If you want great food-- Cape May has a delicious seafood buffet. The price was reasonable. Kids have plenty of non-seafood choices too.
Character Breakfast-- Cinderellas Royal Table (if you can get PS) located in the castle.
Character Dinner-- Everyone had a great time at Chef Mickey's at the Contemporary.
Best general good time-- Whispering Canyon at the Wilderness Lodge was so much fun. The waiters there were hilarious. Don't forget to ask for ketchup!
Best for Fireworks-- Rose and Crown at Epcot has fantastic fish and chips. If you get PS for 7:30 or so, you can watch Illuminations and have dessert. Simply awesome experience.
Best of Luck. These of course are OUR favorites. I hear really good things about Ohanas at the Polynesian, but I'm afraid of the food choices there. DD and DH are PICKY! Anyone else with picky eaters tried it?