As a working mom Thank You! (and I was a single working mom when they were little)you choose your battles... things like can the dishes wait till tomorrow so you can do some laundry instead. or can they both wait cause you need to help with homework. or throw it in the washer before dinner and the dryer before bedtime and do the quick fluff the next day before folding it.. and well we used a lot of paper plates.. I tried to cook some meals ahead on the weekend and freeze for quick easy filling dinners or make extra and then freeze it for the following week.. sometimes we were down to our last clean socks on a friday am but laundry day was Saturday.. scrub the tub when the bath is over vs. waiting till the weekend. Well and to be truthful I am sure your days are no less busy without working outside the home - I mean you don't sit on the couch all day watching soaps and eating chips right?? LOL each has it's own type of busyness and it all works out in the end somehow..
It is all about coping strategies in life.... not just in eating, but with EVERYTHING! You are right.... I do not sit on the couch watching soaps and eating chips.... but I have certainly wasted my share of time in the past! Wish I had a few of those hours back now!
I was in a pretty good pattern of throwing a load in the washer as soon as I rose and then hanging it out before I left for the day....but with my nights getting later, I'm hitting the snooze a bit too often now and I am barely getting myself and the kids out the door. I did manage to empty the dishwasher this morning before leaving though.
I definitely give a "hats off" to ALL working parents (but especially Moms!).
I have been doing awful for the past few weeks -- I can't seem to get myself motivated and have gained back about 5 lbs which makes me crazy but i just don't seem to care enough to get my Lazy self moving or planning better.. I am an emotional eater and this time of year stresses me out.. I mean I love Thanksgiving and Christmas and all the stuff that comes with them.. The baking especially - I love to cook and bake so these two holidays are right up my alley.. but I also have a bunch of other overwhelming things happening that are draining me.. Money is always tight but this time of the and this year it seem more so.. (my DD is in college 2.5 hrs away in her first year so she isn't working but needs some cash for the "little" stuff, DS is trying to get his permit so we had a drivers ed bill , DS has 2 hockey bills due - 1 is paid and 1 is not, we are paying my EX child support $60 wkly becuase he is unemployed even though we share 50/50 custody he makes less then I do so I pay him , I pay car insurance for 3 cars, 1 pay for 3 cell phone, my cable bill is off the wall ($150 Hubs needs to call about that and get it lowered) both cars have to registered and expected in Oct, plus all 4 of us celebrate our Bdays in Oct & Nov and we have 6 other family bday by the end of year, oh and the cost of food and gas are crazy .. UGH.. lot's of whining right now.. sorry vent done.. but this is my stress..
So Zumba starts back up 11/6 I only am doing one class as I don't have the $$ for both (plus it runs till the end of Jan and if there is snow I am not driving myself) it was a great stress reliever.. hopefully back on top of things soon.. Thanks for being here.. Hugs to all Michelle
And hugs right back to you. We've had our share of tight budgets lately. I only work during the school year, so every year by August things are super tight... but then in September it seems like every thing is due!! Plus there are school clothes and school supplies to buy, sports deposits, etc. When I am organized enough and working in the spring, I try to sock away my last few paychecks in May/June to save for all of this.... but it doesn't always work out.
I've been a crazy lady on the savings front lately.... saying no to every little request for "extras". But the kids seem to be understanding.
BTW, have you checked out the Budget Board? Seems to me I've seen you on a thread or two over there. If not, check it out. There are frequently great savings ideas (if you can overlook the "check out this wonderful sale on xxxxx!!" posts!), coupons, links to truly wonderful prices on stuff, etc.
Has anyone heard from Dona??? I probably should go back and read a couple of pages, but just wanted to see if she was ok. I know she is in New Jersey, though not sure how close to the most effected areas? Thanks!
I believe we heard from her Monday and she stated that she had no school that day or Tuesday and on Tuesday they would be making a decision about Wed.... but that was the last we heard from her. I guess I've been assuming that perhaps they lost power after that... or perhaps they had to evacuate??
I'll send you a PM if I see her pop on here.
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Evening friends! Other than stopping to eat a bowl of soup for dinner, this is the first time I've sat down since I walked in the door about 4pm! I am WIPED OUT! I didn't want to have to spend my weekend on house stuff so I was determined to do as much as possible tonight. So far I've done 4 loads of laundry... one went in the dryer and two went on the line...(fingers crossed for no rain overnight) and one is still in the washer. I will put it out in the morning. After dinner I made two double batches of my DH's low carb treats (chocolate coconut treats and peanut butter cups). I cleaned two toilets, washed all of the lunch sack tupperwares and all kinds of other assorted stuff (including searching for DS's missing cell phone, cutting coupons, emptying bathroom trash bins, emptying recycling bins, and packing up the braids I cut off to mail to Wigs for Kids). Where does the time go?

It seems like I could have accomplished more in 3 hours!!
The soup tonight was delish.... I added a can of fennel and red pepper diced tomatoes... nice touch! I could have done without the potato and I didn't eat most of what ended up in my bowl. I put it in for the kids.
Kids are at the school play again tonight. DS is the "assistant light technician"

and DD is getting NHS points plus extra credit for music class for attending and helping with ticket sales and ushering. I expect them home about 10 pm, although DS may be going out with some of the older kids to Friendly's for a treat after the play. Depends on who is driving and whether or not I approve.
Tomorrow night we have shredded pork tacos on the menu. Never had that before.... I think I am just going to season the shredded pork with a packet of taco seasoning.... seems like the easiest thing to do! I think they will be yummy and a nice change to ground beef tacos.
I was all set to get steel cut oats into the crockpot for tomorrow's breakfast... but my oat canister was empty! Guess I forgot to add it to the grocery list. Oh well. I have an idea for an "egg in a roll" for the kids. I saw the recipe somewhere, but never tried it. I have some whole wheat dinner rolls in the freezer that need to be used up... seems like a good plan!
Off to fold laundry. I probably won't get it all done tonight, as I am fading fast!!
See you all in the a.m.!...................P