Sometimes it's good to tell what name you are planning on, because many years ago, I never told my sister

cloud9: we were both pregnant at the same time

) what names we had chosen for our baby (before ultrasound pictures). Her daughter was born first and she named her Karen..... the very name I had wanted to name our baby if it was a girl. We had a daughter

and decided on another name. I told my sister about this many years later and she said that if I had told her my choice, she would have named the baby her second choice.... OH well......... so much for keeping the name a secret. Now that our daughters are 30ish, their given names suit them well.