staley7580
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woohooo, happy news.. the big bad scary thought of not having money for bills is averted... for at least a little while.Eloy looked at his upcoming pay stub, we thought he was done with his deferred pay from last year's salary.. but I guess not. YEAH! I thought so, but Eloy was not convinced. So I got to do the "told you so" snotty sing song routine
Oh yes, and my body has noticed it's hot today. Darn you cool weather for disappearing! Motrin (okay, generic Walmart brand) here I come. grrrrrr!
Happier news, I can finally get a diagnosis next month because we will be poor enough to get insurance thru the state.. yeah for being poor.. that's sarcasm if you didn't realize.
Thanks guys... We are all good now. My mom REALLY came through for us when I really needed her. PLUS she had ALL the kids school clothes waiting for us at her house. There was tons of clothes. WHich was AWESOME. I just stupidly got us in a huge hole that when it came crunch time, I couldnt fix. and it HAD to be fixed in about a one day time frame. BUT... Thankfully my mom was there to help. It was our car payment.. I got behind. WAY behind. My mom wanted to just pay off the car altogether.. But I said NO FREAKING WAY. I love my mom, but she tends to hold that kinda thing over your head, you know? I dont want to feel like I am in debt to her for 20 grand. My husband on the other hand was like.. Screw it! Let her pay for it. We know she has the money. Ummmmm... NO!
We ARE lucky with Julie. She is awesome. She is still a teenager, and totally acts like a teen most o the time. But when we are in a crunch, she is amazing. hehehehe... I have a funny story.. Kinda. There is this little boy that lives in the complex, and he is a little slow.. I used to have Alex kinda watch out for him, make sure the other kids dont pick on him to much.. Whatever.. Then we started noticing that..1. his parents dont seem to give a crap about him. That made me sad for him.. 2.. The kids picks on younger kids that cant stick up or themselves. Like Kaylee. We have had 3 or 4 times where she has come up BAWLING and BLEEDING because he has pushed her down. I dont blame the kid. I really dont. His parents are AWFUL. Yesterday he knocks Kaylee down, she comes in with her leg all bloody and I LOST MY MIND. I called Alex in and told him I was done. I this kid messes with you or your sister... Kick his BUTT. Not the right way to take care of it, I know.. But his parents arent doing CRAP about this stuff.
Anyways.. I go to Julie and tell her what happened, and she was in her jammies.. She grabs her clothes and as she is running through the house stripping, and throwing on her other clothes she is yelling how she is going to kill this kid because NO ONE messes with her babies!!Anyways.. We go to leave to take her out later on, and all the little kids are yelling at this one kid, and throwing rocks at him. I was like.. WTH?? NO. Of course.. there is one kids little brother sitting on the ground crying, and BLEEDING.. The kid is like 3, and Darby went after him.
So dh ran up and got Darby's dad and said there is something going on with your kid, you need to be outside handling it. He come running down, talks to Darby for a minute and comes stomping over to us.. He said Alex has been beating him up.
I DONT THINK SO. I laid into that guy and told him everything that has been going on. I showed him Kaylees legs.. EVERYTHING. I told him about his little angel..
shoving another boys head into the wall over.. and over.. and over again. He said.. Oh. Sorry. Ill handle it. Mmm. Yeah. Right. I was hot. It is NOT the first time we have gone to them with this stuff. I rather think CPS will handle it if we have any more issues. I know our apartment manager is thinking about calling on these people, and when I complained.. She told me I should call as well. This is a special needs kid, out ALL hours of the day and night, no parents in sight, I have seen him playing on the main street.. WHich I told his mom she was out there and she didnt care! GRRRRRR. I wish they would just move! I dont want to see when he gets hit by a car!
Wow.. Im sorry! That was really long winded! But this whole situation makes me CRAZY!!![]()
Megan that is so awesome that your mom was able to help you guys out. It seems my mom will be helping us till the end of time. We are living in the house I grew up in and we pay a lowered rent then what she could get if she were to rent it to the general public but with dh taking a 10/hr pay cut it was the only way we could make due. And she still pays some of the utilities on the place to like water and garbage and such which really helps us out. It is a BIG house and those things get expensive. Esp here where the meter the water and such (we live on an acre). But for us it is a give and take. They don't really want to sell the place so by us living in it and "taking care of it" and paying them some rent to offset the payment it helps them and in turn we get a place to rent that is cheaper then if we had to go find a place. So we are helping eachother out. But SOME day I would love to be able to own my own place again!! I owned two houses during my first marriage and as tough as it was to get by it was such a good feeling to be able to do it on my own. But in this day and age it seems sometimes we ALL need a little help!!
And that whole situation with the little kid (I wasn't sure if it was a boy or girl, you probably said but I was confused LOL) That is just nuts! I hope they move or your manager turns them in or something. It is not good for the child or anyone ELSE'S kids yours included. SHEESH!
And don't worry about talking about it. It helps to vent about stuff like that! I totally get it. We all need to do that sometimes!
Hey on a happy note I booked our room for Dec! So now I have TWO trips to look forward to! I am so excited. I don't think we have been to DL at Christmas since like 06! So I am really excited. I can't remember if I said anything on here but my dh isn't going with us to DW in Nov and he was pretty bummed because he hasn't been on ANY vacation since our short little 4 day vacation last Oct to DL. So he really wanted to go SOMEWHERE and suggested we do another short weekend trip in Dec. So we are driving down the day the girls get out of school and only staying 3 days but I'll take it! So excited!
Anyway I am off to pick up the girls from school here in a minute (short day today) and then they have soccer practice tonight. Have a good rest of your day everyone!!![]()
I also love seeing Evil Teddy in HM! He is cute and my favorite NBC character![]()
Boo on the weights!! Who does that?? Good luck on the freckle removal. I have only ever had babies removed.. and my gall bladder. None of which hurt all that much!Just wow! How horrible on all accounts with that child. It's so sad when parents don't parent and everyone else pays for it. I hope that kid gets some help and the manager should call CPS on them, if for no other reason than to get that kid hopefully somewhere where he'll be watched over.
Yay for two trips! I'm so jealous!
I worked out in the park today with my trainer, she took me to this huge stair case to make me run stairs. She had two weights with her and put them in a corner on the staircase. We ran down and back up and the weights were gone. Someone stole them! How rude! I hope whoever stole them had to walk a long ways home up hill. I felt so bad for my trainer, they weren't expensive weights but just the fact that someone took something that wasn't theirs sucks.
I'm going to the doctor soon. I have a freckle (it's more like a mole but I hate the word mole) being removed. I'm a little bit scared it's going to hurt. I'm trying to tell myself if I can run up that giant staircase I can get a little needle in my back. Wish me pain free!
GAH!! Ready for a vacation??Drive by hi & bye!
So I go home last night...greek chicken has been marinating all day and is ready for DH to bbq. Only he decided to go for a Harley ride! WTH? Our bbq starter button is broke and I don't know how to get the thing started. On top of it DD turned the AC off...it was too cold for her. WTH? It was 90 degrees and the house was roasting and I'm having hot flashes...are you people nuts!
DD then hands me the laptop and tells me something's wrong and she HAS to get online to the college for an assignment that's due Thursday morning. DS apparently got a virus yesterday from God only know's where! Anti-virus didn't get rid of it so I had to completely restore the computer to factory settings, then bring it to work today so I could use the faster internet to download all the necessary software.
I start yelling and completely lose it...I was yelling at DH on his cell phone, DD ran for her room, DS ran out across the yard leaving me to deal with every single mess that they had created.
So I cranked up the AC, stood over the top of a vent with an icepack, figured out how to start the bbq, fixed the computer, got DD on the old computer (slower then Xmas, but hey it's better than nothing). Oh this was after I yelled at the stupid lady at AT&T...told me to go to McDonalds and get on their wi-fi internet to download the proper software for our internet card...are you freakin' kiddin' me? AT&T tells me to go to Mickey D's to there software incompatibility problem? Are they kidding? Our McD is lucky they have fries, let alone free Wi-Fi.
But I'm much better today. All the problems seem to be fixed (not that anybody else in my family actually fixed anything!). I'm sensing a nervous breakdown soon.![]()
Megan....teenagers, love them or kill them? That is the real question, as there seems to be no in between with them.One minute they act like they are 30 and the next minute they act like they are 3.
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Tonight we are grocery shopping in the middle of the night. Where she is from the stores all close at 6, and arent open on SUndays.. So she thinks it is cooler than cool that our stores are open 24/7.. She has been wanting to make a middle of the night store run since she got here.![]()
Sarah- I think I remember seeing the monkey bride. Did it have cymbals? I can't remember.
Here's a picture I found:
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It's only there during the NMBC overlay.
Thanks for explaining the seeding.. after I read it I realized I had heard the term before but, had no clue what it actually meant.
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woah, weird expression on that pin. He looks upset to be with cutesy Easter stuff.. I would be too!![]()
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Isn't it odd how we remember certain times of year, associating one stand out event with that month that overshadows everything else?
Major events in history will stand out in the minds of those who were alive at the time to witness it.
But sometimes other life events crop up that bear significance.. for us it's December: remembering the transplant surgery, it's the same month that Eloy and I met, it's the same month when we had a miscarriage.
Now we think of July: "the time we moved to CA and back", all the birthday celebrations with Eloy's family and the "anniversary of starting home hemo".
A little bit of joy mixed with the sorrow.
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And boo for heat! I was lulled into thinking. Wow, what a nice breezy day! That gradually became a HOT breezy day.
I was hoping for cool weather tomorrow, we are going to the state fair
Justin is marching in the parade, it's a big competition with all the schools in the state. Each day of the fair several different schools are featured in the parade, they get points based on performance and the winning band in each classification (based on school size) gets extra funding.
They have already been advised that the state fair staff decide if it's too hot to wear uniform. It's been so hot this summer, they have done only one parade in uniform this season.It's just not the same to be in white T's and khaki's for a parade, they look awesome in the uniforms.
We shall pace ourselves tomorrow: scoring our free swag, nibbling on something-on-a stick, oggle the butter princess in the glassed spinning refrigerator, take the scary sky ride across the fair and pretend to kick people in the head, look at the art competition, the jelly/ baked goods/ quilts competition, the live bee/honey demo, the fish swimming at the MN DNR pool, watch some poor animal give birth in front of hundreds of people barn, cooking demos, crap for sale, drool over the eco-friendly house
.. if we have time .. and the stamina..
look at the pet competition and the live vet surgery (snip snip time for Lassie!), watch lumberjacks create art out of a log, watch some bands, be wowed by the teens in the skate park, laugh at the parents wasting money on the carni rides, and dare each other to do the BIG slide (how many steps UP is that? ).
Oh and drink as much milk (or choc milk) for the price of one cup until we slosh in the insides and turn green around the edges. Unlimited refills!
Just your typical day at the fair.
Ride bus back downtown, take a different one and walk a mile all the way home since our regular route stops at 5pm.. fall into a heap exhausted and burnt![]()