I hope that I can still join.
My name is Shirley and I am 56 year's old (wow)! I lost my dh of 30 years just last month to cancer (very unexpected). One of the things that we had talked about was me taking better care of myself (we had planned to do a lot of things together once he was better).
I have never been overweight until about 7 years ago I just started packing the pounds on (up until then always weighed in at 99 lbs, except pregnant with my dd when I weighed in at 119). Went to drs and they ran all kinds of test and nothing seems to be causing the weight gain except I guess getting older.
I had gotten up to 166 lbs (only 5'2") but during husband's illiness have lost 9.5 lbs. Of course it hasn't been in a good way just not eating because dh wasn't eating. I would eat at work but for some reason when he didn't eat I didn't want to eat either and believe me I tried pushing food on him till I about drove him crazy.
Now that there is only me at home maybe I can start making good meals (he was a very pickey eater) though I'm still trying to figure out how to cook for one. I am hoping to lose around 40 lbs though anything will be better than losing nothing.
Boy do I ramble when I talk about myself.
Good luck everyone.