Cape May used to be a "must do" for us. After our February visit, we don't consider it such anymore. It wasn't bad, it just wasn't as good. Service was spotty, food was slow to get to the buffet, lines were long. If you don't like mussels and clams, I don't think you'll be happy here.
The peel and eat shrimp is pretty good and they always have a good clam chowder. The desserts are very good.