Bored Single on a Saturday Night

[luvdisney81]

Another Saturday night and I'm bored out of my mind. I've been in pajamas since 7pm. Cooked a chicken (see my other post on the result), watched TV, played Nintendo, talked to a friend and all by around 9pm.

I'm sick of being single. 23 years old I haven't had a decent real date in around two years. Maybe longer, I've lost track. Really this is just getting a little ridiculous now. I'm a smart, cute, mature, funny woman who's in college. I swear if I hear "Oh you would really make an ideal girlfriend, and some man a very happy husband" I'm going to scream. Yeah I know I'm a good catch...so what is the problem? How is it all the girls who only think of themselves and how to play games with their boyfriends heads get the nice guys? I'm not asking for the tall handsome knight in shining armour here. I like the guys with a little pudge, witty/sarcastic humor who most girls just look over but are the sweetest guys ever.

Not to mention every one of my friends is in a relationship now. My last single gal friend has fallen to my brother! Sick of watching all the lovey dovey stuff. I could go to parties and stuff but they are all cutesy and have their dates to tell me about. I don't want to hear it!

Well I guess I'll go to sleep and dream of Disney, that always makes it better. Granted my next trip is with a couple but it'll work out. Tinker...sprinkle pixie dust on my dreams tonight...

 

[Blueeyes101817]

o i know what you mean..im almost 20 and feeling the SAME exact thing...ive been home all day , just went swimming, and have bene in pjs since about 8...
all my friends all have boyfriends or girlfriends..and here i sit! of course they are all out together ..my brother, almost 18, is out every night with his girlfriend too...
...i always get told that "wait for the right one, hes goign to come along" so when is this going to happen!??! haha
when i was single last summer i heard "when you get to college you will meet a great guy"...first year has come and gone..still waiting!!

so luvdisney--youre not alone! well be alone on saturday nights and on disboards together!

 

[FroggyinArk]

kinda surprised u aarent tryingto plan meeting with the illustrious j j seems tyo look a bit promising anyawy i really canot type,, and btw u welcome i love those songs too, i have a cd called ultimate funk in the player in dws truck now,,lol,, was in there with her 16 yr old helper driving me around this morning and he was like wthey is that..lol

 

[luvdisney81]

Well I think we have both sorta suggested it but alas the hands of fate. I think JJ has a lot on his plate right now and he can't leave for a trip at this moment. Would be wonderful but who knows.

BlueEyes I'm glad I have someone to chat with on the lonely nights. I did meet someone at a previous college, we dated but he was totally wrong for me and pretty close to a waste of my time. But not totally because I learned a lot about relationships, men and myself. I am now ready for a relationship again, much more mature and I understand what you have to do. I still hold out hope though. I pretty much took a disinterest in dating, you know when you stop looking BOOM Mr. Wonderful shows up. Chin up girl we will get our Prince Charming in the end! Or at least a nice date

 

[FroggyinArk]

isnt he already schedualed for a wdw trip soon? trysto remember,, old romantic i guess, but would like to see something come out o f this,, specially since this waas the post that got me over here in first place,, i was a lurker opver at budget boards till i started reading about the husband swap..lol

 

[luvdisney81]

Yes in July I believe is his trip. I invited him to come down since I have a large theme park 15 minutes from my home. Public area and stuff to keep the interest all day. Like I said though, between his job and Dad he is probably a little stressed and not really giving much of a thought to me. Which i totally understand. The roses though were the highlight of my entire week though! I just glowed all day

 

[calypso*a*go-go]

luvdisney81 -- I hope you and Jungle Skipper do have the opportunity to meet. If not, you should stay in contact with each other as you both seem like really nice people and could probably become great "cyber" friends. IMHO anyone that sends roses to a complete stranger is a keeper!!!

 

[VampHeartless]

I know how it is,

one of the reasons I'm getting out of the army and going to college in two years, is just so I can meet more people and maybe start a real relationship. It's been almost a year now since I broke up with my fiance, and it's time to get out and about again. 24 years old, tired of being single.

Hey, wanna go out some time?

 

[Blueeyes101817]

Luvdisney81-well good ot know that next weekend if im home and your home...well talk hahaha...
..maybe ill meet a prince this week

 

[luvdisney81]

Calypso*a*go-go - I think anyone who sends roses is a keeper, especially after just having talked to them online. I guess only time will tell. I do think he is quite unique and a true sweetheart. Intelligent and funny too, just a perfect package I guess. At least I have another Disney friend and that is wonderful too.

VampHeartless - So are you American or British? I saw you were in the UK but you said Army so I don't know if it is just you are stationed over there. I'm up for meeting people all the time. I do think it kinda sucks when you have finally reached the point your ready for another relationship and nothing is really out there. It took awhile after my break up with a sorta fiance (we were planning on being engaged and he had the ring) before I could get back into something serious.

Blueeyes - I'm here for ya gal. I know this Saturday night I will be at my cousin's wedding, OH BOY! But I'll try to bump this thread up just before so maybe someone else can chat too. FroggyinArk seems to be bored occasionally. You'll be in my thoughts though.

 

[VampHeartless]

Ohhh...I'm in the US Army, just stationed over here in England. Originally from Oregon, but I've lived a few places in the states by now. I'm sorry to hear about your fiance...so what do you do then?

 

[Frollo27]

I know what you mean. I am a single male, 31y/o and I haven't had a girlfriend in almost two years. I have had a few dates here and there but no one really special to come along in awhile. It sucks being single.

Sam

 

[stevenpensacola]

Top Ten Star Wars Fan Euphemisms For Not Having A Girlfriend


10. Camping alone outside the theater.

9. My force is no longer with me.

8. The Death Star is not yet operational.

7. The Empire's striking out.

6. Shaking hands with the wookie.

5. Darth Vader has no place to put his helmet.

4. Oiling the droid.

3. Unable to set coordinates for the planet Babe.

2. Spending the night with Han Solo.

1. Tractor beam not powerful enough.


Top Ten Thoughts On The Minds Of People In Line For Star Wars


10. "Nice of Cher to loan me her Academy Awards outfit."

9. "First in line.... This'll look good on my resume."

8. "The babes should be coming over to talk to me any minute now."

7. "I shouldn't have to wait in this line -- I'm Carrie Fisher."

6. "I sense a disturbance in my hairline."

5. "Is that some sort of image-gathering droid?"

4. "Princess Leia... Princess Leia... Princess Leia... Princess Leia...."

3. "What I want is a prequel to 'Turner and Hooch'."

2. "This line better move soon, or Paul will have to host the show for me."

1. "What a couple of geeks."

 

[luvdisney81]

VampHeartless - So do you like the UK, I went to London for a few days and to Scotland for about 2 weeks and loved it. I used to live in Poland for a couple years. Parents were military. I've travelled around a lot. So what do I do? I wasn't sure if that meant what did I do after the break up or what do I do now. I'll answer both. After the break up I focused on my education, moved out on my own and learned a lot about myself. I travelled some more and now have left my hometown and trully on my own in a strange new place. I love it though.

As for what I do, I'm a theatre education major at a university and now a senior on the Dean's List. Took a year off of college to decide what is best...education was the answer. I work for a major retail line, thats about it. I do a variety of activities and travelling still but school is at the top for about another year.

 

[luvdisney81]

Well unfortunately I could not get this on Saturday night so it is Sunday night, little late. Had to attend a wedding. Joy! A promise is a promise though so I searched and searched and found the thread. I'm still bored....and single. Although my entire family now thinks I have a boyfriend, the guy I took to the wedding. I tried correcting when they said my boyfriend but alas no luck. He is just my old roommate and friend. Not like I can say "no we are not like that, he's gay so i'm not really his type"

Hope this finds everyone else well

 

[Blueeyes101817]

hey! im still here....and still single..hahahaha...sunday night just the same as saturday night..im on the boards

 

[zen1]

Can I join you guys? I am bored and single too. I know how all of you feel, I feel the same way. The way things are going right now, I don't think I could get a date if my life depended on it.

 

[UncleKyle]

Been bored and single now for almost 6 months. I've dealt with it pretty well the first few but lately I just need someone to cuddle with and go see a movie with, picnic in the park, hiking, baseball games. Some of those I can do with my guy friends but sometimes I just need a woman to go see Shrek 2 with or cuddle on the couch.

FYI, I learned a long time ago to quit looking because if you look and search for someone you either never find it or you force something that won't work. The best relationship comes along when you least expect it.

 

[zen1]

Originally posted by UncleKyle

FYI, I learned a long time ago to quit looking because if you look and search for someone you either never find it or you force something that won't work. The best relationship comes along when you least expect it.

That is so true! And you know what your the one that TF said I had the hots for, sorry I just had to say that. LOL

 

[Blueeyes101817]

well thats what everyone keeps saying...when you arent looking, you will find the right guy...blah blah blah
It just gets annoying when everyone here is out with their bf or gf..and im sitting home...so i will come talk to everyone here!