't feel guilty for not posting... isn't Kathy the best? :goodvibes
 
Things must be getting back to normal...you are stressing about plane tickets again! :lmao:

I am so sorry about Steve not being as supportive as you needed. I think I need a trip out Seattle way and kick hime in the hiney for you! :thumbsup2 It is amazing how dads (well mine and yours at least) just do no seem to take up the stress we do as moms when the kids are sick or just need to be raised...it seems to fall all on our shoulders to be the strong one and take care of the kids, them and us (which is always on the back burner). Jeff and I had a huge fight a few months ago on this very topic...and we rarely fight. The stress had finally boiled over and I was done...I am so looking forward to a week from today...I am taking my kids to Colorado to spend 10 days with my mom...my sisters and their families. On my way back I am stopping at the cabin and spending atleast 3 days completely alone to MYSELF...I just need the ME time. Like I can imagine that you need! :wizard:Tell Steve you need to a few hours this weekend and just make him deal with it...take off not feel guilty and do something for yourself!
 
I feel ya sister... I swear boys internalize things or don't quite show us what we need sometimes when we need it the most.

I'm just glad y'all are home and finding normalcy again. It's been a long run.

So, so, soooooo glad everything is falling into place and here's to hoping Zoe rocks her recovery.
 
I hope that you are getting support and things done! Things will look up! I'll keep praying and I am so sorry for Zoe, I hope that she's doing well and she sounds like such a trooper! I'm sorry about Steve, maybe just go out for a little girl time to make yourself feel better (maybe you and Zoe- even Kira) could use it! Even if it's just going on a date together for some ice cream!
 
Ann, I am happy to hear that you are back home again, even though the road there was bumpy!
You both need some rest. Take it easy (if you can) over the next few days! :hug:
 
Things must be getting back to normal...you are stressing about plane tickets again! :lmao:

:rotfl2::rotfl2::rotfl2: You know it!!!

I am so sorry about Steve not being as supportive as you needed. I think I need a trip out Seattle way and kick him in the hiney for you! :thumbsup2 It is amazing how dads (well mine and yours at least) just do no seem to take up the stress we do as moms when the kids are sick or just need to be raised...it seems to fall all on our shoulders to be the strong one and take care of the kids, them and us (which is always on the back burner). Jeff and I had a huge fight a few months ago on this very topic...and we rarely fight. The stress had finally boiled over and I was done...I am so looking forward to a week from today...I am taking my kids to Colorado to spend 10 days with my mom...my sisters and their families. On my way back I am stopping at the cabin and spending atleast 3 days completely alone to MYSELF...I just need the ME time. Like I can imagine that you need! :wizard:Tell Steve you need to a few hours this weekend and just make him deal with it...take off not feel guilty and do something for yourself!

Sounds like you have a good plan for some time to yourself. I think I need to plan something like that. I was able to meet with a friend for dinner tonight. IT WAS AWESOME! Thing is.. Steve and I don't really fight either... but he does definitely deal with stress differently. I calmly talked with him last night about how I was feeling. He mentioned to me that he just could not do what I am doing. I told him I don't have a choice. I think in a nutshell that is the difference between moms and dads when it comes to the care giving. Moms don't' have a choice... we don't think "hmm... maybe I will just leave my child in the hospital". I think it isn't so much that dads think that they should.. they just don't think that they shouldn't.

Don't mention it. :hug: Having that moment in the car was probably just what you needed at that moment to go in and face what you had to deal with. There's no way I'd get through something like that without some crying and screaming. :goodvibes I'm sorry your husband wasn't there as often as you would have liked. Everyone has different ways of dealing with things, I suppose.

Please don't feel guilty for not posting... isn't Kathy the best? :goodvibes

It was just what I needed... but I have to say I was a bit cranky (well.. maybe more than a bit. :rolleyes1) when I came back to the room. I was no longer in crying sad me mode though... more in angry me mode. :guilty:

And yes, Kathy is the best. :goodvibes

I feel ya sister... I swear boys internalize things or don't quite show us what we need sometimes when we need it the most.

I'm just glad y'all are home and finding normalcy again. It's been a long run.

So, so, soooooo glad everything is falling into place and here's to hoping Zoe rocks her recovery.

:thumbsup2

I hope that you are getting support and things done! Things will look up! I'll keep praying and I am so sorry for Zoe, I hope that she's doing well and she sounds like such a trooper! I'm sorry about Steve, maybe just go out for a little girl time to make yourself feel better (maybe you and Zoe- even Kira) could use it! Even if it's just going on a date together for some ice cream!

I did get some time out tonight. I really needed it. :goodvibes

Ann, I am happy to hear that you are back home again, even though the road there was bumpy!
You both need some rest. Take it easy (if you can) over the next few days! :hug:

I will try.. but do you know what a house with two guys in it.. who have not swept of vacuumed in 2 weeks looks like? :rotfl: So I will be cleaning and trying to get ready for a busy work week. I was so very blessed to have little to no work over the last couple weeks. However, come sat. I will be rushing about trying to tend to all my stores.
 
So prior to Zoe's surgery, I did some shopping but didn't have a chance to share pictures of what I got.

I thought I would take a moment to do so.

First, I got this dress for Zoe. I hope it will be warm enough in December for her to wear it to AK.
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Are these elephants not just too cute? :goodvibes
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I made a trip to the Disney store. What did I find?

This for Steve..
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This for me...
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This for Zoe...
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