because I cycle. As a cyclist, other cyclists don't define my character. I can NOT be responsible for THEIR behavior; their lack of obeying the law. Just the same when I am driving my truck: HOW AM I RESPONSIBLE FOR OTHER PEOPLE NOT DRIVING CORRECTLY!!!!!!!!!!! EXPLAIN THAT TO ME!!!!!
I have been commuting on my bicycle for years on Fridays. At stop signs I come to a complete stop, do a foot plant, look both ways, then proceed safely. I have lights, front and rear and always wear a helmet and glasses. I wear loud and reflective gear so people can see me. I see many other cyclists and vehicles NOT obeying the traffic laws, and again, how is this a reflection on my character? PLEASE EXPLAIN THAT TO ME AS SOON AS POSSIBLE.
I do not shout out at people or tell them what they are doing wrong: I DON'T MAKE THE LAWS AND I DON'T ENFORCE THEM. It makes me sick to my stomach even the thought of being an advocate. We are a car culture and the traffic designers did not build the roads and path to accomodate a large amount of cyclists. We took a trip to DC last year and saw people walking everywhere...they all took buses, rode bikes, rode the metro. Don't get me wrong, I saw lots of vehicle traffic. But here in central TX, the solution is to build more roads...and many people hop in their cars. NOT ALL, because there are those who are trying to do something about it. Austin is about 30 years behind Portland and how do WE make that up. I watched a video recently in Portland and there was a reporter standing there and it was a constant stream of cyclists.
I have listened to many unhappy people complain about cyclists disobeying the traffic laws...and it doesn't help those who do. When I see a full kit roadie blow a stop sign in front of me and my son my first instinct is to shout out at him. I did that last year in DC when we were in a no biking zone: I yelled out to a lady: WHAT, THE RULES DON'T APPLY? Her response: THAT'S RIGHT, THEY DON'T. NEVER AGAIN. Gordon Ramsay says it best for me: shut it. The best advice I can give myself is to keep my big fat mouth shut because people don't want unsolicited advice.
What I have found is that we are becoming more of a self-centered society and quite frankly, I see it as a losing cause. Self entitlement & rules don't apply has become so widespread it is only a matter of time before there are more examples of civil unrest. Just this past week, East Austin created a new sport: throwing rocks through the back windshields of APD patrol cars. LOVELY.
I have created the expectation of others taking the high road 100% of the time, WITHOUT EXCEPTION.
The solution quite simply for me it to keep doing what I am doing because it works for me. This past Friday was bike to work day and guess the participation from others? That's right...a big fat whopping 0%! It was just like any other day and quite it frankly has no appeal to others. So I kept my big fat mouth shut, and pedaled my happy *** home safely.
Have a nice happy, shiny and sunny Disney day.