Boyfriend/Girlfriend

[MuNkY]

oh god, I totally understand. But then I realized that I do want to have my own children. It just took me awhile to realize that.

With a little help.

Meh, I can't really have a valad opinion on this, for the fact I've never had a real girlfriend.

I know.

:-O

 

[Sparx]

With a little help.

yeah. I had help.

 

[jaycat]

I have never had a bf, and I am 16. I agree with the other posters, the right guy hasn’t came along, I'm WAY to picky, and I wont date someone I don’t really like.

 

[Lil_Tink]

I guess I am kinda not as simaler as everyone. Me, I have never had a boyfriend I was 'in love with'. I have just had casual boyfriends. We would go on a few dates, hang out and go to dances together. I somewhat like just keeping it casual, I mean if the right person came along, I wouldnt mind taking it more serious, but I just kinda like dating around. I mean I dont say yes to anyone, I have only had a few boyfriends, but just someone who likes you and you like them.

 

[wilma-bride'sdd2]

i have had a boyfriend but it was because i really liked him and that lasted for about 2-3 weeks.

 

[VolleyballQt07]

In grades 5 - 7 I find that dating is only for bragging rights. They hardly talk, hardly hang out and have never got out on a date with each other. It's just to be able to say that they're going to the dance with someone.

i agree! my friends are ALWAYS dating each other. but they never go out! at some of the school dances they dance to slow songs but as soon as that song is over, they leave each other and go to their friends til another slow song! yeah they talk to each other but they dont like sit together at lunch or anything like that!

now me, i dont care if i have a bf or not. we are way to young to start thinking about our bfs becoming our husbands or something like that. we need to worry about grades, sports(if in any), and life. half, no wait, ALL my frineds with bfs are failing one subject or another! they dont care about school, they care about their social lifes! i have only had 1 bf but it was for only 3 days.....it just wasnt right! so i'm single too!

 

[disneygalsdd]

I will have been going out with my DBF for 1 year on September 9...
Many of my friends say im to young to commit myself to one person but i really like him and we have lots of fun together

 

[Mara]

I don't want a boyfriend. I don't ever want one, really... I'm kinda against dating (no offense to anyone here!), or at least, the typical dating of today. Courting is a muchos better way to go about it.

 

[Loves Disney]

I don't want a boyfriend. I don't ever want one, really... I'm kinda against dating (no offense to anyone here!), or at least, the typical dating of today. Courting is a muchos better way to go about it.

What would you consider courting as? I mean, what makes courting different that dating...to you?

 

[StitchGirl88]

Call me lame, uncool, and weird, but I'm near 18 years old and haven't had one boyfriend, ever. Honestly, I'm not near desperate enough to go out with most any guy at the school I go to. I don't care about being "cool" enough to go out with any of those guys either, heh. If you need a bf to be cool, popular, or normal, then I must be the biggest loser around. Heh, not to say I don't want a bf...I would just rather spend my time with someone who won't fight me for my mascara or with someone who thinks he's a big shot. Arrogance never played well with me, lol.

Same here. Are you my twin. LOL

 

[Loves Disney]

Same here. Are you my twin. LOL

I don't know, my member name is tagged in your usersignature lol.

 

[Mara]

What would you consider courting as? I mean, what makes courting different that dating...to you?

Dating usually means the two people, going places/ going out alone (as in, with no one else). Dating is, the majority of the time, not taken very seriously (relationships from dating are often short-lived).
While with courting, the 'couple' are careful to go places in the company of other people (family, one friend of each, mutual friends, etc). Courting is long-term, and with marriage in mind. Courting, I think, also entails the approval of the parents.

'Course, that isn't universal. That's how I think of it.

 

[SoccerTink]

WOW!! In just one day so many people posted. I am glad you posted, thank you!!

 

[Loves Disney]

Dating usually means the two people, going places/ going out alone (as in, with no one else). Dating is, the majority of the time, not taken very seriously (relationships from dating are often short-lived).
While with courting, the 'couple' are careful to go places in the company of other people (family, one friend of each, mutual friends, etc). Courting is long-term, and with marriage in mind. Courting, I think, also entails the approval of the parents.

'Course, that isn't universal. That's how I think of it.

That is interesting. Really lol. I've never heard of it that way (I've always heard of it interchangable with dating). That's cool.

 

[cheerchick]

I'm not against dating n I've had a few b/f's but I hate the ppl who just date 2 just have a b/f.

 

[KJ4eva]

i know wt ur talking about i was one of those people. i was so desperate for a homecomeing date that i went with me best friend's cousin. i didn't meet him until the day of the homecoming dance he was so ugly. and while we were dancing ( i hated it he couldn't dance worth crap) he starts to kiss me. it was so gross. i didn't turn me head quick enough.




please reply and tell me wt u think.

 

[*~BeautBelle~*]

this is to all of the girls:
we want to be loved. period. when we r little we dream about our prince charming and becoming his princess. every time we see that cute guy we get butterflies in our tummies. when we get to talk to him we turn red and can't remember a single word in websters dictionary. we like boys and before you and your cruch r even dating we have already practiced your name with his last name countless times and have picked out the names of your children.

that might have been a little drastic, but the point is that we r girls and we longed to be loved. no matter if we admit it or not, we just do. (maybe 1% don't) now that is no excuse for us to say yes to any guy that breathes.

there is nothing wrong in wanting a boyfriend. whats wrong is when u go out for all the wrong reasons. so often us girls get so caught up in wanting or sustaining a relationship that we loose sight of, well, ourselves. our family, school and friends get put to the side and all we focus on is him. that is what we would call an unhealthy relationship.

to all of us:
dating for the right reasons helps us to get to know the opposite sex, the things we look for in a guy and the things that bug the crap out of us. which can be done as just friends.

i have had my fair share of stupid relationships. i am glad i have had them because they taught me a lot about what i do and don't want as part of my life. i now have a boyfriend. we go to different schools and r both really involved in school activites. we see each other once every week and talk to each other on the phone once, maybe twice a week. i see it as a want and not a need. we can grow as people seperatly, but at the same time have each other's support, along with more trust then a lot of relationships require because we go to different schools. it is way worth it!!

so after this LONG LONG post i am going to sum it up in a sentence.
girls want to be loved and relationships r ok if they r gone about for the right reasons.

 

[Lil_Tink]

ETA from my last post. Now I have a boyfriend. We met eachother in sports, and only see eachother at sports as we live a hour apart. It is kind of nice in a way though, because we dont have to spend hours together to be boyfriend and girlfriend. Also in school we dont have to be distracted by eachother or anything like that. I guess I am really chill with stuff like this. I dont care if he flirts with other girls, as long as its nothing more. I mean im 14 I am not getting married anytime soon.

 

[SoccerTink]

wow, yeah.
thanks for posting. glad others can relate to how i feel...i'm hungry..lol. sorry that was randum

 

[SoccerTink]

once again thanks for posting!!