Thank you so much, Melanie, for coaching last week! You were wonderful. And thank you, Deb, for doing it this week. Isn’t it fun?
Congratulations to all of the losers and maintainers and to everyone else who is still here, plugging along. You guys ROCK!
I am moving to the maintainers team. I think I am okay with where I am at. It may change slightly like you are learning but I think the biggest thing is that I feel good where I am at.
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Cam - I need to take a lesson from you and Rose. I have been avoiding working out except for the running. I am now going to figure out how to make a deal with myself to add some other exercising back in. I will give this some thought and report back with what I come up with.
Congratulations for moving to the maintainers team, Jen! You are doing so great and I think this new mindset will be so wonderful for you. On the exercise routine, I can’t wait to hear what you come up with. My normal routine was a colossal “fail” last night. I changed at work and was all set to go to the Y on my way home, but I checked a text from Howard that said he was in for the night, on the couch in his jammies and that there was room for me on the couch. So, instead of going to the Y I went home. I got there close to 7 and intended to grab something to eat and park myself on the couch with my Kindle and my iphone (to play “Words with Friends”). Instead, I ended up being on my feet for most of 2 ½ hours, organizing the freezer, prepping and cooking spaghetti squash and all sorts of veggies and cleaning the kitchen and organizing stuff for batch cooking this weekend. I SOOO regretted not going to the gym, even though I accomplished so much.
I ended up buying 6s. . . .
DS is still driving me a little insane. . . I did tell him that he can always call me no matter what, but if he calls me in two weeks boohooing because things weren't going well, there was going to be some tough love coming his way, because he's wearing me out, and worrying about him from 500 miles away was hard. I can't just go see that he's ok.
Rose, you are such an amazing woman and an awesome Mom. Congrats on the size 6 pants. That must have felt so wonderful!
I was home by 415p. Dh said he would pick up the kids so I went out and got a 5 mile run in. Beautiful weather!!!! I forgot my phone so I had no idea what kind of pace I was running. I was worried I would slow down but instead I think I might have cut a min or two off my time. Made dinner and now we are watching wizard of oz. Great night. Feeling good. I think if I could have this kind of schedule every day I would be much less stressed.
What a wonderful way to spend your “found time”! Kudos to you for sneaking in those 5 miles!
I had 2 mac wraps (660 calories total) but I had saved up my calories during the day and drank lots of water. . .I probably did between 8 and 9 miles today with walking to the wellness center, mowing the lawn, walking with Redwalker and then walking the track tonight. I really want a 3-4 pound loss this week.
I love how you squeeze in those miles whenever you can. You are really racking them up! Congratulations.

Oh, and I’ve been wondering about those mac wraps and have been able to persuade myself so far to avoid McDs. Sounds like they are good and not too calorie-laden. That with a side salad might be a nice treat for me the next time Howard and Andrew want McDs.
My interview went very well. ..I have my second interview with GroSolar tomorrow morning. We'll see how that goes. I'm hoping by Friday to know where I stand with both of those companies plus the one I interview for last week. I'm anxious to know if I have a job or if I need to get more resumes out there.
How did the GroSolar interview go?
I went to see my dietician yesterday. I actually found out that I have lost 42 pounds since January.
WOW! That is absolutely awesome! You must look and feel like a totally different person! Congratulations.
Oh, and thank you for the congrats for Andrew. He sings excerpts from “Basket Case” which I think takes a LOT of courage. LOL! He is fearless, though, and I am really proud of him for using his natural talents (vocal and as a musician and actor) to entertain.
. . .-- if you are single (I am not) and are only attracting men you wouldn't want to be with.There may be some reason for that. It may be what you are 'putting out there'. If you think you are worthy of someone you can really love--that person may be there for you once you have come to grips with the fact you are worthy.
I’m sorry you are going through a rough time, but I am so glad you have Penny to give you kitty love. Thank you for sharing your insights, though I am sad that that meditative process made you sad. I really wish my DD22 would learn the lesson I excerpted from your post, above. I can’t figure out if it is lack of self-esteem? Or her persistent need to champion the unloved/unfortunate that keeps landing her in relationships that aren’t right for her. She can see that none of these guys is “the one” and yet says she doesn’t want to hurt them by breaking up with them. As far as she is concerned, no one is “bad” – they just aren’t loved enough. It’s enough to make a mom crazy.
For those interested in the weight loss challenge website and password for Week 5:
www.weightlosschallenge.com
Course 3 Week 5
Userame: wlc
Password:losefat
Thank you SOO much for sharing this. I have read every word of week 1 and 2 and am learning so much. I really appreciate that you are willing to take the time to share.
Last chance workout was
hard yesterday. They had us crabwalking and doing the inchworm. Are you kidding me?

It is nice to have your workout done by 6:30 am.

Today I will run, tomorrow I will do 60 minutes on the machines and Saturday I will do a pilates class. That should give me my time needed for the challenge. I'm glad we have WIN! tomorrow because I want to see if I have any inch changes since the pounds changes have slowed down.
In case I haven’t told you lately, Lisa, I think you are totally wonderful! Thank you for all your support here and for sharing so much with us. I am always so impressed and intrigued by your workouts. I hope you see the results you deserve for working so hard. Can’t wait to hear how your WIN measurements work out.
I just got a book from the library last week called "That Crumpled Paper was Due Last Week. Helping Disorganized and Distracted Boys Succeed in School and Life"
Don't forget that your body needs some FATS to keep things moving along too. Usually if I am having an issue with things not moving the way they should be, it is usually because I have dropped my fats too low. REmember to keep some healthy fats in your diet......nuts, avocados and dressing with some EVOO are a best bet.
Secondly..... I've been struggling with my exercise and I KNOW it is because I hate the running so much, but I keep feeling like I MUST run
Thanks for sharing the name of that book, Pamela. I wonder if it is too late to try to implement some of those strategies with Andrew. I have really tried to give over ownership of his academic performance to him and have told him that ultimately, whether he gets into American University (his #1 choice) or not will be entirely due to HIS efforts. It is reassuring to me to hear that other parents have academically talented boys who struggle with organization and time-management. Andrew’s ADD is mostly controlled with medication, but I think the bad habits are just ingrained and hard for him to change. And believe me, you cannot succeed in AP and Honors classes with those bad habits as the norm. Anyway, thanks for the book reference – I am going to find it and read it. Maybe it’s not too late. LOL!
BTW, I do NOT agree that you HAVE to run to do “this”. I really believe you should find an exercise you love and stick to it until you don’t love it anymore. Then find something else. Right now, I am restricted to walking, but I find I actually enjoy it. Oh, and to read my Kindle and listen to music on the elliptical makes that a very selfish experience for me.
On your point about the fats? My doctor insists I am not seeing the weight loss because of my nearly fat-free diet. He highly recommends stir frying veggies once in a while in healthy oils and using low-fat products instead of fat-free.
Taryn, sweetie, when I read your post, I immediately looked at your avatar to see where you live. I swear, if I knew where you lived, and if I could, I’d come and give you a hug and I would do everything I could to help with anything I could take off your plate. You are such a generous and compassionate soul and I have to believe that that contributes to how overwhelmed and sad you are feeling (for example, just you worrying about that orphaned girl is probably making you even sadder, because you are so compassionate).
I am just so sorry you are feeling this way. I know that we all tell you how much we look to you for inspiration, but that must be something of a burden, too. You don’t have to be strong all the time, Taryn. You are going through a very stressful time and it is okay to need to fall back and re-group. Your girls will learn just as valuable life lessons from watching you deal with life’s struggles as they do from watching you persevere and succeed. I hope that makes sense.
Thanks everyone! I did really well today. No chocolate. The meeting did not go so well, but I didn’t binge!!!!!!!!!!
Great job yesterday, CC! Have fun at the comedy show with BFF.
. . .My day was super busy again. The interview went really well.
Congratulations on the great interview and the invitation to a second interview at the Paper Store. Be sure to report back and tell us how it goes. We are all rooting for you! Sorry your son felt sick while they took blood. I hope it was a one-time thing, maybe from not eating or something. Poor guy!
Connie, sorry DD was sick again. I hope she is much better today. I am sure Grandpa is spoiling her, right? Congrats on the 3 good days last week! Good luck making those good choices. If you find a magic solution, please be sure to share.
Congratulations!!!
Rose – What are pistachio crisps? I’ve never heard of them and I am always looking for new protein sources.
Shawn – Congrats on the loss and on the upcoming, unexpected mini-vacation. I would have totally freaked out in your shoes about DS not being where I thought he was. How old is he?
By the way, I have been losing posts like crazy. I think I have come up with a solution. I hit the multi-quote button for every post I am going to respond to and then I hit “post reply”. When it takes me to the reply window, I hit alt+A and copy the entire window with the multi-quotes and then copy that into a Word document. I do all my responses there because if I lose what I am doing, I can hit the “undo” icon and get it back. Then I hit Alt+A on the word document, and copy it into a clean “reply” window on the DIS. It is much more secure for me that way. The only problem is no smilies, so I have to post smilie-less or try to insert them without losing the post. This time I am posting smilie-less because my response got huge. LOL!