Originally posted by disneyholic family
and what exactly could you have done from the cruise ship in an emergency? gotten on a plane to fly home?
i don't know which of your family members was sick, but in situations like this you have to leave someone responsible in charge.....if there's no one responsible other than yourself, then you don't leave on vacation.....(if you're talking about a child, i can't relate at all, never having gone on any vacations without my children).....
What would I have done from the cruise ship if my grandmother had passed away you ask? I would have gotten off at the next port and flown home. Someone responsible was left in charge as you so nicely put it, but you never know with Cancer when something is going to happen and you can't put your life on hold. You go on daily with your own life and then keep checking in on things. But, when the day does come, you need to be there for your family.
Maybe you should check your anger about your husband having to be connected 24/7 as you say and realize that everyone has different reasons for needing to stay connected and some are very important. I myself would never have forgiven myself if I had just sat back and enjoyed the whole week without periodically checking in on the situation at home.
And when I do travel without my kids and go to Europe, we call home at least once per day just so they can hear our voices!