Bippidi Boppidi...OMG what did he do??? lol

[supersuperwendy]

Ok...my daughter has an appointment for BBB! She's a total princessy 6 year old! She wants the updo (bun?) style! I guess that's the classic? Well get this.....My husband needed to get his haircut and he had taken her along. As he was sitting there he asked if she'd like her hair cut too. And of course Daddy's girl is going to say yes! HE GOT HER HAIR CHOPPED OFF!!!!! I was out with my neighbor..I walked in the front door and couldn't believe my eyes!

IT'S GONE...A SHORT BOB UP TO HER EARS!

I'm sure they can still work out a cute style...! "fingers crossed"!

Oh well..it's only hair, right?!

 

[cancer_survivor_06]

OMG!!!!! I am so sorry for your loss. My Dh would be dead right now if even thought anything like that. Here is a thread if interested about BBB w/pics.
http://www.disboards.com/showthread.php?t=1333944

 

[kctwinmommy]

Oh my! I would be pissed too! I hope my DH never does anything like that, but I never know! I'm so sorry that he did that. I'm sure that they can do something even though it's shorter. At least I hope so, cuz I don't think my DD with have really long hair either. Her hair is very thin and fine, takes forever to grow! Good luck!!

 

[Lindy Loo]

My Dh would be DEAD now, but still thats not an option, if you dont want to end up in jail.


When we were in BBB there was a little girl there with VERY short hair ( I think she might have been ill) they still did an amazing job, and clipped in coloured extensions she was choosing.


Thankfully her hair will grow back at some time..................... have fun at BBB

 

[dbmarie]

Sometimes men just don't get it or at least claim not too . There were a few girls with short hair and you could still choose the diva or pop style as those are actualy extensions.

 

[Enchanted Tiki Bird]

Hmmm...I find it funny that so many women would "kill" there husbands? In my household, my soon-to-be DH has equal say over parenting . . . including haircuts.

I don't think it really will change your BBB experience.

 

[MaeDaisy]

I was thinking the same thing, Tiki.

 

[Nicole786]

my dad did the same thing to me when i was little! he took me to a barber shop as a little girl and they gave me a bowl haircut! my mom was soo pissed

 

[Evil Princess]

Hmmm...I find it funny that so many women would "kill" there husbands? In my household, my soon-to-be DH has equal say over parenting . . . including haircuts.

I don't think it really will change your BBB experience.

Theres a difference between equal say, and just doing something without consulting your spouse though.

 

[Nicole786]

Theres a difference between equal say, and just doing something without consulting your spouse though.

I was just about to say the same

 

[JessiMommy]

Hmmm...I find it funny that so many women would "kill" there husbands? In my household, my soon-to-be DH has equal say over parenting . . . including haircuts.

Equal say... of course however some decisions require a discussion before just acting on them. I'd "kill" my husband if he cut my daughters hair without speaking to me about it first. If it was something he really wanted done & she did too we'd discuss the pro's & con's and make a family decision. I think that's what the other posters are speaking of when they say they'd "kill" the hubby.

 

[Enchanted Tiki Bird]

Equal say... of course however some decisions require a discussion before just acting on them. I'd "kill" my husband if he cut my daughters hair without speaking to me about it first. If it was something he really wanted done & she did too we'd discuss the pro's & con's and make a family decision. I think that's what the other posters are speaking of when they say they'd "kill" the hubby.

That wasn't the impression that I got. It came across as women taking charge of such decisions. A family meeting for a simple hair cut? That seems excessive to me. I trust my DFi and therefore he doesn't have to consult with me before he makes such a decision and vice versa. But I digress . . .

 

[jillybeanjo]

I don't think it's a matter of trust - I think it's a matter of knowledge and experience.

I trust my husband to make responsible decisions regarding our daughter. BUT he does not have any knowledge of girls' hairstyles and no experience with styling her hair. Therefore, I would be upset if he made a decision to have her hair cut, because it is not his area of expertise, so to speak. Unless he was prepared to style it each day, then he can forget about making a decision on her haircut!

Just my two cents . . .

 

[Enchanted Tiki Bird]

I trust my husband to make responsible decisions regarding our daughter. BUT he doesn't not have any knowledge of girls' hairstyles and no experience with styling her hair. Therefore, I would be upset if he made a decision to have her hair cut, because it is not his area of expertise, so to speak. Unless he was prepared to style it each day, then he can forget about making a decision on her haircut!

Our family situation seems to be different in that respect. Perhaps that's why I see it differently.

 

[Evil Princess]

That wasn't the impression that I got. It came across as women taking charge of such decisions. A family meeting for a simple hair cut? That seems excessive to me. I trust my DFi and therefore he doesn't have to consult with me before he makes such a decision and vice versa. But I digress . . .

It's a little girls hair we're talking about, and they're paying big money to get her hair done at BBB, quite possibly for a once in a lifetime experience.

I understand if it was just a normal day, but with something big like that coming up, I'd be peeved too.

I don't care if my future spouse and I have equal say, but I think equal say means discussing things. Not having a family meeting, but isn't that what relationship communication is all about, TALKING things through? Things that might show up in pictures that are displayed in your house for years to come, things that are affecting a once in a lifetime experience thats costing a pretty penny?

 

[supersuperwendy]

A quick back story for those who think it was ok for him to get her hair chopped.....

When I was prego with her..I had an ultra sound appointment and following that we were taking our then 2 year old to get portraits taken. Well she was very fussy about getting her bangs cut at that age so I would bring scissors in the car and trim them while she slept in her car seat! Well..since she was sleeping my hubby waited with her in the car while i had my ultrasound..I came out...and OMG...he cut her bangs...or should I say butchered? It was so bad...they were so uneven and short..i didn't get her pics taken that day. He promised me that day that he wouldn't mess with her hair or any other future daughters. I'm the one who washes it..conditions it..combs it...braids it..piggy tails it...etc. He should have known i'd be upset. But she is a very cute girl and she looks cute no matter what hair cut she gets. The point is...he was supposed to be getting his number 2 fade...and that's it.

 

[Enchanted Tiki Bird]

It's a little girls hair we're talking about, and they're paying big money to get her hair done at BBB, quite possibly for a once in a lifetime experience.

I understand if it was just a normal day, but with something big like that coming up, I'd be peeved too.

I don't care if my future spouse and I have equal say, but I think equal say means discussing things. Not having a family meeting, but isn't that what relationship communication is all about, TALKING things through? Things that might show up in pictures that are displayed in your house for years to come, things that are affecting a once in a lifetime experience thats costing a pretty penny?

A. Let's keep things in perspective here. It's just hair. B. It sounds like it's more of a once and a lifetime experience for Mom and not the little girl. She was just as happy to get it chopped off with Dad. Again, perspective; and B. At worst, he made a mistake. No need to want to "kill" him.

 

[Lives4Disney]

OP, my DD7 has a LIP length bob - very short and sassy and even shorter and cut out in the back. She has had BBB appointments several times on our trips and they always add extensions and have fun with her short hair!!

I would be POed if my DH did anything funky with my girls' hair, but don't worry about BBB. Here's a pic of her after her December BBB fix.

Lives4Disney

 

[Enchanted Tiki Bird]

I'm the one who washes it..conditions it..combs it...braids it..piggy tails it...etc. He should have known i'd be upset.

Perhaps a little OT but if this is an issue (and someone else mentioned it as well), why doesn't your DH help maintain it? I couldn't imagine my DFi expecting me to do all that or me taking on that responsibility. Again 50/50 here.

 

[NJ Cruisers]

FUNNY .... the only one arguing that her DH could go ahead and cut the little girl's hair without a worry in the world .... is not married yet and may not have children with her soon to be DH. But there is so much trust that decisions do not have to be discussed because I think they can read each others minds.

It is sweet ... I remember feeling that way before I got married (and since divorced) from my first H.