Bikini tops in the parks

[IslandAdventure4]

This is one of those threads that needs pics.

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[Robo]

A few years ago I was heading over to FrontierLand, it was a wicked hot day, and there was a group of 4...oh, i'd say 17 year olds in front of me, and one girl just yanked her shirt off and kept on going walking in nothing but her bra.

Must have been a Soccer champion.

 

[TinkandAriel]

We're from Maine, where, 92% of the time any amount of exposed skin is frostbit immediately (alright, I may be exaggerating just a tad....maybe not "immediately" ). Guys from the north get excited at just the prospect of any amount of exposed skin. That being said, I don't wanna have to smack some chic in a bikini bc she makes my hubs drool and me wish my girls knew how to look that good. I keeeeeeeed I keeeeeeeeeed!

 

[LuvnWDW]

I don't think it's appropriate, really.. when in Rome....

I'm torn.. I am more of a live and let live person, but wear a small tank top over the bikini, if you must. I just don't think it justifiable in an amusement park to wear swim wear.

 

[cassandrap83]

i notice that girls do this too at the theme parks up here. I was actually in shock when I went to see SO MANY people in bikini tops and, younger girls just in 1-pieces.

they're just attention-*****s. it has nothing to do with comfort.

 

[Mike2023]

i notice that girls do this too at the theme parks up here. I was actually in shock when I went to see SO MANY people in bikini tops and, younger girls just in 1-pieces.

they're just attention-*****s. it has nothing to do with comfort.

Why is everyone hating on people for there choice of clothing? While I agree that Disney is not the place for a bikini top, I don't automatically assume people do it for attention. There have to be at least 100 other reason to wear one. Even if they are doing it for attention, is that really a big deal? People do things for attention all the time.

If an attractive woman walks buy in a bikini, yes, I might look twice. But the same thing would apply to the other end of the spectrum.

There could be a generation gap at play here as well. Don't think my mother would be found dead in a bikini, but my wife has been know to walk around a theme park or 2 in one (not dinsney).

I am interested in hearing the opinions of the women who do it, but I would be hard pressed to post in this thread for fear of being ripped apart.

 

[Aardvarks]

As a secret closet pervert I am all for it...........

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Ps, I have teenage sons.......I have just asked and they are ok with bikinis too

You could go for the Burka look

http://hodja.files.wordpress.com/2006/05/Burka.jpg

 

[MattM]

Whoever compared wearing a bikini top at Disney and a grocery store really makes an incredibly poor comparison.

I had no idea the Dis had such shallow, judgemental people posting here? (saying women who wear bikini tops must automatically be doing it for the sole reason of attention). Some could make the argument that the people who are most offended are also jealous.

If you dont like it, stop going to the parks. People dont always have to change their ways because it offends you.

 

[btcrane]

I think (don't you just LOVE posts like this--like anyone really cares what I think but I'll write it anyway)... that people are being awfully presumptuous by stating that ALL of the individuals wearing bikini tops at DW are attention seekers, they are lying if they say they're doing so for comfort.

My 17-year-old daughter, whose cute little body looks more like a 12-year-old, asked me the other day if she could wear a bikini top with a pair of shorts on our next trip, for the water rides, and I told her sure. Now, because of Disney's rules (thanks for posting them! Never knew adults couldn't wear costumes, by the way), I will tell her to make sure she brings a lightweight top, but that's because of the rules, not because of all of the judgmental posts made on this thread. And maybe I will wear a bikini top under a lightweight tank too...I may be a mother of 3 in my 30's, but I can promise you, nothing is sagging yet, so "hopefully" I won't offend anyone... Making sure I please everyone else's esthetic preferences is, of course, my highest priority when visiting Disney World.

 

[2BOYMOM]

I see no problem with it. I asked my two DS (19 and 17) and they LOVE the idea!

 

[BarleyJack]

If I want to see women in bikinis while at Disney, I'll go to the resort pool, Typhoon Lagoon or Blizzard Beach. I do not care to see them on Its a Small World, the Teacups or Buzz Lightyear. I may be old fashioned, but I believe there's a time and place for everything.

 

[Racknack]

last week we saw several women (young and old) walking around wearing bikini tops.

Well, now, then, there, hummmm .....

I really don't care what they wear; BUT I do have a problem with women who dress that way and then act offended whenever someone looks at them.

If they don't want men looking at them then they should cover up.

 

[Elsha]

Why is everyone hating on people for there choice of clothing? While I agree that Disney is not the place for a bikini top, I don't automatically assume people do it for attention. There have to be at least 100 other reason to wear one. Even if they are doing it for attention, is that really a big deal? People do things for attention all the time.

If an attractive woman walks buy in a bikini, yes, I might look twice. But the same thing would apply to the other end of the spectrum.

There could be a generation gap at play here as well. Don't think my mother would be found dead in a bikini, but my wife has been know to walk around a theme park or 2 in one (not dinsney).

I am interested in hearing the opinions of the women who do it, but I would be hard pressed to post in this thread for fear of being ripped apart.

To correct you dear, I have walked around Disney in a bikini top. I spent far too long as a lifeguard to be uncomfortable in a bathing suit. It's like a second skin. I also do harass you about your crocs out of fun, because I think they're hideous. Honestly though, if you want to wear them, wear them. I do let our daughter wear crocs complete with charms.

i notice that girls do this too at the theme parks up here. I was actually in shock when I went to see SO MANY people in bikini tops and, younger girls just in 1-pieces.

they're just attention-*****s. it has nothing to do with comfort.

I can assure you I am no attention w****. I have a wonderful, devoted husband, and a beautiful 4 year old DD. If anyone is giving me attention for the bikini top, fitted tank or short kilt I tend to wear in ALL amusement parks for comfort, I have never noticed. I don't tend to pay attention to the people around me for very long.

Whoever compared wearing a bikini top at Disney and a grocery store really makes an incredibly poor comparison.

I had no idea the Dis had such shallow, judgemental people posting here? (saying women who wear bikini tops must automatically be doing it for the sole reason of attention). Some could make the argument that the people who are most offended are also jealous.

If you dont like it, stop going to the parks. People dont always have to change their ways because it offends you.

I agree completely. Every person has a different sense of style. Just because I don't agree doesn't mean they should dress differently. That's right, I'm speaking to you white socks and sandals guy!

I don't agree with the live and let live thing on this issue. Sure there are probably more important things to worry about but you know if there is a rule it needs to be enforced. 100% of the time. I really don't enjoy seeing someones saggy ****s jostling around and even if it is a firm young teenager I don't want to have to shield my child's eyes. I mean really. Don't the parents of these kids know what kind of message their daughters are sending? Then they get all offended when some guy makes a crude comment, talks to their chest, etc. It is Disneyworld. Not the beach. Put your clothes on people!!

If you don't enjoy it don't look. I think you should be allowed to wear a tank top, skirt, or bathing suit of your choice even if you aren't supermodel thin, or 17. If there is a manual on life that says I must stop wearing a two piece in my 30s, or when my dress size is larger than a size 5, or if my b***s start to sag I've yet to see it. Do you shield your child's eyes at the beach, waterpark or poolside? If not, what's the difference?

I found the policy in the FAQs on disneyworld.com and put the most relevant portions in bold

What is the best way to dress for a day at the parks? Is there any clothing that isn't permissible?

The parks are a casual, family-oriented environment. We suggest you dress comfortably, wear good walking shoes and check the local weather report before you leave for the parks.

Ensuring that the parks are family friendly is an important part of the Disney experience. In that spirit, we ask you to use your discretion and common sense. Attire that is not appropriate for the theme parks (and which may result in refusal of admittance) includes but is not limited to:

* Adult costumes or clothing that can be viewed as representative of an actual Disney character
* Masks (unless you are dressing up for a particular event)
* Clothing with objectionable material, including obscene language or graphics
* Excessively torn clothing
* Clothing which, by nature, exposes excessive portions of the skin that may be viewed as inappropriate for a family environment
* Objectionable tattoos

http://disneyworld.disney.go.com/faq/theme-parks/#subCategory7

I see nothing here that says bikini top. I take from that, that you shouldn't be walking around in only a full bathing suit (ie bikini top and bottom only not ok, shorts, pants or skirt covering it, just fine).


Honestly ppl. We're seriously arguing about this?

Ladies:
If you don't find a two piece bathing suit of any kind comfortable...DON'T WEAR ONE! But don't think for a second that all women feel that way.

If you don't feel like you personally have the body for one...DON'T WEAR IT. But don't for a second think that all other women who are not built like a supermodel feel the same way. If you're plus sized, sagging, or just plain not as young as you used to be, and feel fabulous, good for you. You have the right to feel confident and beautiful.

If you are offended by another woman who feels comfortable in a bikini top...DON'T LOOK AT HER! Cause I'd bet about anything she's not wearing it looking for your approval.

Guys: For the most part, you wear what you want anyways, and we don't harass you too much. You tell us to dress you, and we will, but if you dress yourselves, as much as we make faces, we date you, love you, marry you anyways.

If my husband looks at a hot lady in the parks (and I've seen him look at women in all types of clothing), it's ok...cause I'm probably looking too!

We as adults need to relax. We're not gonna agree about everything, but it certainly doesn't need to turn into a battle of words or wit. A bikini top that isn't see through is hardly as offensive as racial slurs or swear words on an article of clothing (which Disney DOES address in their dress code).

 

[paintnolish]

So, if women can wear bikini tops (which seems to be the consensus here), can men go shirtless? I ask because a few years ago, in the sweltering summer heat, I was told to put my toddler son's shirt back on. He was playing in the water in the dino dig area in AK. I don't think he was exposing "excessive amounts of skin" that would be "inappropriate" in a family environment. Maybe I should have put a bikini top on him?
BTW, I am all for people of both sexes wearing shirts in the parks! Bikinis are for swimming and bras go under shirts! I don't find it offensive, jut not really necessary.

 

[Elsha]

Well, now, then, there, hummmm .....

I really don't care what they wear; BUT I do have a problem with women who dress that way and then act offended whenever someone looks at them.

If they don't want men looking at them then they should cover up.

I do kind of agree with this statement. IF you chose to dress like a certain way, then feel uncomfortable for any reason, you shouldn't continue to dress like that. If you are going to spend your day analyzing the people around you, then again, you shouldn't wear certain clothing. I'm not talking only bikini tops though. This goes for any article of clothing. Modest or otherwise. Dress the way you want, but understand some people are rude and crude.

I'm personally rather good at ignoring it, if I even hear it in the first place.

 

[Elsha]

So, if women can wear bikini tops (which seems to be the consensus here), can men go shirtless? I ask because a few years ago, in the sweltering summer heat, I was told to put my toddler son's shirt back on. He was playing in the water in the dino dig area in AK. I don't think he was exposing "excessive amounts of skin" that would be "inappropriate" in a family environment. Maybe I should have put a bikini top on him?
BTW, I am all for people of both sexes wearing shirts in the parks! Bikinis are for swimming and bras go under shirts! I don't find it offensive, jut not really necessary.

No issues with men going shirtless. Maybe I'm just used to seeing them shirtless or in so called (and inappropriately named I might add) "wife beater" tank tops in the streets of toronto.

 

[Jedi_Galvatron]

If you dont like it, stop going to the parks. People dont always have to change their ways because it offends you.

If you don't like being murdered or raped, don't go out out on the streets. We can't ask murderers and rapists to change their ways because it offends us.

Polite society has these things called RULES and common sense. I'm a 27 year old heterosexual male, I enjoy looking at women in bikini tops quite a bit, but I'm against the idea of people wearing them where common sense, courtesy, and good taste dictate they should not. The simple fact is it's called a swim suit (or bathing suit) for a reason, it's made to be worn in water. Last time I checked Main Street wasn't underwater. There's a time and a place for everything in this world.

 

[btcrane]

Whatever your opinion on adults and teenagers wearing bikini tops, and men going shirtless, I think toddlers should be in a category all to themselves. IMO, crazy that any parent is told to put a shirt on a toddler or preschooler, especially when playing in water on a hot day! Those CMs must not have been around on any of my trips to Epcot when I've seen happy children playing topless (both girls and boys) in the water, with a lot of smiling adults around. Can't remember ANYONE being offended by these children. Ridiculous, and if I'd been one of the parents who was told to put a shirt on my child, I'm not sure I would've kept my cool.

 

[jamstew]

Yep, it could very well be both a generational thing and a regional thing. Some of us were raised very differently; we raised our children differently, and our children are raising their children differently. Bikini tops on women and shirtless men (anywhere other than the pool or a water park) are offensive to me, and frankly, I don't even know anyone who wouldn't find it offensive. To each his own, but don't expect everyone on the planet to agree. No further comment.

 

[x.laura.x]

They are sending several messages. 1) they are "loose" women, out trolling for extra souvenir money 2) they weren't raised with any kind of class so they don't know better 3) they expect the rest of us to tolerate eye pollution so they can "express" themselves.

I also think it's naive not to realize that first impressions count for something in this world. Like I said, if someone is wearing a bikini top in a park, then they are doing so for attention.

This is a bit harsh, i asked about this not long ago. I was and still am planning on wearing a bikini rather than a bra this time at disney. When i know im going to get wet on rides il take the tshirt off so im not dripping wet for the rest of the day. Am i looking for attention? No way. I was raised very well with class and all the rest, and i am not doing it to express myself. As long as the person is not indecently exposed what is the problem? Its not the first time iv been in walmart and seen someone walking around in a bikini and a skirt that should have been a belt. Also, on the posts regarding male comments, a well fitting bikini should not be exposing anything, so any comments are just rude and direspectful.