Can you "get over" being cheated on? #191 - I'm done.

[goofygirl]

Warning: Male bashing ahead!

Men are such dogs (actually DOGS are more loyal). Sorry DIS guys, but that's my honest opinion.


Good for you for not putting up with a cheater anymore. I believe in
once a cheater, always a cheater and you can never fully trust them again.

You deserve better.

Lily has a good example for a momma!

And I hope your mom gives you a lot of support, you need it (you were saying she's a nitpicker in another topic.)

 

[Tinkerbell_Girl]

My thoughts are with you and Lily.

 

[floridafam]

So sorry

 

[bamajill]

You deserve better and I'm very hopeful that your future, from this day forward, will bring you good things.

I'm so sorry for your pain.

((hugs))

 

[Steamboat Marti]

I know you are feeling like this is the lowest point in your life, but remember, it can only get better from here. Better for you, better for your daughter. Hopefully things will be as smooth as possible for you - and we're here for a hug if you need it.

 

[kristen821]

I am glad you are such a strong person. I wish you luck!

 

[disneymom3]

I am so sorry this happened. But best that you found out now instead of after you have Lilly home. You don't want to risk her heart too.

I just feel ill for you. I cannot say how sorry I am. Hugs--be strong.

 

[GJM]

You are such a strong person - Best of Luck

 

[suzannen]

I am so sorry you are having to go through all of this, but I do agree with others, that it is better that this happened before you brought Lily into your home. I personally know several "serial" cheaters who "swing" and they keep swearing they're going to stop, but they just can't seem to stop themselves. For most of them, it has been going on for years and one admitted to me that it's really the unknown that makes it so exciting. (You don't want to know what my reply to him was!) Meanwhile, you have to do what is best for you and that beautiful daughter (what a cutie). Just keep your focus on the two of you and what a special gift she is to you and you are to her. And, as hard as it seems, your heartbreak will eventually heal.

 

[Laura]

You are definitely doing the right thing. I wish you luck and a speedy arrival of your adorable Lily!

 

[calypso*a*go-go]

So sorry! Just want to say you had a life before you met "the cheater", and you'll certainly have one without him. Just focus on getting Lilly as that's the one very positive thing that will come out of this situation. Best of luck to you.

 

[bettyann29]

So sorry... You deserve so much more.. From personal experience I can tell you that it will get better over time.. Just remember to stay strong..

 

[nwdisgal]

You are a very strong woman, and you deserve all the best. Good luck with your adoption.

 

[Planogirl]

I'm so sorry. I don't understand how anyone can do things like this.