Well said! It's not that I don't appreciate a homemade gift, I do. I would love a scrapbook or homemade baked goods, love the homemade mixes in a jar. I just personally don't like knickknacks, especially not ones w/ crochet doilies on top (the one my aunt bought me). I just don't. That kind of a gift seems completely devoid of thought. It's not about getting me something from a list or that cost a certain amount. Let me throw some lights in a jar. That doesn't really seem like much thought in the same way that making a scrapbook or making some baked goods, etc. I agree with other posters, in that instance, I'd rather you not buy me anything or buy me a $5 candle from
Walmart or a box of candy canes, something that actually can be used.