It would be nuts of me to let her have 16. Last year they were still up at 1am. They were settled down with a movie but I could still hear them talking and giggling upstairs. I finally had to just go to bed. They were good but they were HYPER all evening. I can't imagine having more than twice that number of kids. DD has such a big heart and so concerned about hurting someone's feelings so we're having a very hard time narrowing down the list.
I love the mystery dinner idea. I'll have to file that away for another party. I think we are definitely going to go with pizza just for simplicity. We'll do the decorate your own cupcakes but I might also get DH to get the fire pit going if its not rainy or anything and do smores with the kids. We have a nice big flat back yard and I read an idea to have all the kids bring flashlights and hide candy all over the yard and have them do a hunt in the dark. The weather here is hit or miss this time of year though. Saturday it was 60 and sunny and yesterday we got almost 8 inches of snow.