Jayne.... I'm so excited for you to be hitting goal (hopefully) this week! I can't wait to get there myself! Come and share that thrilling feeling when you hit it! Have your camera handy and take a picture of the number on the scale!
I know what you mean about buying better clothes. I used to just buy cheap
Walmart and Target clothes. I am not a big shopper and of course, I hated buying clothes in my "fat" size, so I just bought enough to get by... and of course I ALWAYS thought that I would be losing weight so that the clothes were always just "temporary". But now that I am approaching my goal weight, I am definitely thinking about better clothes to buy. I still shop at the Goodwill and Salvation Army (the only thrift stores around here), but I try to buy better brands that will stand up to the test of time.
My "thin" SIL gave me a bag of clothes this past weekend that she is not wearing any more (she lost 11 pounds and is down to a size 2

). She gave me some great pants... Ann Taylor, Gap, Tommy Hilfiger and they ALL FIT!! (mostly size 6). She is shorter than I am, but most of them were average length.
Anyhow, about my SIL losing weight... my Mom thinks that she (my SIL) is secretly feeling competitive with me about my weight loss and she doesn't want me to be the "thin" one in the family. I have NEVER seen my DSIL really overweight... even after she had her kids! She has probably never been bigger than a size 6-8 in all of the time I've known her. She is one of these people who loses weight and can't eat any time she is feeling stressed, depressed, or angry, whereas I want to do nothing BUT eat when I am feeling stressed! SO I find it interesting that for some reason she is feeling this way. It really doesn't bother me I guess. I will never be as thin as she is (right now after her 11 pound weight loss she is at about 110 lb) and I have always thought she was so pretty... so I'm not sure why she feels this way. Maybe she feels like that is her "identity" in the family... as the "thin, pretty, fashionable one" (yikes... does that make me the "fat, frumpy one"??).
Well... anyway... I hope my Mom is wrong about this, but my Mom usually has pretty good instincts. But I would hate to think that my success on the weight loss front has caused any problems/stress or a feeling of competition for my SIL. But I'm happy for the hand-me-downs anyhow!!
And you know... my cousin who I am fairly close with (and who shares my love of all things Disney) struggles with her weight too. And she was more than happy to give me a high five when she found out that I was wearing DSIL's size 6 hand-me-downs. If there is ANYONE who should be stressed about my weight loss and feeling competitive, I would think it would be another person struggling with their weight... but as usual, my DCousin is as sweet and supportive as can be.
Well... gotta run. DD and DH are at a Rainbow Girls/Dad fun night, so I promised DS I would play a game with him after homework time.......P