Biggest Loser 10 Fall Challenge -- for losers and maintainers :)

Kathy - you are never alone - I'm always with you (not in a creepy way though):goodvibes

Lisa I can't believe you remembered I said that about Michael :rotfl2:

Taryn - stopping the mascara you put a :) on my face

Rose :hug:back to you ! and I agree, your pizza sounds tasty. I love goat cheese on pizza.

We're supposed to be getting rain today...it's dreary and cold. We need the rain so this will be a good thing though.

DD and I are in the middle of our HP marathon to get ready for Friday.:woohoo: It turns out the timing of the movie might be a good thing, it's the same as the first middle school dance and dd wasn't sure about going - so when I told her she can't b/c we have HP she sounded relieved. And so it begins....:rolleyes1 She was funny though, after that I told her I don't think I went to many dances in school and she said "Well what's the point? You can dance at home AND video tape it!" :lmao:
 
QOTD: Tuesday, Nov.16th What do you do for an instant mood enhancer, that's not food/exercise related, when you've got the blahs?

I love to pull out a book or magazine I haven't opened yet. It seems like a treat to lose myself in good fiction! (We need a book smilie!) I often save my favorite authors because I know they will always perk me up when I need it.

I think I'll probably win the prize for "geekiest answer!" :rotfl2:

Yesterday's conference turned out to be really good, I'm glad I went. I also have a new pair of running shoes (Asics Nimbus 12), so I should be nice and comfy come January for the WDW Half.

I'm still trying to get the eating under control, and I am not winning :sad2: I am hanging my hat on the new WW program. I am going to embrace it and take it as far as I can! :thumbsup2

I'm going to get back into the swing at work today, and I'm hoping tomorrow I can be a better support to everyone. What a great group! :grouphug:

Maria :upsidedow
 
I REALLY need to catch up. I've been slacking! I will make some time today to catch up on this thread!
 
I REALLY need to catch up. I've been slacking! I will make some time today to catch up on this thread!

ha has - we can start a slackers thread...of course I'll only post every month or so...but I'll join you on there!:thumbsup2 I wouldn't feel behind then.:goodvibes
 

QOTD: Tuesday, Nov.16th What do you do for an instant mood enhancer, that's not food/exercise related, when you've got the blahs?

I usually try to dress in a much nicer outfit for work and spend some extra time on my hair. I also try to clean up or organize it always makes me feel better when I have a clean desk or at least if I can organize my thoughts. At night I try to forget about everything else and focus on my kids. They can also put a smile on my face.

News on the job front--Mike is going to temporarily (4 months) fill the position they posted. And then in 4 months both he and his boss (and his boss' boss) can see how they feel about things. Gives everyone, including Mike, and out if they decide it's not the best position for him. Mike is excited. I am not sure how I feel. But he's happy, so that's all that matters. They are announcing it in such a way that if any of the parties decide to go a differenct direction, no one looks bad. So that's good, I guess.

Glad to hear your dh feels better about it. I hope it works out for him.


Its a rainy cloudy day here today too. I am down to the bare minimum of food at home and was excited that today we were scheduled to have a drug rep lunch brought in. Unfortunately they called this morning and cancelled on us. Apparently they had a death in the family. Understandable but the entire office was counting on a meal and most of us did not bring lunch and dont have money to buy anything. Its sad we are all in a decent paying profession and no one ever has money. It really is hard right now for so many people. Gas is up to almost 3$ a gallon.:scared1: Thats really what had us falling short this pay. So not sure what I am going to eat today but I guess it will help in getting the lb off that I put on over the weekend.:lmao:

Have a great day everyone.
 
Finished giving my massage and just waiting for my boss to return so I can head out to get The Christmas Carol and a few other things.

It's a dreary day here!

QOTD:My pick me up is Christmas music or Disney music. I had those blahs last night and ended up eating chips and dip. I also am loving listening to the podcasts! They are definitely a pick me up!

Burgers for supper tonight on potato rolls. I'll also put some pickles and chipotle mayo on mine. Not sure if I'll get in another workout but as long as I'm drinking my water and green tea that's good.

Getting up at 5am to workout is catching up to me! I fell asleep a little after 9 last night on the couch. I was also really cold last night. DH thought I was crazy. I ended up sleeping in my heavy Grumpy sweatshirt last night.

Maybe I'll take a little nap today, yeah, right, like that's going to happen! DD2 has dancing tonight and I should really get to the dump tonight or maybe wait until Thursday afternoon when it's not dark.

I'm starting to get that overwhelmed feeling that I always get before a trip. Luckily I have 2 weeks to get things set for that trip. We need to make our grocery list for Publix and I need to make sure DH has enough shorts. Of course, trying to buy shorts in NE in mid November is a challenge.

I had my LUNA protein bar for lunch and I'll have some more water in the car on the way to shopping. Hoping I can also finish listening to last week's podcasts since I see that the new ones are being recorded as we speak!

TTFN :tigger:
 
I cried when I watched it ! I liked their attitude too. I hated the way they did the live part - you could tell who was going to be voted off !!! I could tell by who was in the crowd and by the baby picture. I hope some of those contestants who are left have some karma coming their way...
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Tayrn That quote reminds me we used to scream out "2319!" "2319!"
whenever we found some throw-up from our cat. That is a line from Monsters, Inc when one of the Monsters got "contaminated" by a human sock and they called out a code for emergency help:rotfl:

Shawn, I agree. When we knew who was up for elimination, I said to DH - Unfortunately, those boys are going home. You can tell from the sillhouettes they showed." They did look great, and were some of the ones to root for on the show. I was really glad that Aaron finally made the connection that what he was doing would benefit London, but that really he could and needed to do it for himself.

The Middle, by Jimmy Eat World:
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The middle of my weight loss journey seems to be taking a long time (due to my lack of effort), so I think this is appropriate. I have to remind myself to keep going and do the best I can. :thumbsup2

Maria, this is one of my favorite songs too! "Hey, don't write yourself off yet!" Always perks me up when I'm flagging.

Well,,,,,DRUMROLL Please!!!!!!!!!!!

50 pounds!!!!

Congratulations on the BIG 5-0!!! You'll be at goal before you know it!


Well, I decided to weigh in quickly this am. Um... lost another pound. How strange! I'm down 3 since I stopped running and trying. Of course, I'm not taking a lot of time to eat, so that's the key. I'll take it, though. I'm only 2 pounds from 70 loss, and 5 from what I had set as goal. This "maintaining" stuff is kinda working for me???:confused3

Fantastic! Gotta love "maintaining!"



Its sandwich day. Every day I give Pudge the fish a peanut butter sandwich. But today we were out of peanut butter. I asked my sister what to give him and she said a tuna sandwich. I can't give Pudge tuna! Do you know what tuna is? Its FISH! If I gave Pudge tuna, I'd be an abomination!

...

Despite all my frustrations on my slow two weeks, I managed to lose what I gained last week, So I am back to my all time low of 201. I just can't seem to hit that milestone of dropping under 200. I think it could be because I am just so focused on it. I will just keep treking on, and keep reminding myself the only clock that is ticking is the one I set for myself. So why can't I reset it if I need to?

I love that Lilo and Stitch quote too!

You know, that century mark is a big deal. I don't know if this is the case for you or not, but I have read a few people talking about what it took to cross various weight thresholdsand it's usually about some sort of underlying, unspoken worry about what it means. Being a person who weighs 1-something vs. a person who weighs 2-something, well, that's kind of a change in identity, even.

Of course sometimes the mind is ready and you're doing all the right things and the body just takes its sweet time. Keep on trekking - you'll get there! :hug:

Hi guys. I am not part of the challenge this time around and couldn't begin to try to catch up on the thread. But I did want to say hello.

Hi Linda! :hug: You've had a really rough year, for sure. It's impressive that you've been able to maintain your loss so well through everything. You're always welcome here whether as a loser, maintainer or spectator!

Along those lines, I had an "ah-ha" moment in the past few weeks, that will be instrumental in what I teach/pass on to my kids. I have always associated "meals" with feeling good. Want to celebrate? Go out to eat. Want to get away? Go out to eat? Want good times with friends? Go out to eat. Growing up, many of my memories are centered around the kitchen. It was the heart of my home, my grandparents' homes. Since starting my PC business, the girls are excited, and want to be in the kitchen, helping me. THAT's what I want them to get out of a "food attitude". Like Cam was saying about Andrew, sharing time in the kitchen is GREAT. I want it to be about the experience of cooking, eating together, sharing, enjoying each others' company, NOT about the food itself. The food gives your body fuel, the time with family gives your heart and mind fuel. If it's a eat and run night, then give your body the fuel it needs to do that. Otherwise, make the family time the experience, not so much the food. They'll remember the time together much more than what we ate. I can't really express it well just yet, but I know what I am feeling.


Wow, Taryn! I think you expressed it brilliantly. Food for thought, definitely. Keep ruminating - I think you are onto something BIG here.


Found out one of my sisters is not going to run the princess, most likely. Another one is injured, so not sure what's up with her, and I keep waiting for the youngest one to say she doesn't have enough money. The one who is not running is still planning on making the trip.:confused3 Honestly, I wish I would have not have started with this whole idea. I would personally rather run with Mike. He is my cheerleader, he carries my water, he keeps track of how many endurolytes I have taken and how many gu's--basically everything a princess needs.:thumbsup2

I told him today during our run, that I was going to have to call him during the last three miles of the Princess so he could tell me to keep running and that I can do it and to keep picking my heels up---that's what he says when I'm tired.:) Ok, now I'm crying. I know there are a lot worse things that could have happened, but this last month has worn me out. I was up from 1:30-2:30 again last night having a little panic attack. Ok, whine is over.

And those sisters are going to just have to get over it when I go to meet my Dis friends.:goodvibes At least I am looking forward to that.


Hugs :hug: For you, Rose. It is so hard to do Disney with extended family (as I learned when I took my mom and grandmother on a Disney trip). I imagine it is even harder to plan a race with them! It reminds me a little of my experience planning to do the 2009 WDW half - my first one - and I thought I had several friends who were also planning on going and running the race. Well, one by one, they dropped out and in the end, I had to decide if I wanted it badly enough to go by myself. In the end, I did it and I had a more amazing time than I probably would have with my friends along because I was so free to do what I wanted to do, to meet with WISH friends, to go to Jellyrolls (which I'd never done before) and to race my own race. I met many WISH friends for the first time on that trip and what they say is true: "No WISHer is ever alone at a Disney race." Well, unless they want to be for some reason. It will all work out OK.

I would love to have had years without all the comments about how fat I am. I still get them, but at least I am better about not letting them get to me.

Oh man, CC. :hug: Sticks and stones may break my bones but words hurt worse and longer than anything else. I'm so sorry you are still getting those comments. It's great that you have learned not to let them bother you, but I wish people would just keep their ugly comments to themselves!


Great job on the 5 miles Kathy!!! Enjoy that weather, because it's cool here today. And honestly, I am kind of hoping the whole sister trip falls apart. I am a horrible person, I know.;) But then Mike will just come with me.:goodvibes I told him he could cheer at the end of the race!:yay: I haven't bought plane tickets yet....

That doesn't make you a horrible person - I hope that Mike does get to do the trip, cause it would be so nice to meet both of you!

We had a GREAT weekend and my DS's robotics team took home the1st place Championship at our tournament, along with the first place trophy for our robot performance!! We are heading to State competition on December 4th!

Pamela! Congratulations on the Lego victory - not easy stuff, by any means! My DS's season is just warming up and we have a meet coming up in December.

Also congrats on the swimming triumph!

And finally the biggest Congratulations of all for avoiding the pizza and bake sale with your pre-brought foods! Good planning, girl!!

Am I being stupid here? Too stubborn? I'm hoping that the flat course that I'll be running on Saturday will be easier on my hip that the hills I train on or the monster hills I raced on last weekend. But, I also know that I'll be hobbling again when I'm done. After this race, I do have every intention of seeing an orthopaedist and trying to find out for sure what is going wrong and how to fix it. I also intend to take some time to heal, although I HOPE to start training again mid-December for a marathon-relay at the end of January.

Connie,
Congratulations on finishing your 2nd 10K, especially under such challenging circumstances. Also congratulations to your niece and DD - how cute that she got a medal. My 7 year old still talks about the time that he "won" the race for the cure kid's race. Though the fact is, he came in at the back of the pack....but everyone got little #1 dogtags, so in his memory, he won the race!

OK - on to your pain issues - my goodness, it sounds like rough going. I know you are excited about the upcoming race, but please do be careful - no single race is worth your health or jeopardizing your running in the future. There is no shame in taking a DNS or DNF if you do not feel that the race would be safe or comfortable for you to start or continue. My best suggestion for soft tissue distress is to get yourself some biofreeze and put it on at night before you go to sleep. This can really help bring down any inflammation that could be causing the trouble. Finally, I would suggest, if you have the funds for it, looking into some massage - especially if you can find a practitioner who knows about trigger points (little knots in the muscles that refer pain throughout a larger area), it can help immensely.

As for training without running, I do know that some people have done races while training almost entirely on elipticals. I think it doesn't give your feet a chance to toughen up, but you can still get the cardio and some of the same mucles working. Can you swim? Bike? Subbing in more cross training can also take the pressure off an injury long enough for it to heal.

Good luck and take good care!


I love to pull out a book or magazine I haven't opened yet. It seems like a treat to lose myself in good fiction! (We need a book smilie!) I often save my favorite authors because I know they will always perk me up when I need it.

I think I'll probably win the prize for "geekiest answer!" :rotfl2:

Hooray for geeky answers!!! Books are so awesome. SOME books. Some books...not so much. But the awesome ones are a great pick-me-up!


Like Maria, I am psyched for the new WW plan, too, though I have this theory that it is going to be harder as a vegetarian if points go up on things like beans and lentils. Time alone will tell. Apparently some people on the community have preview materials and can start talking about their experience (though not details) on Nov. 22. Only a week!

In the meantime, I am trying to incorporate some of the things they've been mentioning about it in the press - more whole foods, more fruits and vegetables (while fruit isn't free yet, I am trying to think of it as something that I can have when I want it - if I blow my 35 flex points on fruit this week, there are worse things!) and more protein/less refined carbohydrate. I used to do more along these lines, but at some point (over the summer, ahem) I got out of the mindset a little bit more.

I am still trying to shake lose the last few "summer" pounds - and yeah, it is November!!! - and I realized that I am a little grudging about giving up the "treats" I had added back in under maintenance. It is hard to lose the last few pounds because there is less excess to trim, but honestly, I know what I have to do, I just have to do it.

ALSO - at book club on Sunday, I had two dark chocolate mini-peanut-butter-cups from Trader Joe's. I gave myself an allowance of 2 points to use on something "junky" and I stuck to it. I had been sneaking a lot of little treats that add up over the past few weeks, and I think if I give myself a daily allowance for treats, I might be able to stop the extra munching.

Yeah, this is all stuff I knew back when....but it is so easy to forget!
 
QOTD--music usually does the trick, and sometimes i will just flat iron my hair and put on some makeup. For some reason it calms me down and puts me in a good mood. Strange, I know.;)Taryn--DS is driving with friends who live in the area. It's making me a little nervous, but will save us a ton of money. It's 500 miles, 7-8 hours. They are leaving Tuesday after class--so not until 5pm. When he flies it usually takes about the same amount of time, between layovers, etc.
News on the job front--Mike is going to temporarily (4 months) fill the position they posted. And then in 4 months both he and his boss (and his boss' boss) can see how they feel about things. Gives everyone, including Mike, and out if they decide it's not the best position for him. Mike is excited. I am not sure how I feel. But he's happy, so that's all that matters.
Music can lift a mood, definitely! And glad that Thomas is with a group of friends, as long as they are careful! Better than making the drive alone! I'm sure Mike feels better, like he didn't get "passed over". I'm sure that is adding to his excitement! You're right, he's happy, so all is well. :thumbsup2

One of my best friends in the world who is 48 is getting married for the first time T'giving weekend. I am a little surprised that she's having a full blown affair in church with white gown, veil and the whole 9 yards but good for I still have that voice telling me I can quit if it gets too hard so I am trying to show her:rotfl2: Oh yea, I saw the final score - that's why I was sticking my tongue out at you:goodvibes We have a big rivalry game this weekend (NC State) so would be great to win that game and we always play Duke for the last game of the year, they are our traditional rival. Would be nice to win both of those and then on to basketball... I'd love to get the link. I would send any orders to my Mom's house. I could bring back anything for me after Cmas and some could be gifts. Thanks! I bought all the ingredients for the African stew today but could not find green chilies. Music, my favorite scented candle and sometimes I will make a list of tasks that I need to do right away just to sort of lose myself in getting busy. Sometimes, I give myself a break on the computer for 15 minutes after each task is done. It sounds a little goofy when I type it out!:
Shawn, our big instate rivalry is UVA. We always have that game on Sat. after Thanksgiving. Should have mentioned that one in my Thanksgiving traditions, it's rather huge. Now basketball, you can stick out your tongue all you want! That's your sport, for sure! I reward myself with computer time, too! Doesn't sound goofy at all.

I'll pm you the link. Thank you much!

DD1 made my day this morning! She gave me a hug and then said "Mom, you're so skinny!" Then she did her hug test and is reaching even farther around me than before! I wanted to cry!:
What a wonderful NSV!!!!!!!!:cloud9:

Hello and hugs to everyone else. Got to run. Have a great day!!:)
Hope you did, too!

Kathy - you are never alone - I'm always with you (not in a creepy way though) Taryn - stopping the mascara you put a :) on my face
Glad I can make you smile! You do the same for me!

I love to pull out a book or magazine I haven't opened yet. It seems like a treat to lose myself in good fiction!Yesterday's conference turned out to be really good, I'm glad I went. I also have a new pair of running shoes (Asics Nimbus 12), so I should be nice and comfy come January for the WDW Half. I'm still trying to get the eating under control, and I am not winning :sad2: I am hanging my hat on the new WW program. I am going to embrace it and take it as far as I can! :thumbsup2
I hope the new program will jumpstart you on a new path with lots of success! Reading is a great break for me, too bad I'm too tired to read more than a page or two before I fall asleep!

I REALLY need to catch up. I've been slacking! I will make some time today to catch up on this thread!
Glad you stopped by! Nice of you to check in!

ha has - we can start a slackers thread...of course I'll only post every month or so...but I'll join you on there!:thumbsup2 I wouldn't feel behind then.:goodvibes
:lmao:

I usually try to dress in a much nicer outfit for work and spend some extra time on my hair. I also try to clean up or organize it always makes me feel better when I have a clean desk or at least if I can organize my thoughts. At night I try to forget about everything else and focus on my kids. They can also put a smile on my face. Its sad we are all in a decent paying profession and no one ever has money. It really is hard right now for so many people. Gas is up to almost 3$ a gallon.:scared1: Thats really what had us falling short this pay. So not sure what I am going to eat today but I guess it will help in getting the lb off that I put on over the weekend.Have a great day everyone.
Getting organized helps me, too! Gas is like 2.78 here... And we burn a lot of it... Hope you found something to eat!

QOTD:My pick me up is Christmas music or Disney music. I had those blahs last night and ended up eating chips and dip. I also am loving listening to the podcasts! They are definitely a pick me up!
I'm starting to get that overwhelmed feeling that I always get before a trip. Luckily I have 2 weeks to get things set for that trip.
WDW trips are my make a list and check it twice times!!!! You'll get it done. WDW music is usually a mood enhancer for me, too!

Wow, Taryn! I think you expressed it brilliantly. Food for thought, definitely. Keep ruminating - I think you are onto something BIG here. Like Maria, I am psyched for the new WW plan, too, though I have this theory that it is going to be harder as a vegetarian if points go up on things like beans and lentils. Time alone will tell. Apparently some people on the community have preview materials and can start talking about their experience (though not details) on Nov. 22. Only a week! I am still trying to shake lose the last few "summer" pounds - and yeah, it is November!!! - and I realized that I am a little grudging about giving up the "treats" I had added back in under maintenance. It is hard to lose the last few pounds because there is less excess to trim, but honestly, I know what I have to do, I just have to do it.

Corinna, it's been a big revelation. I've been really thinking on it. You'll have those extra pounds off quickly! How did I not know you were a vegetarian???

Well, people. That might be the last of the coaching I get in today. I have to take DD to get some jeans with a gc she got for her birthday. She has her big field trip this Thurs/Fri, so we need to get them before she goes. After we do that, she'll have gym until 8:30, so I won't be home before 9:30. If I have an energy, I'll get on then.

Have a great evening all!
 
Hi, everyone! I am sorry I haven't been around. I had the distinct displeasure of a migraine from Saturday morning through last night. I've been reading, though. I've been feeling really overwhelmed with life in general. There just seem to be so many aspects of my life that are in transition and over which I have no control: DS's college application process is energy-consuming; DD's apartment mate got a fantastic job in DC and is moving out their apartment 3 months into a one-year lease; work pressure is insane; my knee is an utter disaster and I've nothing more than walk as little as possible since the 9 miles I did on 11/7, etc. etc.

On a happy note, I see that Connie finished her 10k -- :woohoo: -- I am so happy for you, Connie, though I am so sorry your hip is hurting so badly. I wish I could help. My physical therapist thinks my hip pain is due to very tight muscles and has me doing an exercise where I lie flat on my back with a towel wrapped around my foot and I hold my leg straight out, pull it up, and over across my other leg. It stretches the muscles in the hip and improves flexibility and helps to minimize pain.

Taryn - Congrats on your website. I'd love to have the link. Pretty please? ;)

I am so sorry for missing so many people. I have a HUGE hearing tomorrow and I should be buried in paper, reading and preparing. I just had to check in here. Hopefully, sometime soon I will get my head and body back in this game. I am horrified at the prospect of stepping on the scale and seeing that I've lost probably a month's progress due to slacking. :(

Hugs, all! :grouphug:
 
Taryn--I need a whisk! Can you pm me your website?:goodvibes

Mmmmmm, pizza sounds good! I bought all the ingredients for the African stew today but could not find green chilies. Thinking about subbing a few jalapenos. Enjoy your son's visit!

Shawn:flower3:
Oh I hope you like it! I thought it was so good!

DD1 made my day this morning! She gave me a hug and then said "Mom, you're so skinny!" Then she did her hug test and is reaching even farther around me than before! I wanted to cry!

TTFN :tigger:
That is so sweet! My DS says the same thing. He will give me a hug and say, Momma, you are getting so skinny!

First day of Princess training in my new shoes. princess: It will be a treadmill run as it is cold, raining and blowing about 30 mph. I'm sure I should be a trouper and run outside but I just don't want to do that to my new shoes! :lmao:

Have a great day all!
Hope you had a good run Lisa! It was cold and raining here, too!

Hi Jennifer! Enjoy your HP marathon!

I love to pull out a book or magazine I haven't opened yet. It seems like a treat to lose myself in good fiction! (We need a book smilie!) I often save my favorite authors because I know they will always perk me up when I need it.

I think I'll probably win the prize for "geekiest answer!" :rotfl2:

Maria :upsidedow
I love books, too, but lately I've been too tired in the evening to go to the library and I'm too cheap to buy a book very often. I definitely need to make a trip to the library tomorrow.

Has anyone else been getting the "free" Redbook mag that came with Princess registration? I got my first three in like a two week period. It's not too bad.

Hi Lindsay!:goodvibes

Hugs :hug: For you, Rose. It is so hard to do Disney with extended family (as I learned when I took my mom and grandmother on a Disney trip). I imagine it is even harder to plan a race with them! It reminds me a little of my experience planning to do the 2009 WDW half - my first one - and I thought I had several friends who were also planning on going and running the race. Well, one by one, they dropped out and in the end, I had to decide if I wanted it badly enough to go by myself. In the end, I did it and I had a more amazing time than I probably would have with my friends along because I was so free to do what I wanted to do, to meet with WISH friends, to go to Jellyrolls (which I'd never done before) and to race my own race. I met many WISH friends for the first time on that trip and what they say is true: "No WISHer is ever alone at a Disney race." Well, unless they want to be for some reason. It will all work out OK.

- and I realized that I am a little grudging about giving up the "treats" I had added back in under maintenance.
Thanks Corinna.:goodvibes I think I was having a double dose of pms on Saturday. I was a mess. I just could not imagine running the race without Mike. I have never gone more than 5 miles by myself--I get it that I'm the one that is running, but he's a pretty good running partner. I think with all the stomach stuff I've been dealing with, I just got overwhelmed about the whole thing. I know it will all work out. And we will probably have a really nice time. And if not, I will have lots of new WISH friends to visit with!

As for the bolded part--I get that. When I first switched to maintain, I was really still just losing, but slower. The past couple weeks I have felt much more like a maintainer. I don't see my weight going down anymore without a concerted effort. And I think it would be a big shift to make that effort. I don't eat a lot of treats, but I am not nearly as compulsive about my choices as I was when I was losing.

Hi Cam. :hug: I know you have a daughter, too. But I have heard from so many Moms, that having their sons go off to school was really difficult. Hang in there.:hug: Good luck with your hearing.

I ran after work. I got my 4 miles in under 40 minutes but it was hard today for some reason. The dreadmill earned it's name today! I am over 12000 steps for the day.:goodvibes

We decided to have Amy's bowls for dinner because again, even though I planned dinner, just wasn't in the cooking mood. So I asked Mike to get me one of those tiny bags of Lays--the ones that cost like 30 cents when he got the Amy's. Remember chips are my achilles heel. I do not have them very often. He brought home a whole big bag of Lays! I almost had a panic attack. I made him take them back (we live a mile from the grocery store). I just couldn't have them in the house, or in his car, or anywhere for that matter. Not very rational, I know. Anyhow, really enjoyed my Amy's and my tiny bag of chips and a beer!

Hope everyone has a great evening. I am off tomorrow! Woohoo! Hoping to sleep past 5:00am.:goodvibes
 
1 day????????????? Really???? I know you said something about a girlfriend. Is he home and visiting her? PACK THE MOST INTO THOSE 24 HOURS YOU CAN!!!! I know you will! :hug:

He is in Alabama going to OTS.(Officer Training School) The way the Airforce does their leave he would have to take 9 days leave in order to stay for Thanksgiving. His leave would start Saturday and not stop until he gets back even if some of those days are week ends and holidays. So I understand why he needs to go back. Part of it is the girlfriend, she is going in December and he wants to save the few days he has. He has only been in since May so he has 10 days. We are going to to Turkey Friday night and then go to see Harry Potter.
 
Good evening LOSERS!

Watching the show with DH. Back is achy tonight and I'm not sure why, could be TOM or I lifted something wrong.

Going to get up tomorrow and do 3 miles on the elliptical like this morning. I feel better when I do.

Going to see Megamind with the family at lunchtime tomorrow. DH took tomorrow off. We were going to go see the Enchanted Village but will do that another day as it's too much driving and DD2 doesn't want to miss dancing and DH is on call.

Back to my water! No crunching on bad stuff tonight! I really want a good loss this week!

TTFN :tigger:
 
Today was an overall miserable day. I was too upset to study. But, I actually think a break from studying was a good idea. I am planning to study for a good 4 hours tomorrow morning and then relax at least until after dinner. If I study for 5 hours in total, I'll be very happy. I slept in this morning-that was another good choice. I'm hoping to wake up when the alarm goes off tomorrow and possibly exercise before breakfast. I need some exercise for the emotional benefit more than the weight loss benefit. Eating is remaining under control through all of this and I am down since Friday, so really, right now, exercising is necessary for me emotionally.

Sorry about the vent.

A few comments and then I'm off to bed:

Connie: Hope your hip is doing at least a bit better. You have quite the endure physically and mentally to complete a 10K in such pain. :worship:

Corinna: Thanks for the support! :goodvibes

Taryn: I'd like a PM too. :cool1:

Tracey: Congrats on 50 pounds! :banana: Love your DD! :cutie:

QOTD: Dising, espcially the BL thread! :)

Have a great day tomorrow! :goodvibes
 
Hi, everyone! I am sorry I haven't been around. I had the distinct displeasure of a migraine from Saturday morning through last night. I've been reading, though. I've been feeling really overwhelmed with life in general. There just seem to be so many aspects of my life that are in transition and over which I have no control: DS's college application process is energy-consuming; DD's apartment mate got a fantastic job in DC and is moving out their apartment 3 months into a one-year lease; work pressure is insane; my knee is an utter disaster and I've nothing more than walk as little as possible since the 9 miles I did on 11/7, etc. etc.I am so sorry for missing so many people. I have a HUGE hearing tomorrow and I should be buried in paper, reading and preparing. I just had to check in here. Hopefully, sometime soon I will get my head and body back in this game. I am horrified at the prospect of stepping on the scale and seeing that I've lost probably a month's progress due to slacking.

Cam - :hug: to you. Big tight bear hugs. NO MATTER WHAT, DO NOT GIVE UP. You have sooooo much going on right now. It's incredible. You do have control over what you eat at that moment. Make the best choices you can at that moment, and then give up and move on to the next. When life overwhelms us, maintaining our sanity is as/more important than weight loss. You are such an amazing person. As for getting head and body in the game, concentrate on what you can do RIGHT NOW to achieve your goals. What is the most important thing to be doing for yourself and family at this moment? You already know all this, as you are such a success story in your life. Take deep breaths, say a prayer, and know that we are here.

Taryn--I need a whisk! Can you pm me your website? As for the bolded part--I get that. When I first switched to maintain, I was really still just losing, but slower. The past couple weeks I have felt much more like a maintainer. I don't see my weight going down anymore without a concerted effort. And I think it would be a big shift to make that effort. I don't eat a lot of treats, but I am not nearly as compulsive about my choices as I was when I was losing. We decided to have Amy's bowls for dinner because again, even though I planned dinner, just wasn't in the cooking mood. So I asked Mike to get me one of those tiny bags of Lays--the ones that cost like 30 cents when he got the Amy's. Remember chips are my achilles heel. I do not have them very often. He brought home a whole big bag of Lays! I almost had a panic attack. I made him take them back (we live a mile from the grocery store). I just couldn't have them in the house, or in his car, or anywhere for that matter. Not very rational, I know. Anyhow, really enjoyed my Amy's and my tiny bag of chips and a beer!
I love your honesty, Rose. I am so impressed that you totally took control over the situation. That's why you are so successful!!! You are really a great example for us with your choices, exercise, and control. Your life in the maintaining world is a wealth of knowledge for us!!! HAng in there, PMS is the devil!

He is in Alabama going to OTS.(Officer Training School) The way the Airforce does their leave he would have to take 9 days leave in order to stay for Thanksgiving. His leave would start Saturday and not stop until he gets back even if some of those days are week ends and holidays. So I understand why he needs to go back.
Oh, I see. I hate that for you all though. Make the most of every second!

Watching the show with DH. Back is achy tonight and I'm not sure why, could be TOM or I lifted something wrong.
Going to see Megamind with the family at lunchtime tomorrow. DH took tomorrow off.
Hope your back gets better soon! Maybe a good night's sleep will help. Are the kids out of school tomorrow????

Today was an overall miserable day. I was too upset to study. I need some exercise for the emotional benefit more than the weight loss benefit. Eating is remaining under control through all of this and I am down since Friday, so really, right now, exercising is necessary for me emotionally.
So sorry hon. Giving your mind a break to assimilate all that info you have relearned is a good idea. Hope you get some exercise in, and all your mentall stress disappears!:wizard:

Well, we made it home, barely. Terrible storms. At one point I couldnt' see the road. To make matters worse, I got a hair under my contact when I cut Brad's hair, and it scratched it or something. I've worn my glasses for the last 2 days, which give me a headache and make driving in the dark, rain, miserable.

Good things are happening with Pampered Chef, and I am thrilled. I'll share more in a few days, once I've had time to process it all. For now, I'll say that it could be life changing, and I think I'll be able to buy the girls a few Christmas presents. Not a ton, but there will be something under the tree!

Exhausted, mentally and physically. I'll catch up with you all tomorrow. Had terrible, horrible, nightmares last night that have flashed through my head all day. Can't shake the scared feeling. Just need some sleep.

Nighty night! Sleep tight, don't let the bed bugs bite!:hug:
Taryn
 
I promise that I've read along, I'm just too exhausted to post much.


QOTD: I either think about our trip to Cancun last year or remember how fortunate we are to have Hunter after the scare last year and that puts everything into perspective.
 
I promise that I've read along, I'm just too exhausted to post much. QOTD: I either think about our trip to Cancun last year or remember how fortunate we are to have Hunter after the scare last year and that puts everything into perspective.

I totally understand about the exhaustion! And you have given me great perspective this morning!

Well, Miss Sophie wet the bed at 4:45 this morning, and was bright eyed and bushy tailed when they left at 5:30. Happy Birthday to my MIL. LOL.. She hates mornings, so I hope the ride there calmed Soph down and she'll fall asleep.

Lots of housework to catch up on this am, I asked DH to get the clothes out of the dryer and put what was in the wash in the dryer. Forgot to say fold them. Came home to a pile of wrinkly mess on the dryer. :lmao: Oh well, at least the clothes in the wash didn't sour.......

Today's QOTD is a bit introspective.....

QOTD Wednesday, Nov. 17th..Think back through your weight loss journey, what have you learned about yourself along the way?

For me, I've learned that I like healthy food, and I am just as satisfied with snacking on carrots as chips. I've learned that unless I take control of a situation, it controls me. I've learned that school lunches pack on pounds, unsweetened tea tastes just as good as sweet now, and that food is not an experience. The experience is the time together preparing and eating a meal, and food is fuel. I am just as fueled from a quick meal prepped and shared at home as a quick meal eaten from a drive through, and the experience is so much better. I've learned that what I do RIGHT NOW not only impacts me 20 years from now, but my girls, too. And finally, depravation only works for a while. If I am craving something, it's best to have a taste or two and get it out of my system, than deny that, obsess over it, and turn it into something bigger than it really is. I mean, c'mon Taryn, it's food, not a million dollars. It won't change my life for the better or worse just to eat a bite of chocolate or 2 or 3 potato chips. Get it over with and MOVE ON!

I've also learned that the most caring, supportive, amazing human beings on earth hang out on the DIS BL thread, and I am so very, very, very lucky to have found you all. :grouphug:

HAVE A WONDERFUL, FABULOUS, AMAZING, MAGICAL DAY!
Taryn
 
Taryn- The kids have a half day about 15 Wednesdays during the year. DD2 only goes a half day every Monday and Wednesday and full days the other 3 days.

It's pouring here this morning! Going to get stuff done around the house this morning and pick up the girls and head to the movies for the 12:30 show. Got some laundry to do and try to do a bit more packing. I also need to get making shirts for the trip. I'll try and get those printed today.

Did 2.5 miles this morning. Stopped due to a cramp. I'll try and do more later. I'll bring a Special K bar to the movies so I don't touch the popcorn. Got my weight loss meeting tonight.

Gotta get moving!

TTFN :tigger:
 
QOTD: I've learned that exercise is not a punishment! I've learned that I can control myself during the weekend. I've learned that fruits are great in smoothies. Greek yogurt is yummy and filling! The main thing I have learned about myself is that I should and will make time for myself each day. Other things can wait. Everything will get done and putting too much stress on myself makes for an unhappy and unhealthy Mommy!
 
Hello BL friends, it's another dreary day here and very quiet for me. Yesterday we had thick clouds and rain all day. I waited until 2:30 to run, hoping for a break from the rain but it never came. Can't believe I ran 28 minutes in the rain. It was also very cold, about 40 degrees F. Got an email last night that Yoga is cancelled today and Friday. Our instructor had to make an emergency trip to the US for a sick relative. So I don't have anything to do today! A girl in my class invited others to go with her on the train downtown to the Markthalle but I just felt kinda blah this morning so I didn't go. The Markthalle is huge gourmet market with foods from around the world and all kinds of specialties and delicacies. Expensive too. I have been catching up on housework and laundry and I watched the BL show this morning. It was a good show. I made a taco salad from our leftovers last night for lunch. It was so good! A bed of shredded lettuce, chopped tomatoes, red onion cut into thin rings, 3/4 cup leftover taco meat, 2 tbls shredded cheddar cheese and for dressing 3/4 cup salsa mixed with 1 tbls sour cream. For dinner we are having chicken stir fry over rice.

DD1 made my day this morning! She gave me a hug and then said "Mom, you're so skinny!" Then she did her hug test and is reaching even farther around me than before! I wanted to cry!

:lovestruc So sweet!

ShawnSounds like you had a great trip. Talking about the holidays, I work with a guy from Germany, and every christmas we intentionally irritate him by talking about the German Christmas Pickle tradition, and he goes ballistic saying that the german christmas pickle is not a true german tradition. Ah, the christmas traditions that bring a smile to my face.

:rotfl2:That is hilarious! I didn't know about this so I googled it. It is not hard to make a German go ballistic;) (No offense meant to anyone)

DD and I are in the middle of our HP marathon to get ready for Friday.:woohoo: It turns out the timing of the movie might be a good thing, it's the same as the first middle school dance and dd wasn't sure about going - so when I told her she can't b/c we have HP she sounded relieved. And so it begins....:rolleyes1 She was funny though, after that I told her I don't think I went to many dances in school and she said "Well what's the point? You can dance at home AND video tape it!"

Ah, the joys of the MS years:scared1: My son loved the dances in 6th & 7th but now it seems all the 8th graders are "too cool" for school dances:confused3 I have gained some insight into my son from reading the book recommended here for disorganized boys. Now I know when he is saying "I don't know" or "I don't care" its really a code that he is not going to come out and say anything or make any decision and that way he can't be wrong later. I've identified him (via the book) as a "Scattered Charmer"

You know, that century mark is a big deal. I don't know if this is the case for you or not, but I have read a few people talking about what it took to cross various weight thresholdsand it's usually about some sort of underlying, unspoken worry about what it means. Being a person who weighs 1-something vs. a person who weighs 2-something, well, that's kind of a change in identity, even.

Of course sometimes the mind is ready and you're doing all the right things and the body just takes its sweet time. Keep on trekking - you'll get there!

You wrote this for Tggrstarr but I am right there with her stuck in the same spot so I took this advice to heart too. Today the last of the 2 lbs picked up over the weekend are gone so I have a shot at getting under that mark soon. I am sooooo ready!

Hi, everyone! I am sorry I haven't been around. I had the distinct displeasure of a migraine from Saturday morning through last night. I've been reading, though. I've been feeling really overwhelmed with life in general. There just seem to be so many aspects of my life that are in transition and over which I have no control: DS's college application process is energy-consuming; DD's apartment mate got a fantastic job in DC and is moving out their apartment 3 months into a one-year lease; work pressure is insane; my knee is an utter disaster and I've nothing more than walk as little as possible since the 9 miles I did on 11/7, etc. etc.

On a happy note, I see that Connie finished her 10k -- :woohoo: -- I am so happy for you, Connie, though I am so sorry your hip is hurting so badly. I wish I could help. My physical therapist thinks my hip pain is due to very tight muscles and has me doing an exercise where I lie flat on my back with a towel wrapped around my foot and I hold my leg straight out, pull it up, and over across my other leg. It stretches the muscles in the hip and improves flexibility and helps to minimize pain.

Taryn - Congrats on your website. I'd love to have the link. Pretty please? ;)

I am so sorry for missing so many people. I have a HUGE hearing tomorrow and I should be buried in paper, reading and preparing. I just had to check in here. Hopefully, sometime soon I will get my head and body back in this game. I am horrified at the prospect of stepping on the scale and seeing that I've lost probably a month's progress due to slacking. :(

Hugs, all! :grouphug:

Wow, you have a lot on your plate:hug: Hope you can take it one day at a time and see light at the end of the tunnel soon. Thanks for sharing the stretch, I am always looking for a good hip stretch:goodvibes

He brought home a whole big bag of Lays!

Wow, you are really disciplined to have him take them back to the store:worship: Last week, I asked DH to bring me a Snickers:guilty:
home and he came home with a package of 6:scared1:
This was last Thursday and yesterday I ate the last one. I think I ate 3 and DS at 3:confused: YOU did the right thing!

Today was an overall miserable day. I was too upset to study. But, I actually think a break from studying was a good idea. I am planning to study for a good 4 hours tomorrow morning and then relax at least until after dinner. If I study for 5 hours in total, I'll be very happy. I slept in this morning-that was another good choice. I'm hoping to wake up when the alarm goes off tomorrow and possibly exercise before breakfast. I need some exercise for the emotional benefit more than the weight loss benefit. Eating is remaining under control through all of this and I am down since Friday, so really, right now, exercising is necessary for me emotionally.

Sorry about the vent.

I think a break may do you good:goodvibes Hope you are having a productive day today!

IGood things are happening with Pampered Chef, and I am thrilled. I'll share more in a few days, once I've had time to process it all. For now, I'll say that it could be life changing, and I think I'll be able to buy the girls a few Christmas presents. Not a ton, but there will be something under the tree!

:banana::thumbsup2:banana:

I found one thing I want for me and still browsing for gifts for others. Have always loved their quality.

QOTD Wednesday, Nov. 17th..Think back through your weight loss journey, what have you learned about yourself along the way?

HAVE A WONDERFUL, FABULOUS, AMAZING, MAGICAL DAY!
Taryn

Thanks, you do the same! :goodvibes

I have discovered that if I don't ever quit, I can continue on my weight loss journey and not have to start all over again. I can mess up, I can take a break, I can have a gain, I can have a blowout, I just have to keep focusing on forward progress, no matter how slow. I have also discovered that exercise gets easier the more you do it and that I can do some things I did not think were possible.

I think I will work on some needlework this afternoon; it's the good kind of day for that and then I need to get on the elliptical at some point. I'm not sure if I will go on the hike tomorrow or not, esp if it's cold and rainy out:eek:
I can talk myself out of anything:rotfl:

Have a great day!
Shawn:wizard:
 












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