Can I cry and vent?

[Kitty 34]

A lot of great advice has been given so I just want to offer you {{{{{{HUGS}}}}}} and good thoughts.

 

[DonnaS]

I agree, lots of good advice given here. Listen to Jipsy and BriarRose

However, since he does read here, I'm not sure it is the best place for you to cry/vent. At best it makes you too vulnerable to him and at worst, he may see it as you being passive aggressive.

 

[Robinrs]

I agree, NOT a good idea to let a male see your bleeding heart in writing... nope, not a good idea.

Take care of yourself. It's so like us to look for what's wrong with US instead of what's wrong with HIM. Maybe if I were prettier, maybe if I were thinner... MAYBE IF HE WAS COMMITTED????

My Mom weighed twice what she weighed when she was married and my Dad's eyes watered up everytime he looked at her for 61 years of marriage. Love is blind, darling.

Jipsy and BR were right on. Get legal advice.

Try seeing your son's psychiatrist also. He's reaching out for something and boys that age NEED their Moms, no matter how cool or better life is elsewhere. That kind of talk should always be taken seriously and find out the root of it. If he's that way at 12 the teenage years will be very hard on you and everyone. Take it from one who knows.

God bless, honey.

 

[jamsmom]

Hi all, this is Carol’s infamous Jim.



All of you here are seeing only one side to this story, similar to how many Americans are currently seeing the middle-east conflicts.



For the sake of preserving mine and Carol’s anonymity, I will not be presenting my side to these stories. Promulgated details of our lives would be detrimental to both of us.



But I will publicly state an apology and explanation as to why I felt it necessary for me to reference this board, because it involves you, the Disney Board community.



Tuesday around 2 pm, I had left my home office for a golf outing. Upon my return around 9 pm, I had immediately noticed my computer had been hacked. First I thought someone from the internet had gone through some special firewalls I’ve set (I have to expose my IP for a distributive computing project I’m working on). Upon further investigation, I determined that it was definitely an inside job.



I asked Carol if one of my friends had come by to use my computer while I was out. She said no. That left no-one to blame but her. Six months ago, for undisclosed reasons, I had sternly stated to her to NEVER dig into my PC again. So at this point, I felt quite angry and betrayed. Evil-thoughts of retribution (i.e. go yell at her, leave immediately never to return, etc.) began clouding my head.



Regretfully, I succumbed to one of those thoughts, that was to get her back, by spying her message board. A simple search of her screen name revealed something I hadn’t expected, further damning evidence of her deceitfulness on her latest post. Those of you who replied on this thread before her 4/16 @ 4:22 GMT edit know what I saw. I won’t speak anymore of this.



Again, the purpose of this post is to apologize and explain my actions relating to this board, not to childishly spread dirt or refute a cornucopia of lies.



Though you have no reason to believe me, I hope you will when I say that I never intend to visit here again. Please don’t take this as spite. Without this trust, Carol may never again be able to have the open dialogue here she obviously holds dear, just as all of us revere our 1st Amendment rights to free speech.



I have one just request, PLEASE do not instigate our problems to where they spiral out of control. Carol and I can both irreparably damage ourselves (financially and emotionally) in a bitter public breakup. We already have verbal break-up agreement that need not be picked at by outsiders. Carol would surely admit that I am the most pacified, liberal-hearted, person she knows (much to my own financial and political dismay).



I have never had any intension to bring harm onto her. Sometimes, however, a couple’s ideologies are just too incompatible, and a time comes to go separate ways.



So finally, please accept my sincerest apologies for intruding onto this board. And to the board moderators, please feel free to delete this post/thread if it has broken any board rules (or if you feel this soap-opera is inappropriate for a Disney family board).



P.S. I did let Carol read this before posting.

 

[browneyes]

Originally posted by jamsmom
P.S. I did let Carol read this before posting.

Let?

I know psychological hogwash when I see it.

 

[aahmom1]

P.S. I did let Carol read this before posting.

Wow! Aren't you the big man.

So let me get this straight, you got upset that she was looking through your computer, because I assume you have something to hide. So to pay her back you went searching through her computer? Yeah, that's fair. My advice still stands Carol, go see a lawyer about the house and get your son back. Don't wait for him to give you what is yours, you may never see it.

 

[aahmom1]

Those of you who replied on this thread before her 4/16 @ 4:22 GMT edit know what I saw. I won’t speak anymore of this.

I see no edit at that time.

 

[glo]

This is really a personal matter and should be handled that way. I am closing this thread.