Big changes...kind of rant/vent

[3mtn-kate]

here we go, over the past few days i feel like i've lost my 3 best friends *not counting zach*
two of those friends *K and E* have become super tight over the past year and whenever I'm talking to one of them the other comes over. and then they both immediately leave me by myself. now the other one *T* is becoming really close with this new girl. now thats fine, but then over the weekend the four of them have all these plans that they dicuss in front of me but never invite me. or even ask if i'm busy of whatever...

am i being paranoid or sensitive or whatever? this has been happening a lot over the past few weeks...i'm really starting to be hurt.

and i've already tried talking to them about it but they all just say "no we're not! god katie stop being so dramatic!" I don't think it's dramatic to not want my friends to abandon me...again



ok rant over, go about your lives



EDIT: oh yeah and i cut 4 inches off my hair today : lol i love it that was kind of the big changes part of this whole thing that i forgot to mention

 

[StitchfansJr]

here we go, over the past few days i feel like i've lost my 3 best friends *not counting zach*
two of those friends *K and E* have become super tight over the past year and whenever I'm talking to one of them the other comes over. and then they both immediately leave me by myself. now the other one *T* is becoming really close with this new girl. now thats fine, but then over the weekend the four of them have all these plans that they dicuss in front of me but never invite me. or even ask if i'm busy of whatever...

am i being paranoid or sensitive or whatever? this has been happening a lot over the past few weeks...i'm really starting to be hurt.

and i've already tried talking to them about it but they all just say "no we're not! god katie stop being so dramatic!" I don't think it's dramatic to not want my friends to abandon me...again



ok rant over, go about your lives



EDIT: oh yeah and i cut 4 inches off my hair today : lol i love it that was kind of the big changes part of this whole thing that i forgot to mention

You sound like me. I had 2 friends: Danielle, and Al. None of them would ever call me. So I'd call Al. She'd talk to me for a few minutes. Oh no. The phone rings. Al said she'll be right back. It's Danielle. She said she'll "Call me later" because she'd rather talk to Danielle. She never calls me back.

Or, I'll try to make plans with her. She said that she'll come along. Last minute she calls me saying she's "sick" and she doesn't feel well. On Monday I hear one of her other friends, Tegan, talk about how much fun her, Al, and Danielle had over the weekend. Without me.

Another time her brother, Jake, would tell me about how much Al backstabs me when she's talking to Danielle. I don't know if I can trust her brother or not, though. When I brought this up to Al, she said that he was "lying" and "he doesn't know what he's talking about." Yeah, sure, whatever.
Now I don't talk to any of these girls anymore. I don't have that many school friends. Whatever "friends" I do have if they had to put their friends on a list, I'd be on the bottom. Maybe I wouldn't even be considered a friend to a few of them.

 

[goofyandplutoluver]

I know what you're going through. I grew apart from one of my closest friends this year.
I don't think you're being paranoid or sensitive, you might just need to accept you're growing apart and find new friends with the same interests as you.