Rose&Mike
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Without talking in too much detail, I can sympathize. I think it is a combination of advancing age and bodily changes (even changes in a good direction) can really throw off the hormones. Large amounts of exercise can change things too. I am a bit older than you (46 later this week) and my "Aunt Flo" visits started being really sporatic about a year ago. They have come back to a somewhat normal pattern now, but my PCP said I was definitely perimenopausal. My mom thinks I'm too young, but I think she is just in denial about having a DD my age!!![]()
If you feel comfortable just "letting it ride" for a few months, I would definitely do so, just to see if a pattern develops.
Well.... good afternoon everyone. Without going into detail I just want to share... we had a bit of a family emergency last night (actually, that is a bit of an understatement).... and I will say one of my first mental reactions was to want to EAT! I started thinking about finding an excuse to sit down and eat M&Ms and Twizzlers!! CRAZY! (We were just finishing dinner when this situation occurred, so it wasn't that I was hungry.)
I literally stopped myself in my tracks, talked OUT LOUD to myself about how I would feel tomorrow if I indulged in this "stress eating" (lousy, guilty, fat, out of control) and decided it definitely wouldn't HELP the situation. So instead of eating, I "stress cleaned" for two hours~! Burned some calories and got the house in decent order. I finally stopped cleaning about 10 pm... and went to bed.
Got up this morning without GUILT or REGRET, but still had the stress. Ran 4 miles, folded 4 loads of laundry, got DD off to school (DS not feeling well... but that is another story). Took care of some things, came home, made lunch, and power cleaned DD's bathroom! Obviously I am still stress-cleaning! And avoiding food actually... probably out of fear of going nuts.
I just wanted to share that small victory over food with those of you who would appreciate it! And yes, we are all fine and safe... but considering I RARELY feel stress about much of anything, this was a WHOPPER. But it too shall pass.
Probaly won't be on again until tomorrow....................P
Thanks Pamela and Lisa and Bree. That's what I needed to hear. Being the queen of google that I am, I did read that losing weight and lots of exercise can cause this fun issue in addition to perimenopause. I talked to my Dr. about this last time I lost weight and the same thing happened. She was not overly concerned, but did suggest the pill. I said no to that suggestion. Just feeling a little bit of frustration today, so happy to know I'm not the only one dealing with this. I've been doing the night sweat thing on and off the last couple weeks, so I'm guessing this is what is going on. Though DH does get awfully sweaty, maybe he is just making the room too hot!
I am determined to not let this derail me.Pamela--so glad everything is ok.
Sounds like you did great handling the stress--at least as far as food goes.Back to balancing my checkbook!

What a victory!
Plus I my allergies are actually a cold (I think that's your gift to me Shannon
I guess at least I counted right? And stopped! When I write it out it's not so bad - dd's cheer, working concerts to pay for that; Dad in Orlando? It's just not happening this summer. Scotland - flights & rental car paid, staying w/relatives, saving spending money. I feel more in control already. Those darn ants though! 
! I put two of those ant baits down in front of the front door where they were coming in from, it only took about 12 -14 hours to completely stop them. I don't have small kids or pets at my house, if you do, please don't use these types of baits/traps - they smell like peanut butter and would be very tempting! 
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..so I will have to be extra careful with dinner. Right now, DS is in the kitchen making "moo-less chocolate pie" with tofu...he saw it on an episode of Alton Brown's Good Eats and wanted to try it..I will take a bite to make DS happy, but I don't know that I am tofu person...guess we will see. I am happy that he like to experiment with food. 
At least I'll be moving right?

I hope Wednesday is a good day for you. 
I really, really hate the doctor, so I'm going to give it a couple more months and see if things "regulate". Ok, vent over.
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! I have a really bad dessert habit. I feel like I *need* to have something sweet after dinner. I try to make do with fruit, but it just doesnt satisfy that particular want. I enjoy having down time between dinner and getting ready for bed for my sanity, but I hate it because I cant keep myself from grazing. I think my personal COW for this week is going to be having a reasonable dessert (fruit or one snack cake or one serving of light ice cream, etc.) then brushing my teeth right away so I dont continue to graze. I really hope that works. Then Ill be able to say that my one treat is a sensible dessert on most evenings
