I'm the one who had the daughter who was hospitalized. In fact she was in the hospital exactly a year ago for 9 miserable days. She was 11 at the time and had never had the shot. She ended up missing over a month of classes. She saw at least 5 doctors over the course of her stay.
Trim his nails and keep his hands really clean. I was doing those things, but she still scratched a pox in her sleep and got an infection. They said we all have germs on our skin and with her high temp it was just like growing something in a lab. I was also told that Motrin isn't as good a choice for chicken pox. For some reason kids get more infections from scratched pox when they are taking it?
DD couldn't walk. She had to use a walker. She had a huge, nasty blister that oozed awful stuff. Her whole leg was red and swollen. They had trouble stopping the infection and were afraid for a while that it had gone to the bone. The doctors told me that she might have to come home with an IV, and do home schooling for the rest of the year. I really think we are lucky that they were able to stop it when they did. I was very afraid. We worried that we might even lose her. The doctors were worried enough that they did neuclear testing on her leg.
Don't let anyone tell you that chicken pox is no big deal. I didn't get the shot because I didn't want her to have to remember to get boosters. I'd give anything if I had, looking back. She still has damage to her ankle. It'll never be the same. It's weak and darker than the other one. She is a ballet dancer and we are considering giving up her pointe class because she keeps turning her ankle. I'm worried that she will get hurt. It was a life-altering experience for her.