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Tuesday QOTD: What are the obstacles you encounter on your journey of personal change?

Food. I love food, I don't know accurate serving sizes, I'm a carb freak. I'm home all day so food is a constant companion. I'm bored, grab some chips, I'm watching TV, grab an ice cream.

That and trying to balance family and me.
I constantly have at least one child hanging on me every second of every day, especially the 2 youngest . I stay up super late just to have alone time and that usually consists of food and TV. When DH is home it's all about him. Come help me with this, come sit with me for that. They make me feel guilty when I want to do something for myself. Especially DH because he's only home from about 7pm on Friday to 4 pm on Sunday.
 
Tigger, this is EXACTLY what I needed to read today. I'm at work and was thinking about not going to the gym at lunchtime. Not any more - thanks for pushing me to go!!!






Can I just say ditto?? My biggest "problem" time is right when I get home from work - before I can get dinner going. A handful of pretzels here, a few goldfish there - and yikes! before I know it I've eaten half a bag. It's a work in progress, I guess...



What a great slogan. I printed it out and put it on my bulletin board at work.

After a rotten week last week, I relaxed a bit this weekend to simply spend lots of family time together. I really needed the "breather" and now feel ready to get back with the program. I attended a funeral last week of a friend who committed suicide. It has really shaken me. We lost touch (other than a few infrequent phone calls) since we left our former employment. It is so sad to realize that people can get into such a place of despair that there is nothing left for them. Had he been able to see the number of people who honored him at the funeral I think he would have realized how many lives he touched. I know that there is nothing we can do for him now (he had no family left at all) but in his memory, I am trying to make sure that I reach out to all my friends who have meant so much to me more often.

:hug: I'm so sorry to hear about your friend.

Food. I love food, I don't know accurate serving sizes, I'm a carb freak. I'm home all day so food is a constant companion. I'm bored, grab some chips, I'm watching TV, grab an ice cream.

That and trying to balance family and me.
I constantly have at least one child hanging on me every second of every day, the 2 . I stay up super late just to have alone time and that usually consists of food and TV. When DH is home it's all about him. Come help me with this, come sit with me for that. They make me feel guilty when I want to do something for myself. Especially DH because he's only home from about 7pm on Friday to 4 pm on Sunday.

I can so relate with the hanging kid and the late nights. I also stay up late so I can have some quiet time. I try not to eat after 9 but I stay up until 1:30 or 2... 11:00 until I fall asleep are sometimes very hard. I hate falling asleep hungry.
 
Tuesday's QOTD: Not being able to say NO to my Pepsi and Popcorn fix late at night. Thats the hardest thing for me
 
Tuesday QOTD: What are the obstacles you encounter on your journey of personal change?


My biggest obstacle is when I get down to my goal weight. I have trouble figuring out how to stay there. I get a little lax and not as vigilante with things. Nothing out of control, but definitely not as gun-ho! I find it easier to be loosing weight than to maintain it. I have been at my goal before, and I am 9.8 pound shy of reaching it now. I know I can get there, even before our trip to Disney in Feb. I don't know exactly goes wrong...stress, the house, the kids needing things, things breaking, family getting sick..I guess it all comes down to stress and how I handle it. I need to find a way to channel that stress so I don't wind up on the loser side again, but rather on the maintainer side. My back/discs would certainly appreciate it...I have very good motivation, no pain when I am at a good weight. I need not to get in my own way, or let other things get in my way. When it comes down to it, we are talking life or death, pain or no pain.
 

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Tuesday QOTD: What are the obstacles you encounter on your journey of personal change?

To be totally honest it is my own laziness. Lack of motivation. Snacking after dinner. I need to get up and do it. I have been great about going to the gym. I just need to focus more on getting things organized and cleaned around. here.
 
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Tuesday QOTD: What are the obstacles you encounter on your journey of personal change?

To be totally honest it is my own laziness. Lack of motivation. Snacking after dinner. I need to get up and do it. I have been great about going to the gym. I just need to focus more on getting things organized and cleaned around. here.

Come on! You can do it! How about if you just change 1 thing, just one thing that you see as an obstacle. Every change adds up to a totally new you..and before you know it you will be thinking to yourself, I can't believe I use to do that! I do that with McDonalds all the time..I never ever go.
 
Tuesday QOTD: What are the obstacles you encounter on your journey of personal change?

My biggest obstacles seem to be controlling myself when making choices on what to eat and making the time to eat something healthy.

I have a 3 year old and a 7 year old and work third shift weekends at my local hospital so that I can be home all week with my children. Since I am home all week I should have all the time in the world to have breakfast and lunch, but it seems like everyday by the time I get to where I remember or have the time to have breakfast it's almost lunch and then some days I might not eat lunch either. Those days by the time I am making dinner I am ready to eat my arm off and end up snacking, and by snacking I mean eating everything in site, the entire time I am cooking. Then I sit down and eat a full dinner. I know if I ate a healthy breakfast and lunch I would feel better during the day and it would really help my metabolism.

As far as my choices and lack of control I always have snack food in the house for the kids. I do try to buy things that they like but I don't care for so I am not as tempted, but sometimes you need cookies and look there they are right in the pantry waiting for me. Who wants carrots when there are cookies...

Then since I work 12 and half hours at a time on third shift, I get this idea that "hey I am working a really long day through the night when my family is sleeping, I should get to eat whatever I want". And at night our choices are limited, if you don't bring something from home you ar eating out of the vending machine or there is a small part of the cafeteria that stays open until midnight, but it is almost all fried food.
 
WOW!!! Okay doesn't it seem like kids are getting bigger feet? DD is 11 and is wearing women's 9 and is 5'2". Her bff is a few inches shorter than her, is 12, and is in women's 9 or 10! And get ready for this - her bff's brother is 18 but he's in a size 14 shoe!!! Where do you even buy those?! And it's hard to find 11 year-old shoes in a women's 9!

I can imagine! I've heard it's hard to shop for girls clothes, too, everything is too grown up. We have it a little easier for boys but really how many skull t-shirts does one guy need? :confused3

QOTD: As I'm reading through I certainly see a common thread "ME" whether it is weekend eating, peer pressure, not wanting to exercise, not saying no, etc, etc, etc, it all comes down to me. Aside from physical limitations that someone might have it all comes down to our own mental strength as to whether we choose to succeed or not. We all have the power. So just like everyone else my biggest obstacle is me. I sometimes make poor choices like last nights cheesecake or not making time for exercise. I am responsible for me and therefore I am not only my biggest obstacle, but my only obstacle.

But luckily you are the one who can change things too! :thumbsup2

Family/work - I work full time and my son is 5 and in daycare near my office. So once I get off work I am busy with picking him up, dinner, getting him ready for bed, etc. I have maybe one hour to watch tv before bedtime. I've started getting up super early (5:20 a.m.) in order to do Wii Fit Plus before work. That is the only time I CAN do it.

And isn't it great when you come home at night that you've already done that for yourself? :goodvibes

:hug:, jbm02. I am so sorry for your loss.

Oh, and drinking water. Ugh. I've never been a water drinker and it's hard to drink 8 glasses a day.

But do you get hydration from other things like coffee or tea? I've heard they are relaxing recommendations on hydration and are more accepting of things besides water but not, of course, soda. ;)

My biggest problem is the all or nothing attitude. If I mess up and eat something bad then I keep that up for the rest of the day. What I have been trying to do is if I mess up stop it there and start fresh the next meal. Not the next day. This is how I sabotage myself. I am trying to stop this.

Good for you! :hug: Here is a quote that might help you next time that happens. Someone told us about it in the BL challenge we did during the summer . . . so if it was you who gave us this quote speak up! :goodvibes

If you were driving down the road and got a flat tire, would you fix the flat or would you shoot out the rest of the tires? :confused3 You probably would fix the flat and keep going so you need to try and do the same with your habits. Forgive, forget and move on.

The fed ex method, in case you don't know, is to put EVERYTHING in one pile and sort from there.

pjlla, thanks so much for this helpful tip! :thumbsup2 I'm going to teach it to DS!

Food. I love food, I don't know accurate serving sizes, I'm a carb freak. I'm home all day so food is a constant companion. I'm bored, grab some chips, I'm watching TV, grab an ice cream.

That and trying to balance family and me.
I constantly have at least one child hanging on me every second of every day, the 2 . I stay up super late just to have alone time and that usually consists of food and TV. When DH is home it's all about him. Come help me with this, come sit with me for that. They make me feel guilty when I want to do something for myself. Especially DH because he's only home from about 7pm on Friday to 4 pm on Sunday.

:hug:, Buffy. Isn't it nice to be needed and loved? But don't feel guilty about taking the time that you need for you -- they might be wearing funny clothes and not too clean but they will be fine!

Tuesday's QOTD: Not being able to say NO to my Pepsi and Popcorn fix late at night. Thats the hardest thing for me

Hmmm, the popcorn part probably isn't too hard to fix, maybe switch to airpopped or fat free and use seasoning. popcorn:: Is it real Pepsi or Diet Pepsi? Maybe you could gradually cut out the soda -- even as little as cutting back a sip or two day by day. How about a nice cup of decaf tea?

:hug:, redwalker. You've worked so hard and are so close to goal. I think maintaining is going to be a lot like losing -- one day at a time! I know you can do it!
 
Just popping in for some encouragement....

Last Friday was my birthday, and I ate far too much on that day! And Saturday. And Sunday. UGH! Then I was all excited about starting my 7-day pass to the gym this week (which I will be joining at the end of that week). But something else "started" this week and it's bad this month and I am just so uncomfortable. A hard workout of any kind is going to have to wait!:sad2:

I'm dreading Friday and having to get on that scale for weigh-in.

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Just popping in for some encouragement....

Last Friday was my birthday, and I ate far too much on that day! And Saturday. And Sunday. UGH! Then I was all excited about starting my 7-day pass to the gym this week (which I will be joining at the end of that week). But something else "started" this week and it's bad this month and I am just so uncomfortable. A hard workout of any kind is going to have to wait!:sad2:

I'm dreading Friday and having to get on that scale for weigh-in.

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Legomom - happy birthday!! And woo hoo!! :woohoo: you've gotten your indulging and tom out of the way!! It's all better from here!! :banana: Can you just start out with some cardio machines?
 
Hi everyone. I guess I am in with the people feeling bad these days. It started off lousy but I am home now. Going to put on my pj's. CLean the kitchen and watch BL. I need to get in some yoga time tonight to clear my head.

QOTD It is definitely me. I know how to sabatoge myself all the time. I have to get my mind into the game I have to play to lose weight but it just doesn't seem to be coming to me these days. I hope gettingmore into yoga may help. I know it will help with at least my attitude. I can't let other people ruin my day like I did today. It is the other person's problem not mine but it ruined my day. I can't let that happen again.
 
Hi everyone. I guess I am in with the people feeling bad these days. It started off lousy but I am home now. Going to put on my pj's. CLean the kitchen and watch BL. I need to get in some yoga time tonight to clear my head.

QOTD It is definitely me. I know how to sabatoge myself all the time. I have to get my mind into the game I have to play to lose weight but it just doesn't seem to be coming to me these days. I hope gettingmore into yoga may help. I know it will help with at least my attitude. I can't let other people ruin my day like I did today. It is the other person's problem not mine but it ruined my day. I can't let that happen again.

Stupid people! They are hard to ignore sometimes. Just think of Einstein's attitude! ;) and always come here for hugs :hug: You are awesome!!! A great mom, friend, teacher, wife and person, and I got all that just from reading about you, never having met you! Relax in your pjs, enjoy BL and your family and start over tomorrow feeling healthy and happy.:hug::hug:
 
Hmmm, the popcorn part probably isn't too hard to fix, maybe switch to airpopped or fat free and use seasoning. popcorn:: Is it real Pepsi or Diet Pepsi? Maybe you could gradually cut out the soda -- even as little as cutting back a sip or two day by day. How about a nice cup of decaf tea?

When I make popcorn I make it airpopped with either olive oil or canola oil in the pan and I usually season it with popcorn butter salt... My Pepsi is the real Pepsi. When I don't drink my soda during the day I have major headaches... I just may end up changing to Green Tea which people say is healthier for me.
 
Hi all:wave:

Glad to see i haven't missed too much. I have a 40lb goal to lose for the whole year. I decided this morning that since i knew I needed to lose a few lbs for a pair of pants I bought on Sun. (They fit everywhere else perfectly just a smidge tight at the waist) That maybe i should set an actual weightloss and exercise goal for this yr. So i did.

Not sure how much I'll be able to keep up with the thread but I'll report in and do my best. :thumbsup2

Good luck to everybody with you own goals
 
Just popping in for some encouragement....

Last Friday was my birthday, and I ate far too much on that day! And Saturday. And Sunday. UGH! Then I was all excited about starting my 7-day pass to the gym this week (which I will be joining at the end of that week). But something else "started" this week and it's bad this month and I am just so uncomfortable. A hard workout of any kind is going to have to wait!:sad2:

I'm dreading Friday and having to get on that scale for weigh-in.

Hey there twin:thumbsup2

My birthday was friday too:rotfl: And while I did not go too crazy on the weekend I did have lots of cake and a bit more soda than I usually allow. But then that's what birthdays are for:rotfl2:

As for the something else I know what you mean. I switched how i handle it and now I can exercise right through if i choose to. Hope you're feeling better soon.
 
I can so relate with the hanging kid and the late nights. I also stay up late so I can have some quiet time. I try not to eat after 9 but I stay up until 1:30 or 2... 11:00 until I fall asleep are sometimes very hard. I hate falling asleep hungry.

I fall asleep on the couch all the time. Usually because DD or DS8 is in my bed when DH is gone. You'll see me on here a lot at night. I'm generally a night time person to begin with but when DH is not home I just need peace. Last night I stayed up til 3 to watch Hoarders. They say not to eat after like 6 or 7, but what time do those people go to bed? We usually eat dinner around 7.

:hug:, Buffy. Isn't it nice to be needed and loved? But don't feel guilty about taking the time that you need for you -- they might be wearing funny clothes and not too clean but they will be fine!

They are not clean, I can tell you that much. The boys are on their own with laundry and baths. DD took a bath last night and it was the first time she didn't scream bloody murder. She's almost 4! At least I didn't feel like ripping my hair out like I usually do.
The clean clothes and what not doesn't bother me. But they never ask DH to do or get anything. They will bypass him and come find me, and he doesn't mind! I'm not the only parent! I have to take showers at 2 in the morning to not be interrupted (doesn't help that we have 1 bathroom but still). But when I go to scrapbook crops, one time a month, I get the guilt trip, the 1000 phone calls and texts, when are you going to be home? What's for dinner? I don't have lunch for the kids. Hell, I get lunch ready and lay out the kids clothes the night before so I get 5 less phone calls.
Ugh, sorry monopolizing the thread.


I can't let other people ruin my day like I did today. It is the other person's problem not mine but it ruined my day. I can't let that happen again.
I tell my kids this all the time. "You can not control the way people act, only the way you react towards them."
 
I just have to tell everyone how excited I am! I spent and hour and a half on the phone last night booking our first ever disney trip. We will be going Dec 4-10th! Ok, I'm done now. LOL!

We will be there Dec. 1-9! Totally need to meet up while were there!
 
jbm02- Tigger, this is EXACTLY what I needed to read today. I'm at work and was thinking about not going to the gym at lunchtime. Not any more - thanks for pushing me to go!!!

Glad I motivated you!

I hope to get in 2 more miles of something today. My stomach is bothering me. I think it was the Chinese food from yesterday. Ate well today. Just made turkey and ham paninis with muenster cheese on homemade bread. Had a little bit of chipotle mayo with that. I had a ham pita with chipotle mayo for lunch. I bought M&Ms again today so I got to have my handful as we were mostly out of other chocolate!

Having a FUZE Green tea with my supper and then I will get back to my water.

Hoping to walk with Redwalker in the morning at the mall!

Have a nice night ALL! I can't believe I haven't been on all day! I was 3 pages behind!
 
Hey all you Losers! :laughing:

I love reading about everyone's day. My DS5 loves reading the messages with me and looking at all of the smilies and avatars and siggie lines.

Speaking of DS5, he took about year off of my life this morning. He was sitting on my bed happily munching Life Cereal (out of the box, of course) while I was in the kitchen. He starts SHRIEKING unlike anything you've ever heard! A teeny, tiny spider dropped down on a web right next to him. This kid cried for an hour--I'm not joking. I called him Little Mr. Muffett. Now in all fairness to DS5 he was bit my a spider last year, developed a cyst and ended up with surgery to remove it. :sad2: I guess that whole ordeal effected him a little more than I had thought!

I have walked 14 miles since Saturday! :yay: 14 miles! :woohoo: This is from the gal that usually sits on her ample bum. I'm feeling pretty proud of myself this evening.

My in-laws are coming over tomorrow evening to help me with some household chores (like taking down the Christmas lights and re-hanging a door). My husband is still working in Alaska so they help out occasionally. Anyhow, they want to do Chocolate Fondue tomorrow! :scared1: There is no "light" way to do Chocolate Fondue! I figure I will stick with the fruits and stay away from the other dippable sweets. Its the best I can hope for!

Have a great evening everyone!
 
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