ToddyLu
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DH and I purchased 210 points at AKV in 2009 and have taken both my parents and MIL on week long trips...we book studios. 1 for us and one for them. In years past I have been able to score 2 value studios but not in the last couple of years, so I book standard. Until this year DH and I were working full time, now DH is retired. The last two trips and this one in Nov are just he and I. We love going with parents but we also like going alone. There is no way my parents (74 and 80 and MIL 76) could sleep on a sofa. DH used to sleep on the pull out in the studio, mu BIL does when he stays in my MIL room. But the last two trips DH had rather sleep on the bed with me. We share a king at home and both use CPAPs. So until this last year he liked having more room on his own surface. Now we are just older and we will just have to get used to sleeping close together on a queen mattress with dualing CPAPs. Life moves on, people change and age comes into play. I am turning 50 this year and DH is 54. I don't want to sleep on a fold out and I don't him to sleep on it either. I want to rest on vacation, maybe not even go to a park.
I promise you once you own DVC your perception of vacation, time vs money, money vs comfort, comfort vs privacy comes into play. At this point, I where an old t shirt to bed and we both make funny sounds while asleep in the night. Heck when I was 28 I would go and stay in a 26 foot camper with 5 adults and 3 kids....no way in hell I could do that now...how is that a vacation. But life and age changes you. You spend a lot of money on a Disney timeshare, you want to share the good times with family and friends, been there and done that...
This next July we will get a ( I hope) a two bedroom dedicated for DH, me, DH's BFF, his wife and their two teenagers: a girl 14 and boy 18. I am getting a dedicated so DH and I will have the king, and then they will have two queens and the pull outs to decide how they want to do their sleeping arrangements. Lodging is on us. I think they will have a great time with the space and their two bathrooms. Everyone has a bed and they can decide where the kids sleep and who gets the second queen bed...not my problem. We have also explained that once made this reservation can not/will not be cancelled. If something happens and they cannot go then my parents or MIL will go. If that happens they get the king and DH and I each get a queen. I can only afford 5 nights in a 2 bedroom ( 195 points). Even if I added the one time only points and combine them with my 15 remaining pints it isn't enough to get the 6th night ( which would have to be a Friday or Saturday at 46 points). This is the one and only time we will ever do this kind of trip. We really want them to go and experience Disney like we do in a way.
I said all that to say this...it is ultimately your money. You are buying the timeshare, don't buy it for anyone but you. Life changes and people say they will do something, then don't...because their life changes. You are only responsible to yourself. It has to be for you and you alone...it is a waste of money otherwise. If they want to go, they will sleep on the pull out...simple as that.
I promise you once you own DVC your perception of vacation, time vs money, money vs comfort, comfort vs privacy comes into play. At this point, I where an old t shirt to bed and we both make funny sounds while asleep in the night. Heck when I was 28 I would go and stay in a 26 foot camper with 5 adults and 3 kids....no way in hell I could do that now...how is that a vacation. But life and age changes you. You spend a lot of money on a Disney timeshare, you want to share the good times with family and friends, been there and done that...
This next July we will get a ( I hope) a two bedroom dedicated for DH, me, DH's BFF, his wife and their two teenagers: a girl 14 and boy 18. I am getting a dedicated so DH and I will have the king, and then they will have two queens and the pull outs to decide how they want to do their sleeping arrangements. Lodging is on us. I think they will have a great time with the space and their two bathrooms. Everyone has a bed and they can decide where the kids sleep and who gets the second queen bed...not my problem. We have also explained that once made this reservation can not/will not be cancelled. If something happens and they cannot go then my parents or MIL will go. If that happens they get the king and DH and I each get a queen. I can only afford 5 nights in a 2 bedroom ( 195 points). Even if I added the one time only points and combine them with my 15 remaining pints it isn't enough to get the 6th night ( which would have to be a Friday or Saturday at 46 points). This is the one and only time we will ever do this kind of trip. We really want them to go and experience Disney like we do in a way.
I said all that to say this...it is ultimately your money. You are buying the timeshare, don't buy it for anyone but you. Life changes and people say they will do something, then don't...because their life changes. You are only responsible to yourself. It has to be for you and you alone...it is a waste of money otherwise. If they want to go, they will sleep on the pull out...simple as that.