I'm starting to plan my family's first trip to Disney. I'm a single mom of two kids (almost 5 & almost 7) on a very limited budget and I'd love to know your best tips for saving money - when to visit, how long, best type of ticket to get, must see attractions, etc. I have very reasonable expectations based on my budget like willing to go for only 3 - 4 days and only visiting certain parks. I'm just tired of waiting to be able to go all out. They'll be so excited and overjoyed to be there for the first time that I just want to get planning
My best money-saving tip is to not allow saving a dollar here and there cloud your "big picture" when it comes to saving money.
For instance, taking a small collapsible cooler and renting a locker to store it in so that you can bring your own food may sound like a great money-saving idea. That's until you consider the cost of the locker ($7-$9 per day plus $5 key deposit), the cost of purchasing a collapsible cooler (hard-sided coolers are not permitted in the parks) and then the cost of the food itself. By the time you factor all of that in, you're saving a lot less than you thought.
Getting ice water when you are purchasing a meal at a CS location is a great idea. You'll save $2-$3 per beverage by doing this. Standing in line just to ask for a cup of free ice water is a waste of precious park time. In that case, getting a drink from the water fountain or using refillable, filtered water bottles is a better choice.
Bring the little "emergency" things along that kids almost always need - Band Aids, Neosporin, Tylenol, etc. They're very costly in the gift shops and I have never gone to Disney without needing my first aid supplies.
Sharing meals at some CS locations can save you money IF everyone wants to eat the same thing. If not, it can be pretty miserable being the person who compromises what they want for the sake of saving a buck. It gets old very fast.
Don't get caught up in going to a specific CS restaurant just because the people on the disboards said it's got generous portions and can be shared easily. For one thing, that great CS location may not be anywhere near where you are when you're ready to eat. For another thing, those anecdotal posts are only an example of what worked well for that individual. Your mileage will vary with the age and appetites of everyone involved.
And keep in mind that when you're on vacation, time = money. You're paying a lot in both dollars and days off from work in order to go to Disney. Get the best possible deals that you can before you head out the door and then try to relax the purse strings a bit once you're there.