boys.

[TheBellhop]

hmm..i could...but dont have a reason to

Gee, yeah, you don't have a reason to...but you're probably just lying again.

 

[DisneyLover11491]

so travis is they guy u talkin about

 

[Sonne]

Have at it sc87, I have your back.

(Although I'm having trouble believing this is true though)

 

[TalkisCheap]

Have at it sc87, I have your back.

(Although I'm having trouble believing this is true though)

because i'd sit here and lie?? that's his style...not mine.

 

[ThinkTink510]

since the guys are goin with travis ill be on carolines side

 

[ThinkTink510]

not that i wanna be in this



sorry caroline im just gonna watch for now im me if ya need me

 

[PG Sweetie]

I'm on Carolines side also cause I know how she feels.

 

[Sonne]

because i'd sit here and lie?? that's his style...not mine.

No, because I truly think you overreacted.

I'm usually on the girls side on these matters, but in this case I'll take his.

This thread is doomed to closure anyway.

 

[ThinkTink510]

caroline dont hate me

 

[DisneyLover11491]

im a girl and im takin travis' side

 

[TalkisCheap]

i don't want people to "take sides" and i don't really want this to make anyone on this thread not like me...i just wanted to know if people would have felt the same had that happened to them.


i don't really know, though, how saying i don't want to be friends with him is really overreacting. if he just decided to go out with someone, i wouldn't really care...it's just the fact he told me lies that gets me upset.


i don't want any of us to get in trouble because i wasn't intending on this to get people on "sides" or whatever...just wanted to know if I was alone in feeling like i did, which was annoyed at being lied to.


i don't hate travis. i hope he's happy with his girlfriend...i just hope he's truthful with her.

 

[Sonne]

I'm just saying, that if you cared about him in that way, why didn't you say so and tell him that you want to be with him, and you don't want him to be with anyone else?

"No one's ever gonna listen if you haven't made a sound."

an excellent quote.

 

[TalkisCheap]

I'm just saying, that if you cared about him in that way, why didn't you say so and tell him that you want to be with him, and you don't want him to be with anyone else?

"No one's ever gonna listen if you haven't made a sound."

an excellent quote.

call my old fashioned but i believe in guys making the first move...and besides, even if i had, if he has a girlfriend already i doubt he would have said yes to being "with" me.


ETA: he's not stupid

 

[Sonne]

Exactly, he's not stupid, so he said "no" because he didn't want you to be upset.

Hey sc, I'm doing all the work here...

 

[TalkisCheap]

Exactly, he's not stupid, so he said "no" because he didn't want you to be upset.

Hey sc, I'm doing all the work here...

what? i wouldn't have been nearly as upset if he just would have TOLD me...and he didn't have to pretend there was something{between us} when there wasn't, obviously.


okay this is realllly embarassing.

 

[Sonne]

what? i wouldn't have been nearly as upset if he just would have TOLD me...and he didn't have to pretend there was something{between us} when there wasn't, obviously.


okay this is realllly embarassing.

True, that's how it usually is. But it would of been great if he gotten away with it. He took a chance and it didn't pay off.

Now, as for him leading you on, I need more details from both sides to form an opinion on that.

As for the embarassment, it was gonna come sooner or later by starting a thread like this. But it's good for you in a way, it gets people out of their shells.

 

[DisneyLover11491]

i believe in guys makin the frist move to sry sonne

 

[TalkisCheap]

True, that's how it usually is. But it would of been great if he gotten away with it. He took a chance and it didn't pay off.

Now, as for him leading you on, I need more details from both sides to form an opinion on that.

As for the embarassment, it was gonna come sooner or later by starting a thread like this. But it's good for you in a way, it gets people out of their shells.

Great with him...i'm not really getting your "taking a chance" thing. obviously i was going to find out when he had an i love some girl in his info. i do have eyes

On that...yeah.

It's bad. I feel stupid. Oh well. You can all find me stupid, I just let our "relationship" get out of hand.

 

[Sonne]

Well, I know some guys myself (myself included) that find it very attractive that a girl has drive and initiative to take the first step. Girls are just as capable as guys, why can't they ask you out? Sometimes, the guy likes you but doesn't think you'll say yes, so by you asking, you get it done. Other cases the guy doesn't even know you exist, but still may take a chance seeing that you have good drive and confidence.

 

[PG Sweetie]

This is really too personal and between a couple of DISers. If you wish to discuss this matter it is better done through PMs.