We did the Candlelight Processional last year with our DD who was 3 at the time. We did the package, which was great because we didn't have to wait in a huge line. We brought her snacks and her "Princess Polly Pockets" to play with. It kept her occupied for most of the program. I really enjoyed the Candlelight Processional. Got me in the Christmas spirit. That being said, I probably would have enjoyed it more without the little one to contend with. However, if it was a choice of taking DD or not going at all, I would take her again in a second.
Joanne