I love all three of those. And have been to all three many times!
Chef Mickey's is one of the few where you get to see Mickey himself. Its a lot of fun to be inside the Contemporary and see the monorail whizzing up above. And you can easily walk right over to the MK or take the monorail.
1900 is my favorite for food and the characters as mentioned above are a lot of fun.
Crystal Palace is great, I love the setting and being inside the park is beyond nice. I also love its food. If you can get an early ADR, you can get inside the park before it opens and get a picture of your dd in front of the castle without mobs of people around.
They are all great, pick the one that has the characters your dd will enjoy the most!