Pamela -- I like L.L. Bean for very specific things -- pretty much outerwear I expect to use for years to come. DH got a new pair of boots. He'd had his last boots 20 years and they stopped being waterproof. I have a down coat I bought there last year, and I expect to use it for the foreseeable future.
Yup.... their stuff may not be the lastest TREND, but it certainly lasts! I bought a new winter coat at our outlet after I had lost my weight (and was about a size 6 still wearing my size 18 winter coat!!
). Managed to fit just perfectly into an adult ladies small that was on end-of-season clearance and paid under $20 for a beautiful teal colored hip length ski coat! And (maybe the same day, can't remember) bought DD a classic ladies all-wool (and nice, soft wool, not the cheap scratchy stuff) camel pea-coat for about $7! She will be able to use that the rest of her life! It is definitely hit or miss, but when I "hit", I hit good!! 
DH loves their winter boots, but unfortunately he tends to wear down the heels pretty fast and we haven't found a place that is willing to re-heel them, so he ends up replacing them.... but they do last about 7-10 years for him if he is careful.
It has been a heck of a week -- good on some accounts (my dad and smom flew in for a few days before their cruise left today), and crazy on others (my latest project at work hit a major ITS glitch yesterday and barely got in a couple of hours before the deadline). I ran this morning for 3M, and it felt great. My exercise was severely lacking this week. I feel like all I did was work or entertain the folks. Now after dh gets the oil changed in the car we have to take ds to the mall for more school clothes, and then I can finally relax -- but not too much because we have church and then company coming over. I feel like I'm not getting any "me" time this weekend. I've already decided I'm taking Monday as a mental health day, even though it means I have to go in to work for a couple of hours early tomorrow morning. My next project needs to get started, so I have to go in so other people can take their tasks and run with them on Monday.
On the bright side, I've been doing my HH and it has helped tremendously! So glad to see everyone working hard on their goals. This is my busy time of year at work, so unfortunately I can't post much -- but I do read, and that is such a great support!
Maria
Enjoy your "me" time!!
I really enjoyed this post and really agree with you. I get worried sometimes that my metabolism will change as I eat less/healthier and that if I return to eating my old levels I'll gain even MORE weight, but I try to remind myself that this is a
permanent change towards healthy eating, and that it's more important to lose the weight and be healthy with a slightly slower metabolism than to have a fast(er) metabolism (that will get slower, or so I've been told!) and be overweight!!!
I think it is inevitable that EVERYONE'S metabolism changes/slows down as they age.... but if you keep working at it, eating right, and of course, exercise, I think you can prevent it from coming to a total stand-still. I am DAILY fearful of developing things like the "meno-pot" (the pot belly woman can tend to develop during/after menopause)!
I think that the healthier you get the better your metabolism is going to be in the long-run, no matter what your age! And remember, at a better weight you will probably be more naturally inclined to be active, which will help the metabolism moving along anyhow!
I do wonder if I'm working at cross-purposes, however, by partially motivating myself with a DxDDP trip to Disney...

Nahhhhh..... (This is a once in a 3/yr period kind of trip, so I know it's ok... but sometimes I admit I fall asleep thinking about the food I've read about, and DBF said that I was saying "Tohnvaa Toast" in my dreams once....

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At least you're not talking about another guy in your sleep!
Oh, what a sweetheart!

I laughed b/c I'm thinking of the fact that now Beauty and the Beast and Toy Story are at the top of our Netflix queue... Yeah, we are REALLY lucky to have such great (tolerant? indulgent?) men in our lives! I hope you have a great date night!
I think us "Disney-lovin" ladies with not-so-inclined DH's are lucky when they indulge us. We had a family date night last night to go see Lion King. We opted for 2-D as DH and I prefer that. And you know what?? We had a ball! Sure we own it and could watch it any time we want at home, but it was SO NICE to just be together, laughing, without any home distractions of FB, laundry, dishes, the phone, etc, etc etc.
DS laughed at stuff he hadn't remembered seeing before (we probably haven't watched it as a family since the kids were little), DD was thrilled to be finally old enough to behearing/understanding all of the adult humor that Disney always throw in. DD and I sang along, quoted lines (don't worry, we were nearly alone in the theater, so we didn't bother anyone). And DH, who probably couldn't have cared less to see LK sat patiently with us, tried to enjoy himself and was the runner for the popcorn and drink refills! Can't beat that!
I usually do not eat at night (although tonite DH is away and I am really craving toast and peanut butter - am going to try to leave that until the morning and just get some tea), so I can go 12 - 14 hours without food until I eat breakfast in the morning, that's probably why it is so important.
Linda

This is great that you don't eat at night. THat is, without a doubt, my biggest "problem" time. Even if I'm not really hungry, I have difficultly just shutting off the "eating machine" after dinner. I do save points to eat then, so that I don't go nuts, but I know I would be better off eating those points earlier in the day and calling it quits at the end of dinner.
Sunday QOTD: What is your favorite form of exercise? What form of exercise have you not tried but would like to do?
I don't currently have a favorite form of exercise. I don't really love anything I am currently doing. I do walk (outdoors, on the TM, and on the treadclimber at the Y), a bit of running, spin, some step. Don't LOVE any of it, but can tolerate it all.
I would love to try some tennis lessons, boxing and/or kickboxing, and bickram yoga.... but it isn't in the plans for now.
I'm with Deb.... I'd WAAAY rather do exercise that actually accomplishes something. Maybe it is my type-A personality, but I have such trouble putting out energy that doesn't "accomplish" something (I know, I know... I"m getting healthier, but....) Anyhow, I told my Dad I was coming down sometime soon to split and stack wood with him! I was kind of joking, but honestly, I would prefer to do that than run/walk endlessly for "nothing". I keep talking about feeling like a hamster on a wheel.... running, running, running to NOWHERE! I told DS I want him to figure out how to attach a battery to my TM so that I could be creating some POWER while I'm walking. We could probably power the TV and computer all day if I really walked good for an hour!
I'm Julie as many of you know. I have a pretty long journal here in wish boards. I live in nm....which I reallybdont like much. Just turned 51

3 kids ....ds25 - major source of my stress eating issues; ds22 - just graduated from unm; and dd19- soph. @ unm.
Have had a bodybugg for 3 yrs. Need to get serious with it again. Just dropped ww again....trying since 1/27/03 to get this weight off. I will be tracking with bb and also trying to do ww on my own. I really havent gotten used to the new points plus.
I am frequently on Facebook to keep track of family and if you'd like to see any pics, etc. feel free to pm me and I will send you my fb info.
oops, forgot my goals......#1 is to get my focus back.
2. Journal
3. Lose the weight I have gained back in the last year & get into the 140s
4. Continue to avoid the type 2 which all 5 of my siblings have developed (all older) & qet healthier!
In just joined BL so I am trying to catch up!
Nice to see you around again!
WW is great for teaching how to continue eating healthfully, but you have to commit to it - I overdo when I am trying to maintain and gain back and am too lazy to recommit

. This time I am going to stay with it. Not only just not to gain the weight back, but also to be healthier, feel better

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I did what you mentioned before going to Olive Garden, determined the points and gave myself a choice of two entrees - and then only ate half! I was feeling quite smug about it all day

, until I overdid during a killer football game - but we won and now I am back on track

! And I think the two splurges just raised my metabolism a little, so I did not gain...but sometimes it takes a day or two to show up - I'll just keep on keeping on

!
Glad you were able to make good choices at OG. THat is a TOUGH place to eat! I end up ordering my own bowl of salad with dressing on the side, I skip the breadsticks (not a big struggle... I don't think that they are great), and have a few "favorites) that I usually choose from. If you get pasta, did you know you can order whole wheat?
Yes, I do eat breakfast every day. At this point, I alternate between instant oatmeal, cereal with skim milk, or waffles with a bit of low calorie syrup. I do try to add fruit in as well. The article helped me understand a bit more about insulin resistance and made me think about adding more protein in throughout the day, something my mom and I were jut talking about. I mentioned to her that even when I eat a ton of fruits and veggies for lunch, I come home around 3 and I am really hungry, so I basically eat whatever carb-y things I can find. She suggested I get some protein bars, so I'm going to do that.
Watch the sugar/calories in the protein bars. You might be better off grabbing a hard-boiled egg, light babybel cheese, or even a whole wheat cracker with peanut butter. If you do choose a protein bar, try to be sure it has lots of natural ingredients, not lots of stuff you can't pronounce.
Can I say, without stepping on toes, that you could stand to improve your breakfast? Instant oatmeal isn't great and I'm guessing that the waffles are white flour?? So on waffle days you are trying to fuel your body with white flour and white sugar carbs.... and on oatmeal days it isn't much better.
You need to have COMPLEX carbohydrates for breakfast with some protein. Whole wheat bagels, whole wheat waffles, or whole wheat toast with some lowfat cheese or natural peanut butter (or even some Nutella
), or egg or egg white omelet with a slice of whole wheat toast, or steel cut oats with a splash of milk and a piece of fruit... something along those lines. If you want cereal look for stuff like raisin bran, Kashi, something that is a whole wheat or at least a whole grain. I've been eating hot cooked oat bran for breakfast.... it only takes 2 minutes in the microwave and it is more filling (and more food) than a packet of instant oatmeal and has more fiber.
Another good easy morning choice is low-fat cottage cheese or greek yogurt, (protein, dairy carbs, and calcium) with some fruit and maybe a handful of cereal or a slice of whole wheat toast or a few whole wheat crackers.
And fruits and veggies WILL leave you hungry later... you need to add lean protein (turkey, chicken, ham, lowfat cheese, natural nut butters, yogurt) and possibly another complex carb.... brown rice, quinoa, whole wheat pasta.
Hope I'm not stepping into things too hard here.... just trying to help.
I really like Zumba and am excited for that to start up again. The elliptical is pretty good too. I decided that overall, I really don't like running and it's not worth the shin splints. I would like to try Yoga if that ever gets started here.
DD LOVES Zumba, but I feel like the crazy old lady in the back row!
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Today is going to be a catch up day. I've got three loads of laundry going and need to make my bed. I've got a lot of reading to do. Workout is planned for this evening, and my housemates are cooking Chicken Parm tonight as per our new Sunday dinner thing. Last night I made the Pasta Fagiloli recipe that Laura posted and it was delicious! Very filling.
I didn't track yesterday, just went with the old "Eat when you're hungry, stop when you're full" adage, and I was up another pound this morning.
I think that is SO great that you take turns cooking. You all get to try something new and it doesn't put a big burden on any one in particular. Sadly, my family's "big" meal today was onion, pepper and cheese omelets with whole wheat bagels at lunch. DH was heading to a post-church golf date so not lots of time to cook and I hadn't planned anything ahead cause our schedule was very much up in the air. Promised the kids homemade pizza on whole wheat honey crust for dinner. Not sure what I will have.
I really need to learn to multi-quote! I just saw how many I posted this morning!

Sorry for hogging the thread, was trying to get caught up! I think I am now!
Don't worry about it! I'm usually the thread hog.... I go a few days without saying much and then WATCH OUT!!
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Happy Sunny Sunday friends! It is cool and feels like fall here, but at least it is still beautiful out! Back to "regular" church schedule today, so we headed out for early service so DS could attend Sunday school. As I mentioned, DH is out for a church-related golf date, DS has soccer team pix in an hour, and DD, as usual, has a full day of homework planned.
I myself will be spending the afternoon on Ancestry.com. I only paid for an additional month for now and I want to make the most of it. Laundry is caught up, house is reasonably clean, so I can do this without guilt (maybe).
As I mentioned above, we did go to LK last night (saw it in 2-D) and had a ball! It was so nice but made me sad to think that in less than 2 years DD will be off to college and these special times with just the 4 of us will be ending! Made last night even more special. I don't care if it ended up costing us about $50 to see a movie we have at home!
Well... I'm going to get DS into his uniform in a few minutes and head out. THen I'll be back to find my hidden family roots! Hope I don't find any "skeletons in the closet"!
TTYL....................P