Thank you for the blessed remarks,
Your grandma sounds a lot like the grandma I am now. I would sit out and watch the kids, let others go on.....save the money.....
I could never convince Dad to go to Disney when he had his health. By the time we planned to take him to Cape canaveral, everglades boat ride, he was diagx with cancer,,,,,
Life is precious for the children to remember the trip with their grandma, her ooo's and ahhhh's over them, get g'ma a scooter, decorate it up, make a map of a few Interest items for her....She must remember the worls fair in NY 1960's, the carosel of progress, Its a Small World, Make a big deal for a picture with a hug from Eyore or Goofy...I have a special memory of Goofy he is my special friend forever now.....
This is a picture of my oldest dd Born on Mothers Day. The picture was provided to me by Disney with no cost 3 months after the experiation of our photopass that had about a dozen pic's on it.....
For my dd funeral. This was her last trip.
Three months after our visit she passed away unexpectly at 29. When I had contacted Disney by email to see if we could locate those pictures they called me and sent by email picture of her, then mailed a CD for us to have the memories from that trip.
I was crying so hard thanking them and the woman said, that is What Disney is about MAKING MEMORIES....
That is why I guess it hits me for grandma to understand, her best way to make it easier, is to create memories in those families memories they will hold forever. Getting hugs from the charaters, running through the water fountains, flying with Dumbo....What ever it takes.
Back to Goofy, my son took me as the baby sitter on a trip, well a helper not really a baby sitter, the year I lost my darling Angel.
We wefre in the barn for the character greet. After the youngest dd went up for a picture Goofy waved me over for a picture....I must have had a sad face because he gave me a hug, Tears in my eyes I told him, Thank you so much my friend....you made me smile. He hugged super and held my hands to his chest and head to mine.....It was a magic moment for me....
Disney is the most special place on earth for me as I can forget to be everything for everybody,,,, I can be a kid, I can remember the class trip to the Worlds Fair, watching Walt in Color finally on Sunday night....
I am only 55 and have to do Disney in a scooter or walker. I fussed about the scooter that I would be a bother the first trip....Now I realize how much more we can do, plus it hold a cooler with water and Kool Aid pouches, jackets, snacks,
I have a gdson now almost 5 that wants me to go auto train and sleep in the car with him. I kept saying no I will save the money and buy the $72 bargin flight,,,,,This post I ate my own words! I will take the train and give a memory to my grandson.
My younger dd 14, this is the first she is willing to travel and leave the home, bad anxiety/panic....she felt better being on a plane direct for 2 hrs. A recent trip to local Steamtown park showed the pullman cars, the OLD ONE's.
So she was bought a ebags, mother lode, and reading sites about the train,
Making a new memory with our little man, even though we miss our sweetheart sooooo much.
Our heart has a hole that can never be repaired like it was, but it certainly has a place to fill with new blessings.
GRANDMA PLEASE GO.
Di
PS edited to add, I saw grandma's age. It is exhausting doing the walking for young and healthy, the standing in lines. GET THE SCOOTER or her age a wheel chair. Make her believe this is what will make the trip. The chair will hold a cooler, bags, and be a seat whenever where ever she needs it.
Even if she goes, just for those 2 day, the hotel on site has loaner wheel chairs...It is NOT about pride, it is doing what we need to do for the best adventure.